BV 24th October 2011 - Written Update - COMPLETE - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: asru

@ Sreevask
@bold - If Jagya runs ftr G without divorcing his wife Anandi is a crime, ,,,then ANandi 's romance with Shravan is also an equal crime...

Here JG romance would be totally different from AnSh romance. J's romance is combined with deceiving his partner and disapproval of the Elders, while AnSh romance would be combined with approval from elders(from both sides) and accepting a companion as A is deceived and left alone(as humans, we need someone to share our life and feelings with. It is difficut and not necessary to live our whole life alone just because her partner deceived her). Infact we do not even know if there would be any romance betwn them😕. In case, there is, as per A's nature, she would treat Shravan only as a FRIEND and she might start accepting him ONLY after her in-laws convince her totally.
Here , the outsiders are Gauri and Shravan. In JG's case J deceived A as he took the initiative in loving G and then G's active part and both of them cheating J's wife and parents!!  But in AnSh case, it would be the outsiders (Shravan) initiative, then the elders approval, and then convincing A...and finally the acceptance!! Hence this is Ethically right😊

And coming to the Legality part, AnSh relation would not be a crime as JG's if JaAn divorce happens before A gets committed to Shravan!!

So Legally and Ethically AnSh relation would in no way be a comparison to JG's relation.



👏  well said!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@asru n all

U Hv misunderstood the post.i'm stressing the need for initial divorce b4 proceeding to take a decision 4 marriage wt Shravan.