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Posted: 13 years ago
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when indra's mother first met rishi, she commented on his light eye color & i found it very funny. first off i want to say that this serial is the most realistic and true depiction of struggling middle class families, and the overall nuances of the show & actions are very enjoyable to watch as well.
so, back to rishi's lovely eyes - i found the comment funny because i actually have a family member whose eyes are light (not a dark hazel many desis could have in variation to brown) but more green & she happens to also be slightly crafty (for various reasons). so everyone always says "well isnt it obvious she's done (enter problem) ... look at her light eyes." (i think this judging of character based on eye color is due to british colonial rule ... & has transcended over time as a symbol of evasiveness and untrustworthy attributes.) it's quite silly but its still a passing judgement people make today - so i enjoyed this comment (despite it being baseless) because even social realism can be nicely depicted & not be shown as some excessive case of jadoo mantra belief..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nicely observed moksha89..I didn't know that light eyed people were considered crafty... but isn't such eyes considered cat eyes? and aishwarya is a proud possessor of such eyes as well...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yep. light coloured eyes are often referred to as cat eyes. and cats are traditionally seen as sly crafty animals who are really selfish and self involved! 😆😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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haha thanks.
i personally think attributes are god given gifts - but i think ideologies become shaped by experience & thus people always want to change something or have something they do not initially possess. in this case, i guess when british officers would have relations with desi women, and then these women gave birth to the children who possessed "foreign" looks, people took this as another sign of their invasion on home territories. also, the connections of appearance allowed judgement. cats are known to be independent, self-reliant, and self-serving animals .. so i think that judgement is also given to those with cat-eyes. for example, many people find aish very pretty, but also self-aware & kinda full of herself (but if i was married to bollywood royalty and miss universe, i would be too probably 😆 )
so i guess this makes the stereotype justified to many.
other examples where i noticed this: i really like karishma and kareena kapoor, both who have light eyes, but people think they are ridiculous because karishma had begun a relationship with a married man in midst of divorce while bebo is with a guy who can be considered her "father figure." many people have complaints with their mother, babita, who married into the kapoor's & then lived separately from her husband so that her daughters can pursue acting. even raj kapoor's womanizing was attributed to his features (& his light eyes were mentioned as a indication for his habit) ... it's so crazy.
feelings, experiences, and judgments are so dependent on one another!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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enjoyable to watch as wel
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Aaah really? I never knew so much about light eyes...honestly...thanx a lot for sharing...cause I thought it was always cool to possess them as they had a foreign appeal..is this notion more of a regional thing? cause in my community its referred to as Kota chokh...never heard anything bad being said about them...

@moksha- what is your name?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeah, you would think with the appraisal of fair-skin, light eyes would be desired too. i dunno, yaar. lol


rinky, my name is riddhi. very nice to meet you 😊 what is your's?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i have nothing against or for light eyes...i just know in my area the green contact lenses sell quiet a lot...😆

btw i am rinky...its quite evident from my user id...nice name ridhi...what does ridhi mean?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lol, i know same here. a lot of blue and grey in my area. hahaha.

riddhi is one of ganesh bhagwan's wives, & usually stands for wealth & success. i've never met anyone named rinky before - does your name have a particular meaning, too?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yap he is hot n his eyes😍
hayy mat pochoo yarr 🤪...

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