Aaj Ka Moral Science

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Posted: 15 years ago
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BV Moral of the day - The art of stating the obvious.

(too lazy to write in hindi, so english)

Dont divorce your husband even if he has remarried and is in a bigamous relationship. Hold that trump card over his head like the sword of Damocles and wait for the opportunity to use that as your potent lethal weapon. Doing so makes you a very smart woman, what if you have to suffer and ruin your future prospects waiting for the golden opportunity to strike your husband with this legal tactic.

Good job Anandi, wait for the divorce filing because in the meantime you will have plenty of cry-time and suffering and that seems to be your choice.

I fail to understand the reason of showing hte legal aspect and then dropping it like a hot potato to deal with later. Shouldn't Anandi file for divorce? I am sure Jagya will be more than happy to oblige, why the delay? DS's honor is already breached by his grandson's grand actions, besides, divorce does not need ot be a publicly announced affair, its something Jagya and Anandi need to handle in private with Bhairon's supervision.

Lets draaag this aspect for the next one month or so. We are a very patient lot. Thanks CVs for honoring us with drag-fest.

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serialjunkie thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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oh and this gives everyone a chance to see poor Gauri fight for her rights in under misguided beliefs that she is J's legal wife. Great way to make a woman look petty and small.

How about making Jagya do a lot of work for Gauri to please her as his wife only to deliver a legal slap on him after a month? NOOO, that would be too uninteresting. Lets make Gauri squirm, lets victimize the woman because its fun. Thanks again.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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From Anandi's perspective,
She is a girl that represents many from rural area.

This has been emphasized again and again but , now, it is very common that such girls do not go against the family even when the rights are thrown on their face.
They just don't as their bringing up is that way and the societal force is that way.

So once she gets herself together, I am sure she will file the case on him.

And No she does not cry because she likes to cry, but because she is hurt and I sympathize with her. Hopefully those tears will make her pain less.

And she is not crying in front of anyone ( we see her pain as we are the viewers) but most of the family does not see her in pain.

Many people go through a lot of stuff every day., Simple things, simple matters hurt them and they start crying and whining here Anandi has LOST everything so I think I personally can handle her tears. If it makes her feel better then sure.

And she is not giving up. She is ready and preparing herself to fight the ills. She always has. More than Jagya and gauri put together.

If Gauri can cry because she did not get to turn the CHula on then i am sure Anandi can cry because she was cheated by the husband who left her for another woman just because she was no good for him in his opinion.


insaan hi insaan ka dushman hai.

Roye tho mushkil
na Roye tho Kator
hasayn tho insensitive
chup rahe tho buzdil

Always we judge. Its extremely hard to put ourselves in one's shoes and think from their POV. And only when people do that , they realize the pain that the other person is going through.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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I personally think, that for a woman to actually take a step and move away from a relationship is extremely hard.
Its the nature of a woman to be very attached to what ever she has and when that goes away, even though she has no hope of that ever returning to her, she does not want to let go of a simple memory -even- just to feel some longing or being part of that let go emotion.

Here in this case Anandi was extremely attached to jagya. And even though she has been abandoned by him. And she recognizes that that he has abandoned her and does not love her

She did what a woman with self respect would do

Not wail and cry nor try to get back the person because she realizes that he is not interested in her love any more.

but, she still likes the idea of being married to her love ( the person whom she loves)
Her feelings and emotions do matter to her. It gives her some satisfaction, perhaps some sort of emotional comfort.

Everyone grieves differently and Anandi is grieving the loss of her love and it will take time.

She cannot just file for divorce and it ends there. If that was easy then every single divorce case would be extremely pleasant ordeal. Rather its not.

She might not be ready to take that step yet. But once she does I am sure she will not look back.

Every one deserves the time to heal. So I think Anandi deserves the time to heal as well.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its good that Anandi is crying, hopefully this is ease her pain and she can finally strat moving on, just because she has started school again does not mean she is moving on, she said it herself, she still loves Jagat. Before anything happens, she needs to get over her feelings for him, because that will stop her from moving forward or filing any cases against him.

I guess when Jagat starts to ill treat gauri as well ( which i dont think is that far down the track from the looks of that precap) Anandi will be seeing the side of Jagat that she faceed, but this time as the outsider, therfore hoepfully ojectively, which i think will help her reason more and more the kind of person Jagat is and that he doesnt deserve her love or any feelings for that matter
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its just the CVs plan to give more fun to viewers by torturing women...when CVs cannot think of better ways to torture women, they start showing stories where women torture themselves..

It all seems to be about women torturing women, women hating women, women torturing themselves...and its all such a grand treat to watch and react on!🤢...

And the max Jagya can get is the realization that he "lost" world's greatest beendni, who is anyways devoted enough to stay married to her Pati and deserves eating out of his jhooti plates more than the other woman!..showing Gauri insulted, will be another treat for viewers so go ahead with that!...Why do I even read the updates of this stupid serial...torture anandi(if you run out of ways to torture her...get her into torturing herself), and insult gauri...what a perfect story!!🤢🤢
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i m sure its not Anandi's fault but CVs fault who want to keep this one intact in their arsenal against Jagya..
remember the SBB scene where G blames A for being Mahaan and all tht.. i think somehow this legal issue is gonna come out more dramatically.. otherwise y show Bhairon promising A.. ..
meanwhile CVs will try their hands on "power of attorney" thng.. so tht A being J's legal wife is out automatically.. it would be actually interesting to see.. whether Anandi has maiden name or her married name.. bcoz POA is a legal document... this will set J thinking about his legality of marraige to A and G..

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