Advice me what to do..

Let me introduce myself ...im nikki ..i am 18 yrs old nw...
N dis is my 3rd topic in this forum...n d advices u all gave me b4 this.helped me a lott...=) ...
Okie...so dis guy in college proposed me...n hes a gud guy..handsome,vry good in academics n good luking ..n i wanna say yes but...
I stay away from home...im a hostelite ...my parents have trusted me and put me in a good college away from from my home...wheb half of my dads colleagues,my relatives ..said dem don send her away ...gals in hostel normally develop bad habits...dey have boy friends...
My parents just said one thing to all of dem ..dt dy trust me...
N nw im stuck in between ...:(...i don wnt to hurt dem ...but...dunnoEdited by niki_09 - 12 years ago

do what your heart tells you to do. look deep within yourself.

If you really, truly love him, go for it.

thanxx for ua advice :) ...

Why don't you keep on getting to know the guy.. and then when ur done college n go back.. then slowly u can bring it up with ur mom or something:D not yet! just finish ur education first :)

well i think at first u should take to one of ur parents the one u r more close with

you are too young Just give it some time and see if you still feel the same about this person

Hi Niki

   You are too young to decide on love and marriage. For all of us, love is sweet and exciting. But married life is tough. The two partners have to understand each other and tolerate each other when things don't go nicely.  This requires a lot of maturity and the ability to accept oneself and the ability to take care of oneself. The first thing you need to go for is studying well and try to get to a job and then go ahead for marrying. That time you will be able to make sound decision. It will be good for you to discuss this with your parents also.

Cheers,

I personally think that you're a bit too young to be thinking about marriage. I advise you to finish college first or wait till you get a bit older. This is quite a big decision to make and not an easy one for an 18-year-old.

Originally posted by: niki_09

Let me introduce myself ...im nikki ..i am 18 yrs old nw...
N dis is my 3rd topic in this forum...n d advices u all gave me b4 this.helped me a lott...=) ...
Okie...so dis guy in college proposed me...n hes a gud guy..handsome,vry good in academics n good luking ..n i wanna say yes but...
I stay away from home...im a hostelite ...my parents have trusted me and put me in a good college away from from my home...wheb half of my dads colleagues,my relatives ..said dem don send her away ...gals in hostel normally develop bad habits...dey have boy friends...
My parents just said one thing to all of dem ..dt dy trust me...
N nw im stuck in between ...:(...i don wnt to hurt dem ...but...dunno

Nikki, keeping in mind your age and the fact that you are still studying, I don't think you should be thinking about marriage at this  stage. You need time to complete your studies, make something of your life and also grow as an individual. I don't know if this guy loves you and how much you feel for him. But if he is willing to wait for you, then perhaps you should consider putting it on hold.
However, whatever you choose, it should be your decision. Listen to your heart. Good luck :)