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First of all let me give kudos to u for such an HONEST post . It takes guts to go against popular opinion .
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Secondly , ALL what u said is TRUE and I agree .
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IN each of the Bhavna Varsha fights ..............Bhavna was right and Varsha was wrong . Bhavna may have been a nosy parker but all her ANGER was JUSTIFIED . She was justified in being angry at Varshas rudeness before marraige , later at the Ashwin story , later at the awful back sassing she got from Varsha and later at the ruthless abortion . Varsha is NOT the heroine here , Varsha is the one wreaking injustice . She has simply stood helplessly and watched her son SUFFERING , SUFFERING and SUFFERING at Varshas hands .
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Sadly Archana Karanjkar doesn't seem to even UNDERSTAND that . She pampers EVERY MISDEED of her sister . EVERY , mind u . She spoon feeds her after the abortion saying OH SATISH WILL COME AROUND . She Tells SULO to forgive her IMMEDIATELY saying OH u know na her nature , its LIKE THAT ONLY SINCE BACHPAN . She tells Satish in other words IGNORE UR MOM and FOCUS ON MY SISTER . She gives a hang for Satish's personal feelings in this matter .
She Insulted Satish when he gave signature on the paper framing Manav . Satish had thought of the hundreds of workers that wud go hungry if the factory closed down but she didnt BOTHER to hear his side of the story , didnt wonder for a second even WHY this decent man gave his signature .
Then she slapped Dharmesh . Again ........this is a controversial issue .Today Dharmesh is totally black and BAD . That time he was a son in law of that house who had put HER EX in jail to save his own butt and company . Surely the issue cud have been TALKED OUT instead of getting physical ? Same way , slapping Meanie Prakash in a factory ! Why touch men like this ? Same way Sulo has slapped Manav 3 times . She never dares to slap her evil bahu who is found out thousand times in each fresh evil plotting and her richer damads . The Karanjkars treat Damads culturelessly . Savita has been described as an uncultured woman who is crass so I dont expect MANNERS from that character at all . But The Karanjkars r the sANSKAARI family in this serial .........I dont see ANY SANSKAARS , pardon me .
The saalis call their jeejoos MANHOOS , CHOR , SMALL AUKAAT WALA . AISI SANGAT ..........what not . They let their tongue run away and go on insulting jeejoos .Archna insulted Satish and Dharmesh , Varsha Vaishu insulted Manav rampantly .
The daughters embrace husbands in FRONT of the elders instead of locking doors and going to bedrooms . Remember , its NOT ELITE SOCIETY . We r seeing lower middle class MARATHI society . Archana offers no tea or a chair to sit to sasur who has been hunting all over town for Manav .......or poor Ajit who is her nanands husband .She embraces Manav and ignores them ..........is this a BIG SHOW OF ROMANCE ? If u ask me , its LACK of propriety . Same with Varsha who embraces Satish in her living room or Vaishu who ghoes and breaks another girls wedding . The girls LACK propriety shamefully . I am not even going to go into the flirting that Archna shamelessly did with Manav while she was engaged to another man under the name of LOVE . I will adhere to ur point and the main post .
Archna borrows shamelessly from Satish on his wedding reception day ...........3 lakhs . Arre at least give him some time to come in the family in the REAL SENSE . Manavs 3 lakhs r nEVER returned . by Karanjkar family .Archna takes ten thousand from Manav instead of refusing , while still engaged to Jay , knowing Jay wud never like it . Today Manav gives zero expenses to his old parents but Archna has no problems feeding her overgrown sister by putting HER financial burden on Manav when she isnt even his responsibility .
Dharmesh may be a bad man , but the Karanjkars enjoy his wealth and parties and gifts . They r enamoured of his wealth and NOT ONCE reprimanded him for putting innocent Manav in jail .The same Manav who had given them 3 lacs on the spur of the moment mind u , they KNEW Manav was incapable of a crime . The Karanjkars take costly treats from their wealthy damads Satish and Dharmesh all the time and the poor damad Manav compensates by working like a slave in every function of theirs by serving sherbets , to cooking , to decorating , to going to banks ...everything .
The Karanjkar Bahu has the guts to put the Karanjkar damad in jail coz the Karanjkars , including Archana give her FULL IMMUNITY .
Marrying into the Karanjkar family is being stripped of iZZAT , becoming a Naukar and fulfilling the whims of their daughters and dancing on their tunes for 24 hours . Archnas whims r sacrificial and Vaishu Varshas r selfish is the only difference . Marrying into Karanjkar family also means going away from ur own mentally . The only Damad who had the balls not to mentally drift from his oWN family was sadly the villain Dharmesh . Satish and Manav only care for their wives more than their moms .
Look at the other women . Vandu , Manju etc live with their families , do their duties , and try to be HAPPY . Manju may be bad but she consistently does job , does basic duties of bahu , focusses on her family and Vinod .Vandu educates herself , focusses on Ajit and does her duty . These females r hundred times more real and better than all the 3 neurotic , hysteric prone Karanjkar daughters who make themselves a laughing stock in public each time .
Yesterday we see Archana not even asking Manav how his day was or giving him a glass of water but sighing about her OWN SELF MADE DUKHDA . Arre who told u to take on burdens if u cannot bear them ? U got second chance at marraige , focus on it na ! Who says u shud do all this bull ..it was ur decision , rite ?
Bad wives , Bad daughters and extremely bad bahus .........The Karanjkar sisters SUCK . Here I wud exclude Vaishu a little coz she was ok as a bahu . But even she ran and married and now hasnt phoned her saas and left house without explanation , not wondering HOW embarassing it must be for Dharmus mom to tell society ladies as to WHERE her bahu disappeared .
Becoming a K damad is a HORROR story and prasad I agree with u .
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Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago
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