Originally posted by anjubala
Milee, I had posted something on these lines and then I read that you have opened this thread. So I am posting what I posted there in our NiVren thread :-
See, DS loves Sid and Viren equally - I know you all will hit me and will not talk to me but girls this is my POV. TOday, accoridng to DS Sid did a mistake and he scolded him. Even though he loves Sid and favors him but he could not tolerate Sid doing this mistake as he has taught him about business and then how can he do this mistake. I really liked dadaji today. And Sid like a very good older brother took the blame on him as he knew if he speaks up now and tells that it was Viren, DS will be more mad and it will not help in the matters. And Sid only did ishara to DS to let Viren go with him for nilami.
I liked Viren too as he came up and took the full responsibility of nilami as he did not want anybody to own his mistake. He has never done and he knows how it feels if somebody who has done mistake does not own it. Anyway we know Viren never hides his mistakes. And he was ready to take the punishment too. But DS showed restraint here and did not say anything. The whole family is changing their rules and behavior for Viren and now Viren has to just open a little heart and he will feel everybody's love.
This is the first time there is some difference in our views..You are saying that Sid needed to speak up and should have told DS that it was Viren who said that price. But I think it was good Sid did not tell DS as that would have caused more problem as Viren is in a totally different mood and he would have taken this as Sid's move against Viren to put him down infront of DS. So I think it is good that Sid did not say anything and it was Viren who told him, the way he always does and he took the full responsibility. If it was normal circumstances then it makes sense for Sid to speak but not right now. Sid's each and every move will be taken in a negative way by Viren.
Hey Anju, I did see your post on the thread and replied saying the same that I wrote something along the same lines.
And about speaking I meant Sid to talk to Viren and show him his mistake not talk to dadaji about it. Both brothers need to talk it out, then only some solution will come. Communication is very important in every relation and that is missing in this brothers relation.
That is what I meant when I said Sid needs to speak and show his attitude, he needs to tell his brother where he is making mistakes some conversation as there is nothing going on between the brothers which is really bad. Until and unless they speak their differences nothing good will happen. How will Viren know Sid's intention and how will Sid know Viren's real character. So I want them to communicate like how NivRen does, that is the reason Nivi is so confident in his stance and taking what ever Viren is thowing at her because she knows him better than anyone in this family right now.
Hopefully I made some sense here.