31st Aug: SR & ArShi: Chaahat par sabhi ka haque hai
Hey Daffodils!
Am just making notes on the two couples and a footnote that is just my wicked but true observation. Sorry guys, lucky you that I cannot go through the entire episode step-by-step.
Siddhima:
If you were to ask me if SR love each-other , I'd look at them and say'. NAAH! IT IS LOVE AND MUCH BEYOND ' it is faith, it is compassion , it is support , it is respect and honour , it is camaraderie , it is compatibility , it is walking together, it evolution, it is poignancy ' it is EVERYTHING that a man and a woman can explore in one another ' it is everything that two human-beings can explore in each-other and grow old together ' To me this is LOVE and this is a MARRIAGE of true minds as the Bard would call it.
Siddhima are not perfect and infact show faults much more frequently than anyone else but with the wisdom, transparency , depth and simplicity with which they mend their faults and always hold each-other's hands makes them the most beautiful imperfect couple. Today , as they both reviewed their behaviour with each-other and their relationship sitting on different tables in the same cafe , you understand why they are soulmates ' they feel so much for each-other that when it comes to the other , the self becomes immaterial and they step back. As Sid refused to be selfish in his want for Riddzie's love and attention, Riddhima decided to put everything and everyone on hold for Sid. If this is not love , I don't know what is. When the two of them tell Shanky that they want to be together and are happy together right after a big fight , it is not to make him happy , it is to tell you that their relationship and their love and respect for each-other overrides everything that is negative. Riddhima was so excited about celebrating their marriage with love and happiness by undergoing the holy rituals again that you could see she was glowing ' she was happy , infact , she appeared much happier than Sid. But Sid was touched when an excited Riddhima said that she wants to marry him again for him , for themselves and what they share. As Shanky threw the divorce papers' pieces in the air in happiness , you just wished that all problems that SR face just go out with the wind like that.
Lastly, the lift scene was a quintessential beautiful SR moment ' loving , teasing , warm and a wee bit naughty. I loved Riddz throwing that little tantrum that Sid was not paying attention to her. Hamaari shaadi ka dinn'pyaar ka dinn'.sounds magical, doesn't it?
And don't bother about Riddz acting pouty and bratty with Sid and taking Armaan's name. We don't know what the scene is but yes, even if she momentarily compares the attention that Sid gives her to what her past gave her , big deal. You and I can count on our fingertips how many couples in this world act pouty with their spouses and tell them how their ex or even their grocery guy used to give them more attention. Relationships don't come into suspicion at the drop of a hat. There is always a larger picture'..
I loved Riddhima's " Mere would be permanent patidev" to her darling husband Sid.
Oh, and yes, if still a certain section thinks that Riddz has only stayed with Sid out of guilt , obligation and blah, blah, blah'.girls , you need to marry good men , so that you understand that no woman in this world stays untouched by the love and respect given to her by a husband like Siddhanth Modi.
ArShi:
Kucch to hua hai' Ting Ting'
Kucch ho gaya hai' Ting Ting'
14th June se lagta hai jaise'..
Sab kucch alag hai' Ting Ting'
Sab kucch nayaa hai'
From SR's placid lake like love , we come to ArShi's waterfalls. Haha. My jaw dropped to the floor at two ArShi moments. First , the CPR Demo. Poor , poor Shilpa. Ain't she totally Armaanified? But the look that she gives Armaan is not that of a schoolgirl who has a crush on her senior or her good-looking teacher or of a teenager reveling in the feeling of her first crush. It is the look of warmth, compassion , love that emanates from her every being- it is the look of Shilpa Malhotra. So when she goes 'Sajna', you go with her and her feelings for Armaan- feelings so deep and beautiful that even Maasi could sense them. Today , when Shilpa was a wee bit too close to Armaan's face , ( I don't believe this. Shilpa was actually going to do a mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to Armaan! That is when my jaw dropped for the first time, haha. She is so innocent and cute!) 'okay, at that time, it was not just Shilpa, it was Armaan also who was affected by her proximity. Infact , Shilpa should have asked Armaan'. " Bataao Armaan, kaise dekhte ho tum mujhe non-stop binaa aankhein blink kiye, tell, tell?" '.. Lolz.
Then , for the second jaw-dropping moment'.Uhmm- hmm! No, no, not Armaan puttar in shower. His thoughts while he was in the shower. He was trying to make sense of the little surge of emotions that he is beginning to sense now in his heart ' it is just a murmur but he is sensing it. All the times that he had found himself staring at Shilpa's beautiful compassionate face, all the times that she was close enough for him to guess her fragrance ' he had never escaped unaffected. Shilpa is becoming a part of him and he has no control over it. For the first time, Armaan is thinking about another woman and that too "as a MAN" and that is not at all bad for starters. Tomorrow, when a glowing Sid's Riddhima speaks to him regarding her remarriage , Armaan may do something stupid again to himself but his moment of introspection on Shilpa in the shower has told you that there is hope for him and I want to believe in that hope.
And later, I fully agree with what Maasi told a tearful Shilpa. Why cannot Armaan move on to a new love and a hopeful life? So what if he had a past with your sister? Does that take away your right to love him and his right to be loved? Don't stop yourself and don't stop him. You are on your way to becoming his present and there is nothing you should do to stop it.
So, when you look at Riddz trying hard to protect Sid , her marriage and looking forward to a beautiful blissful life , when you look at Sid who loves his wife and is touched by her wish to marry him again, when you look at Armaan who is taken aback by his turn of thoughts and a small surge of feelings for Shilpa, when you look at Shilpa who knows that she is madly in love with Armaan but refusing to let it show'you do believe that no matter what we have been through in life and what has been, we all need and deserve a little loving ' hence, the title.
FOOTNOTE:
This forum doesn't surprise me but I was a wee bit amused
today. When Sid felt for Riddhima, he was bashed, when Riddz fell in love with
Sid , she was bashed and they both continue to be bashed for having a loving
husband-wife relationship. Shilpa was bashed for no rhyme or reason and her
feelings for Armaan brought under the judgment stick . But today when Armaan
has felt a small surge of feelings for Shilpa ' thought of her as a man would
feel about a woman, why no question mark posts on him? Why not accuse and abuse
him for having impure thoughts about Shilpa and daring to think about another
woman? No. You will not do it. Not because Armaan's feelings for Shilpa are
innocent indeed , but because you do not
give that respect and love to Shilpa and SR. But you know what? Dil bhi sabkaa
ek jaisa hotaa hai aur sabki izzat bhi ek jaisi hoti hai. And , no , am not
sorry for saying this.
Love and luck always,❤️
GOD bless everyone. 🤗
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