IMV-Sabina: A rendezvous revisited

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sonali.19281

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Posted: 12 years ago

Re-watching MB from the beginning to get a bearing and being in-sync with the soul and essence of IMV.. especially coz I have taken up the cause of giving IMV a fitting closure.. I got to the scene that was alluded to umpteen times in the show later.. and one theme prevailed.. of making IMV a perpetrator and Sabina- a VICTIM.. I never felt so.. it was like the makers were trying to drill this point through the incessant sermons of Baa.. the disapproval of Charu.. the defiance in Devki.. ALL FIGHTING AGAINST IMV.. FOR SABINA..FOR VAIBHAV'S LOVE..

so Let's revisit it and see it for what it WAS.. and STILL STANDS..

Sabina walks in.. her body lang taut.. dressed appropriately.. sans the heroine airs.. coz she knows this isn't a regular meeting. .she in her own way pays respect to IMVs stature.. Manjusha escorts her to IMVs cabin.. where the czar is sitting and looking through her file one more time.. shows you he doesn't treat this meeting any different than his other corporate ones.. where he has researched well.. and wants to make sure of his facts.. and the way he addresses it.. he is THAT SERIOUS about it.. this is no child's play..

from both end.. there is equal genuineness.. and which of course.. prevails.. so let's begin

Manjusha is in very subtle ways besotted.. by a celebrity.. being really polite .. while IMV cuts her and tells her to get water.. coz the woman will need it.. commanding right from the beginning.. msg loud and clear.. you dont have a say.. and secondly you are NOT BEING ENTERTAINED..

Check..

IMV reads through her biography. .with expressions matching his reading of her.. through her CV.. of what she could be.. and is capable of.. going by her background and graph.. let's face it.. why should the man give her any benefit just coz his young son is in love with her.. in fact he has all the reasons to dislike her.. given her bohemian free-spirited influence on her son.. besides her shoddy background and field of work in his eyes.. and he ends the narration with his reading of the current equation between her and VV.. it is rather plausible a future option for an ageing actor.. IMV is being extremely corporate.. and a man of experience here..

Through it all Sabina.. squirms.. holds on.. knowing she is being analyzed and judged.. but as a smart woman not surprised.. coz she too has seen life rather early.. I love the moment where he flings the file towards her.. she curbs her instincts of rage.. towards this blatant judgement.. and in a min.. gathers herself.. to be worthy of being in this meeting..

She cuts all the crap and gets straight to the point.. Why do you judge me.. when I still havent said yes.. Loved the way she calls him SIR.. amazing exchange.. 😃

and then IMV shows you exactly why he STANDS TALL.. his ingrained reading of political and corporate tactics.. 😉 as he refers to it as a common strategy by actors to bide time.. before saying yes for a project.. to a producer.. ACT PRICEY..

I was AMAZED.. call IMV the villain.. the ruthless man.. the wrong man.. KILL HIM.. and TRANSFORM HIM into a WHITE KURTA clad tame spirit in the end.. but WHAT IMV SAYS HERE.. IS EXACTLY WHAT IT MAY COME ACROSS in the end.. I do not DOUBT that Sabina intended so for a day.. but would I be blamed if I see it this way as an outsider..

Samne wale ko tadpao... usey lapeto.. apni keemat jatao.. aur phir haan kahne ka ehsaan karo..

Didnt it end up looking JUST THAT WAY.. VV living in this eternal angst.. consumed and sucked in the gola fbs.. not seeing the worth of anyone else but just her in his life.. and in the end.. begging for her company.. and all she does is meekly ACCEPT.. as if DOING HIM.. HERSELF.. and DEVKI a favor..

again I am not maligning Sabina.. but saying.. as much as the makers end up showing IMV as a futile option.. his READING ended up looking BANG ON.. through the show.. IMV ROCKS..😎

Moving on..Sabina sees this as a lost cause.. and thinks of leaving.. only to be commanded... he is NOT DONE YET.. the AURA starts expanding.. till Sabina is a part.. Thats IMVs presence..😛

Round 2: accounting.. Annual earning of Sabina amounts to 3-4 crores.. from movies.. endorsements.. appearances.. and shows..

comparing it to an establishment and a heir to it.. V.Ind with a turnover of 25,000 cr and a profit book of approx 8000 crore.. split btw the 3 Virani kids.. and VVs equity is 3000 cr annually or close..

a factor of 1000.. fine love doesnt do the numbers.. but Life and realism cant overlook the nos.. and there is no refuting that Sabina by her career graph cld have been an ambitious woman.. so the Czar brings the facts out and says.. is it illegit to think this could be a dream future.. while Sabina sits through it.. wid total resentment.. fielding the gashes on her self-respect..

Sabina disregards the claims with her nonchalance and disregard in her demeanor.. well tried

Round 3; Power game- so now IMV throws the ultimate bait.. to test his theory.. claiming that VV stands to lose everything he stands as a brand equity.. just by her alliance.. so she in all reality wont get what she aims for..

and this is when Sabina has HAD IT.. and sorta field the round rather well.. but in terms of the whole game.. she does more harm to her.. than she comprehends..

to the round first.. awesome comeback where she goes you started with 1rupee and built an empire with your acumen.. I can invest 10 crores.. in VV's foray into building an empire.. esp given he has your genes.. and your training.. so even if you give him no money.. you have given him more than you put on the table.. your training and mentorship.. and tht's a win-win situation..

IMV's closed fist reflects how correct she is... at least the closest she came to refuting his offenses.. She plays his game.. in his way.. and does rather well.. but in the end tries to come across honest.. tht she hasn't made up her mind either ways...

but darling TOO LATE... you little stint there.. just gets him more determined.. and drives him to his final combat..

Final move: the birth credentials and mother history.. At this POINT.. IMV makes it RATHER CLEAR.. that he DID NOT INTEND to get to this level with her.. she doesnt help his case.. and so he does.. too bad.. HE JUST CAN'T TAKE THE RISK.. he has too much riding on her 'dil se liya faisla NOT darr se liya'.. and why should he depend on her.. an outsider.. a smart man doesnt even depend on his own blood..

Check MATE

And that DOES IT... well through the remainder of the show.. this MOVE was tainted.. looked down upon.. called blackmail.. but wasn't it in response to Sabina's own gambit in the earlier round.. IMV may or may not have known of her history.. BUT SABINA sure did.. She took the risk of being brave in front of IMV.. when she knew rather well what she hid.. what she couldn't come to terms with herself.. and when thrown on her face.. she SUCCUMBED not to IMV.. but to HER OWN HISTORY.. her mother's karma..

yes.. one can't equate a parent's convictions with a child's.. but it's equally probable in this case.. coz of Sabin'a line of work.. she started early.. as a child artist.. coz her father who did groom her was also in this field.. using her as a source of income..

so how is IMV anything but LOGICAL and CORPORATE here.. why does he feel the need to be invested emotionally to this girl.. esp where he stands.. and finally

WHY IS SABINA A VICTIM.. if she did not decide to look beyond the mirth of her mother.. and still claim her love on Vaibhav.. She reconciled what she HAD KNOWN.. tht she is NOT A FIT.. and esp seeing IMV be privy to her secret.. she deemed it apt to save her honor in front of the world..as opposed to honor her sentiments for V and his for her..

PERIOD..

there is no glorification or victimization in this scene.. just OPTIONS and CHOICES.. I still dont see why the makers gave it a total different meaning.. and tried to thrust it down our throat.. in the end completely losing the point.. and the essence of this rendezvous and the strength of the 2 characters..

Edited by sonali.19281 - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

NOW THE SCENE.. your take..

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Posted: 12 years ago

this scene was very good sonu, i have watched it many times , it shows how cool a player imv is.

chanakya dimaag😎that whole vaibhav devki shaadi was one of the best tracks of mb

here imv played so many games and succeded too, he was player here and all others were katputlis😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: intruderfast
this scene was very good sonu, i have watched it many times , it shows how cool a player imv is.

chanakya dimaag😎that whole vaibhav devki shaadi was one of the best tracks of mb

here imv played so many games and succeded too, he was player here and all others were katputlis😆

paaajiii🤗 aakhir IMV ka pyar kheech laya... yup m watching tht phase and have major sadistic pleasure🤣 m even liking khadoos V with dil mein aag...🤣telling Sabina tht main D ko itni khushi dunga tht u wild see wat u missed.. ullu da paon..😆

but the VV-IMV scene is epic.. after he comes back from S'pore..😆 and goes to IMV charging him.. he even raises a finger at IMV.. i was😲.. ki tu to gaya beta.. sigh I am loving IMV all the more.. how he focusses on the finger.. his subtle muscle twitch.. on the cheeks.. and he slowly walks across and pats Vs shoulder🤣 nothing enrages tht man... calmly he plays his game.. loved the dialogue in the end when he says.. what I want will happen Vaibhav.. only I'll make u believe thts what u want too😆.. total chanakya neeti.. sigh I miss IMV.. dang

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Posted: 12 years ago

I saw it exactly that way ...like u described .

No glorification or victimization but just OPTIONS and CHOICES .

Sabina left Vaibhav for practical reasons .

She was well in control of her emotions .

She was equally ashamed of her mother's past and made no bones about it .

IMV did not like what he knew about her mothers past . Sabina silently acknowledged it was disreputable .The reaction of public proves that it was something to be angry about .

So how is IMV WRONG i do not get it .

Should he have sat back and allowed his prince , his heir , his favorite to marry something that wud TAINT him for life .

People who r so insignificant , who have neither much status nor money power make such a bog hoo haa about their sons marraige and try to have their say , well this was a man of position who was heading a conglomerate

Just see how it even sounds

Only the idealistic gang in Virani house were dancing as if Sabina was a manna from heaven without knowing the FIRST thing about her mind u , and AFTER knowing about that file , WITHOUT knowing about her mother they declared it must have been done in MAJBOORI

The real thing was they did NOT know ANYTHING till the end .All they knew was opposing Ishvar .

Had this serial run , I wud have accepted it if Ishvar had succesfully broken this Sabina nonsense even the second time .

Vaibhav behaved as if he had the hots badly and Sabina played hard to get and forgot about being a Radha after lading him a fine dance , she shamelesssly came back to see Devki , his legal wife making way for her

And THIS is what i say where sanskaars come in . Sabina had no probs living with a married man for days in her room to send a stupid msg

She had no probs breaking up Vaibhavs marraige in the end .She cud very well have told that stupid idiot to go to hell ONE MORE TIME

IMV had been right about her . Devki wud have benefited the marraige Sabina wud bring loss . Baa wanted this loss coz she always wished loss for IMV . She and Master cud never rise upto the money that IMV brought in , they were frightened frogs in the well who kept insisting their well was the world and that IMV shud come back in their well ...Mangrol represented that well .

In the entire show it was IMV alone who saw Mangrol for what it really was ...a remote village in India , with water problem , fuel problem , stricken with poverty and no chances of any development . There was nothing to romanticise Mangrol . IMV saw it without rose tinted glasses .

He saw his mom coughing and her face turning red by blowing the pipe that inflamed the coals as they had no gas stove. NO ONE ELSE saw it . Master was busy preaching and Manhar had no special acumen in him .

To THAT Mangrol the CVS sent him . It was like imprisoning Napoleon on the island of Elba . It was IMV's death .

The shameless who criticised him had no compunctions taking all that he built . Vaibhav took it . And Baa master blessed it .

The hateful lot . Hypocrites . I only do not hate Siddarth . IMV was partial to Vaibhav but Vaibhav ditched him for a girl .Sid sacrificed for him all the way . He married the girl he told him to , gave up his painting aspirations , looked after the business while broither went globe trotting after an actress leaving wife , family , business behind .

The Steady horse shud have received some blessing from IMV before going .

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Posted: 12 years ago

Sonali, great post again. And a very interesting point too. I've said before that Sabina chose to refuse Vaibhav for her own reasons, not because she wanted VV to marry Devki. If she was a victim, it was of her circumstances, her history, not IMV. If Sabina was a victim, so was IMV of his own circumstances. What became of them is due to their choices. I have no issues with VS getting together at the end, though I didn't like it during VD's early marriage days and even after the fateful birthday party. But VV's crazy obsession with Sabina was too much for me to continue to wish for VD marriage. I would have liked it though if VV had decided to pursue Sabina on his own, when he knew the truth that she loved him also. His constant dependance on Devki till the very end made me sick. And Devki had no right or responsibility once she decided to divorce VV. If she would have left VV to his devices and left it to him to convince his family even while staying in his house until the divorce was finalized, I would have respected her. Her shoving VS down everyone's throats, her defense of them, her making promises on his family's behalf on their acceptance of VS was too much. I couldn't connect with her anymore. She became unreal to me then, a caricature of mahaanta and self-sacrifice. Of giving pain to herself on purpose. I lost respect for both Devki and Vaibhav towards the end. The makers could still have VS reunion without caricaturing the characters. They didn't. The journey of a story is as important as, if not more than, the end of a story. The reason I stuck to MB till the end was because IMV was still the IMV I loved; only he remained true to his original characterization among those that I loved. The end saw him caricatured as well, but the journey was still good in IMV's case.

Coming to Sabina, I'm indifferent to her. I used to love Devki and Vaibhav, so their turnaround was difficult to take. We are harsher on the disappointments caused by people/characters we love. Sabina I still respect and like even. In my opinion, she was a flawed human with a good heart and mind, one who knew her weaknesses and strengths. She made a conscious choice to refuse VV and stayed out of his way; even refused and reprimanded him when he came barging into her space before marriage and after it. She tried, and made a mess of, to refuse VV again. It was harebrained, her techniques, but she was an actress, not IMV. And she did it with good intentions. At the end, she accepted meekly maybe. But I won't fault her for that. In fact, I'm glad she did, and I respect her for it. She still loved VV. VV loved her in his weird way, and Devki was on her self-sacrificing spree. When people are intent on digging their own graves, we can't blame the undertaker for throwing mud and sealing the coffin. Why be unhappy when the person for whom she was refusing happiness was forcing her to accept it. That's just stupidity. Sabina didn't deserve the man VV became at the end, but she loved him and wanted him, and the world was offering him to her on a silver platter. Why should she deny it? I'm perfectly happy with Sabina's character, it's VV and D that annoy me to no end.

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Posted: 12 years ago

That's just stupidity. Sabina didn't deserve the man VV became at the end, but she loved him and wanted him, and the world was offering him to her on a silver platter. Why should she deny it? I'm perfectly happy with Sabina's character, it's VV and D that annoy me to no end.

Coz she was NOT a flawed character . Her mother had a murky past but Sabina was a very strong woman and so i expected it . There was no weakness in Sabina . The two characters I found unflawed till the last minute butchering started were Charu and Sabina .

Whenever I saw Sabina , the word that came to my mind was STRENGTH . Whenever I saw Charu , the word that came to my mind was PEACE . Whenever I saw Devki The word that came to my mind was INNOCENCE .

People criticised Sabina for walking away without telling Vaibhav after the blackmail . I don't . That was HER decision to make . She weighed things in her mind and decided that all this was simply not worth it .

She was the one who returned from the mandap , seeing the press and all the guests and the fact that the marraige had taken place . Why did she not go with Baa up at that time only ? What do 7 rounds around the holy fire done some minutes ago really mean if LOVE was the criteria of all decisions like it was shown in the end ? Even then she knew that Vaibhav still loved her , Baa had told her that . But at that time Devki was NOT in love with him . Sabina wud have done the girl an infinite favor although the press wud have had a field day and IMV wud have been enraged . The press having a field day was no big deal to Sabina ...she was used to it , her bread butter was only such .

But she chose to accept this foolish Vaibhav AFTER knowing that Devki had fallen in love with him ...a fact for which even SHE was responsible as she had not spoken up on time ...a fact which would NEVER have occured if the 3 month stay would not have happened . At THAT point the situation had been ...Vaibhav was still in love with HER , Devki was not yet in love with him , Sabina herself STILL loved Vaibhav . AND to top it she had shown the guts to come TILL THE MANDAP . So much mess cud have been avoided .

But seeing the PHERAS had taken place she RESPECTED MARRAIGE and went back . It was not fear of the press that she gave precedence , nor LOVE that she gave priority but MARRAIGE as an institution .

Well What changed later that she accepted Vaibhav ? In fact now she ALONE was privy to the fact that Devki had fallen in love with Vaibhav as she had read that card . And NOW she chose to come back ? When in some part SHE was responsible for this happening asshe had NOT spoken up at the mandap and allowed this girl to go ahead and EXPECT things like Oh Vaibhav will come around and we can have a chance ?

Not just that , Sabina knew that Devki loved him unselfishly , WITHOUT EXPECTING IT BACK .

She knew that Devki unselfishly let him go .

The institution of marraige that she respected and returned from the mandap , it had grown now as one in the couple had fallen in love .

So why return NOW ?

The power to slap Vaibhav [ and I mean a real hard one } was only in Sabina's hands . Who SAYS I want u ? What r u doing standing on my doorstep professing LOVE when ur married ? Have u given Devki a thought or her grandfather who placed such trust in u ? I cannot RESPECT a man who simply accepts the unselfish sacrifices of his wife and runs to his past flame professing LOVE ! There r things in life MUCH more important than so called LOVE ! My mom's reputation was one thing , and so is Devki ! GO BACK from where u came . And if u STILL persist that you will NEVER be able to love Devki etc etc , I don't care , I know this much , I AM NEVER HAVING U BACK .

This was what I had wished that strong woman to do . To remain with her dignity intact and give Vaibhav the lesson of his life .

She was never a flawed character or a weak one . The CVS butchered her when

She did not consider Vicky Oberoi's wife's feelings and involved him in those stupid lies

When she fled from there without even meeting Devki who took care of her health ...that was basic courtesy . She instead went to meet Baa . It was not Baa who had brought her there , it was Devki and she had taken care of her health .U owe a person something in life when the person takes care of ur health .

When she accepted Vaibhav inspite of knowing Devki's feelings and returned when once she had walked away , thinking so logically and with such mental strength . The real answer shud have been THINGS HAVE CHANGED NOW .

I wud have respected her immensely then . She really was not the type who practical in a common sort of way ...the type who when things r handed on a platter , think it is really stupid to refuse them and grab them .Sabina was practical , yes , but in a rather uncommon kind of way .

I wud personally have loved to see Vaibhav being left alone ...Sabina refusing him and Devki walking off with IMV's coin in her hand .

But That kind of ending NO SERIIAL in India will show .😆 So I wud have preferred him coming back to Devki , chastised like HELL . Devki would have accepted him and soothed him .

Had Devki met Sabina , Sabinas answer should have been ,Its really not in ur boundary to tell ME if I should accept V now . I am not accepting him for MY reasons . This might surprise u , but There it is .

Never got to see this .

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Only the idealistic gang in Virani house were dancing as if Sabina was a manna from heaven

🤣🤣Oh I missed this... seriously.. their criteria for liking her.. from the very beginning when none of them had even seen her once was oh V loves her.. good enough...

The real thing was they did NOT know ANYTHING till the end .All they knew was opposing Ishvar .

That was their whole modus operandi.. its rather annoying... from the beginning baa and master going on and on about how Ishwar has taken away the khushiyan.. etc.. even in dat holi epi.. the old couple talk on the phone abt how IMV had deprived the family of colors.. I m like HOW... just 2 epis b4.. when V comes back from S'pore and Charu tells him to leave.. she tells him.. ppl say Sid is weak, cant stand for his dreams.. they say m weak for not opposing you dad.. but its not tht.. its just tht we love him too much to want to hurt him.. or do anything that wld break the family.. but you are as obstinate as your dad.. and you are his weakness.. and I dont want a friction btw you.. and V tells her.. he can handle IMV without brking off ties (thts what he thinks)

so see the diff.. as bystanders baa bapuji have only judged IMV.. when Sid has not FOR ONCE.. said DAD took away my happiness.. nope.. he MADE THT CHOICE.. after IMV gave him the option..

when Charu asks IMV abt V getting his way coz its HIS LIFE.. IMV blatantly tells her.. WE gave it to him.. and I have invested in him for so long.. I wont give it up to an actor without fighting for it.. THAT'S CONVICTION.. VV did not have tht to stand for his love.. he believed Sabina when she said she didnt love him.. but didn't wanna accept it for the rest of his life.. W*F

Had this serial run , I wud have accepted it if Ishvar had succesfully broken this Sabina nonsense even the second time .

Exactly what I hoped for.. and if this time V died.. for this love.. I wld have been more than happy.. coz atleast he wld have shown some spine.. he ended up being worse than a parkinson patient.. with an infected spine and brain

To THAT Mangrol the CVS sent him . It was like imprisoning Napoleon on the island of Elba . It was IMV's death .

BANG ON.. and it looked like IMV self-inflected that imprisonment to his spirit.. and punished him for having a family that never understood him.. leave alone appreciate it.. even Ishwarya had decided to get out of Mangrol.. what's he gonna do in there.. make light bulbs😆 Ishwarya also had a spirit.. much like IMV.. in the end.. it was neither but a dead man walking.. thts the prize he gave the family.. HIS DEATH..

The Steady horse shud have received some blessing from IMV before going .

He sorta did.. Sid was the only one in the end that IMV spoke to a tad bit more genuinely before leaving.. amongst his 3 idiots.. Nirali he just granted her Jimmy like he was giving her another toy.. VV he did NOT ONCE SPEAK TO.. after the whole fiasco.. and best was Sid was the ONLY one amongst them who CRIED.. BROKE DOWN in the end.. with an understanding .. an awareness of what he lost.. HE LOST HIS FATHER.. the ONLY kid who lived for his father and mourned his loss while the other 2 were too happy with their prize to care otherwise.. so sad..

Karma is A ****.. I strongly believe tht VSalliance wld be doomed.. coz no one in the world wld care to empathize for their gola prem.. and only ones who did wld be in mangrol.. VV once said abt the Mumbai float project.. he wld not start his dream on a platform of destruction.. he DID JUST THT.. when it came to his married life with Sabina.. it was BASED on a mass destruction.. both of them cldnt meet Ds eyes in the end.. and that was their wedding gift.. Idk how Sabina wld live a day with herself. given V anyway had no conscience in the end

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Posted: 12 years ago

@Sowmya: interesting point you bring here

When people are intent on digging their own graves, we can't blame the undertaker for throwing mud and sealing the coffin. Why be unhappy when the person for whom she was refusing happiness was forcing her to accept it

I completely agree with your first line and I am not going to blame Sabina for it.. but I agree with Kools take on it.. had Sabina been a realist from the beginning.. much like IMV.. I wld have no issues.. but throughout the show and the last 2 months.. tht woman's projected aura was idealism.. she did not REFUSE HAPPINESS for DEVKI ALONE.. when Vicky asked her what she wanted.. coz what's her fate cld be Ds too.. she said she is not selfish enough to ride on so many ppl's happiness.. the whole family wld break apart with her entry.. and that's what happened.. if she were happy with her choice in the end.. she would not maintain the sharm-saar face in the last epi.. where she looked as dead as IMV... where she couldn't meet Ds eyes.. where she looked like she cldn't meet her own eyes.. I cldnt comprehend how Sabina could live with herself for a day after doing something that completely negated what her convictions were.. I am an individualist.. my statement to myself matters much more and above anything else.. and Sabina owed it to HERSELF.. for living with her dignity.. which at the end she bargained for.. sigh

As for VV.. he was someone I couldnt even recognize as having anything remotely similar to what he once stood for.. he was a living example of what LOVE can maketh a man.. when it becomes obsession.. he lost ALL PROPORTIONS.. he to me was as HELPLESS as DALI.. I can still have empathy for Dali but not for VV.. coz he had loads of help around unlike Dali.. he chose to completely disregard it.. for that one woman.. I was MORE THAN HAPPY he got WHAT HE WANTED.. my qs remains.. NOW WHAT.. LIVE that miserable existence with the object you so desired that you destroyed everything you walked on .. to chase it.. but at the cost of selling your soul.. your conviction.. with a woman who in all probability had done the same.. so tht makes a couple where both had ONLY LOVE.. but NOT THEMSELVES.. Sabina wasn't in the end woman he loved.. and neither was he the same man.. THIS was a GREEK TRAGEDY.. to live each day where they would be reminded of what they wanted.. and what they paid for it.. but in the end.. live with their bitter selves..with a colossal burden if they even comprehend it..

As for Devki.. I concur I was ghastly annoyed by her.. in her blind crusade... she completely overlooked all practicality around.. and even the greater harm it did.. but Devki had that OTT mahanta streak in her.. tht VV worked on.. in their marriage.. he balanced her.. showed her that idealism is an attractive option... but realism is far too difficult to follow.. THAT'S what I loved ABOUT VD.. what they both brought out in each other.. the min either of them stopped being that to each other.. they ran their individual sprint.. to doom.. Devki upheld her mahanta.. but atleast in her excessiveness.. she was the only among the 3 of them.. tht followed the conviction she stood for from the beginning.. as unreal as it was.. I am only saddened by the fact that neither VV had an inch of IMV or Charu.. altho he was invested upon for so long.. nor did Devki inherit CPs individuality..

IMV-CP/Parimita till the very end were the only 2 ppl I carry with me.. as impeccable characters with convictions of steel..they may not have concurred with each other's path in life after a point.. but they stuck to their guns unabashedly.. their statement to themselves.. to life.. and from life of prime importance.. now those are INSPIRATIONS for you

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Posted: 12 years ago

WORD Kools.. and to add to that.. CP/ Parimita to me stood for individuality.. and REASON.. and IMV COMPLEXITY..

the thing is Kools.. in the end the whole thing met a meek end.. like the makers themselves had had it.. with this whole sordid affair.. and decided let them just kill their individual souls and live together.. this is how it played out..

Sabina in a burka playing hop scoth with the kids.. as V runs to her.. sucking on the candy.. Sabina looks up.. her eyes exposed.. supposedly the ATTRACTIVE part.. w/e.. kids ran to V as he handed out Candies.. V came up to her and proposed.. Sabina hesistantly said but u r married.. (liek she was fine if he wasn't🤣and I was like what was the whole shosha u did before abt then.. when he wasn't married..) and V shamelessly says he isn't... D comes and says yes they took divorce.. and she started on her rant.. blah blah... and Sabina goes but u love him too.. and V has the most insensitive brain-dead reaction.. 🤣 he goes to D.. why didnt you tell me.. (I was like now tht u know is it gonna change anything you loser🤣) and D stood up with dignity of her feelings.. saying yes I did.. but he was never in a state to recognize it.. let alone acknowledge.. he only WANTS to see things from your eyes (WHAT A TIGHT SLAP)..

D goes why do 3 ppl have to live with incomplete emotions.. when 2 can fulfil it.. and she leaves.. V back on his knees like this never even happened.. proposes.. S says yes.. kids dance around.. (m like get on with the next scene.. it was as random as JN.. or worse)

my qs exactly the same as yours.. if this is how it had to be.. why show Sabina the way they did..the one who was STRENGTH and SELF-RESPECT personified when she walked away from the VD wedding telling Baa that.. No I had not told V about my feelings and doing so now is A SIN.. I can't mess with so many people's lives and desires.. that not who I AM.. I believe in LIVING with DIGNITY.. not with dreams without dignity.. what happened..

What happened to the VV who incessantly promised his mother.. when she said.. don't marry if its only a duty for u.. (this is much b4 he told D abt his past) and he told her.. mom I wld work on moving from duty to love.. it wld take me time and I cant tell u how long.. but i wld honestly TRY.. what changed.. tht was independent of how he felt for Sabina and vice versa..

my qs.. why give us strong characters like V , S.. a potentially strong bond in VD.. where 2 inexperience ppl learn so much abt life.. from each other.. with each other..

why show all this.. only to poof it out of the way.. at the next exit.. at the end of the show I have complete apathy for most characters I once loved.. including Charu.. sigh..

Edited by sonali.19281 - 12 years ago

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