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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: an_jaani

why prats washed the feet?? prats that i know would never do that

I don't understand it.......well I do, she is shown as being a dutiful bahu, keeping things to herself except when it clashes with her own ideology.....but this very thing is the cause of anger between her and her sasural and yet she seems blind to it and thinks she can go on as before.... 🤔...the point is P should have left that house the day after her wedding....but she stayed and kept upsetting them all and then they retailiate by trying to kill her!!.....Not a good situation, honestly would you stay after calling the Police on your in-laws?😕
It's too late to walk off now as she is committed to Krishna....when she goes, he will go with her.....but after everything, I would have thought no one would give a toss if she refused to wash the feet....but she does!!.......why??...they will never respect or accept her so what was the point?....maybe for Krish's sake?
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: waniya_fatima

u know she wil justify her act by saying that i have done so for krishna

more iike doing it for herself
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: waniya_fatima

Ferdous,
but i thought she has lost her child and that would have been the biggest shock and suffering for her this was teh only chance available to her to raise her voice and trust me if she would lose that then in her whole life she wont be able to stand infront of thakurs.

The thing is when someone has been systematically abused for years, made to feel unworthy...these people have low confidence and fear the unknown. They believe everything the abuser tells them, for they know no other way of life. For them to break the chains of abuse, they need a lot of help and counselling. Sadly loss of child isn't a big thing - sometimes - but in kesar's case her husband and sasural is important. She has nothing else without them, she belived in Shakti's lies about being sorry because she so wants it to the truth....she thinks he will give her anothe child and all will be well.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: an_jaani

more iike doing it for herself

why do you say that?...I would love to know.
I think she is doing it for Krishna and maybe thinking well no harm in washing the feet is there.......sometimes u do something and then want to make up for it.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I don't understand it.......well I do, she is shown as being a dutiful bahu, keeping things to herself except when it clashes with her own ideology.....but this very thing is the cause of anger between her and her sasural and yet she seems blind to it and thinks she can go on as before.... 🤔...the point is P should have left that house the day after her wedding....but she stayed and kept upsetting them all and then they retailiate by trying to kill her!!.....Not a good situation, honestly would you stay after calling the Police on your in-laws?😕
It's too late to walk off now as she is committed to Krishna....when she goes, he will go with her.....but after everything, I would have thought no one would give a toss if she refused to wash the feet....but she does!!.......why??...they will never respect or accept her so what was the point?....maybe for Krish's sake?

if she didnt wash the feet ...krishna would have taken prats side...
remember when krishna brings prat to TN ...SS says she can stay if she says sorry....prats doesnt n krish takes her to adda
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: an_jaani

if she didnt wash the feet ...krishna would have taken prats side...
remember when krishna brings prat to TN ...SS says she can stay if she says sorry....prats doesnt n krish takes her to adda

I know he loves her very much. Maybe she has learnt humility and her love for Krishna made her do it, thinking he will be pleased.
Once again he proves his love, by drinking that water....so adorable and so in love.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Anjaani, you may get your answer...did u see the link for SBB? apparently after K's act, P loves him more...and K said they are one so drinks it, doesn't matter - going by people's description. I'm just going now to watch it.
BRB.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

why do you say that?...I would love to know.
I think she is doing it for Krishna and maybe thinking well no harm in washing the feet is there.......sometimes u do something and then want to make up for it.

if what u saying is right ....than its going against everything she has been preaching so far....so far she didnt even wanna see it from krishnas POV....she wanted them in jail....n now when has back fired she is doing it for krihna😕
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: an_jaani

if what u saying is right ....than its going against everything she has been preaching so far....so far she didnt even wanna see it from krishnas POV....she wanted them in jail....n now when has back fired she is doing it for krihna😕

yes she see-saws......when she does something, he is the last person on her mind....then she does this because of him but I don't think she respects him, yet😕.....well let's be grateful for small mercies.😔
the SBB no link yet but T has put down a written des....K said we are one...P's said because of his act, she falls more in love and respects him............I t
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

The thing is when someone has been systematically abused for years, made to feel unworthy...these people have low confidence and fear the unknown. They believe everything the abuser tells them, for they know no other way of life. For them to break the chains of abuse, they need a lot of help and counselling. Sadly loss of child isn't a big thing - sometimes - but in kesar's case her husband and sasural is important. She has nothing else without them, she belived in Shakti's lies about being sorry because she so wants it to the truth....she thinks he will give her anothe child and all will be well.

but i guess she has spend so many years with shakti if prats cant believe him then why cant she and she should have known her lies and dramas .... if she wont take stand now she would naver been able to do so

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