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These are just my thoughts on Siddhant, Riddhima, Shilpa and Armaan today. Of course, you may not agree with them, to which I can only say that I understand.
Siddhant Modi:
What does one say about this man other than the fact that he's all heart ? How can you not love a man who's made of pure goodness ? Before leaving for his trip, Siddhant told Riddhima how it'd be nice to be her number one priority. Today, when he called his wife to tell her that he was missing her, the first thing she said was that Armaan is in trouble. Sid, without a moment's delay, immediately rushed to help Armaan, without a thought about himself, or his own feelings. Now, if that isn't the mark of a good human being, a selfless human being, then what is ?
Siddhant Modi, you may not be about the big things, the grand gestures, but you're about everything that is good, everything that is pure, and everything that counts. And that makes you a very, very special man.
Riddhima Modi:
Riddhima cares deeply about Armaan, and always will. How can she not, when he was such an important part of her life ? When she sees him hurting himself, deliberately, and that too because of her, its natural for her to react the way she is. How can you focus on being blissful and happy if someone in front of you is deliberately destroying himself, bit by bit ? And Armaan today openly blamed her. I can totally understand Riddhima right now. When Riddhima lashed out at Shilpa today, it was because she thought that Shilpa's pushing Armaan down the path of his destruction. And when Shilpa said that she couldn't stop him even if he tried, it upset Riddhima further. According to her, she knows Armaan better and could've helped him, but what she doesn't realize is that the only way she can help Armaan is by staying out of his way, which he clearly stated today.
Shilpa Malhotra:
Today, I just wanted to hug her. She's so full of innocence and so full of hope, and it wrenched me today to see her eyes fill up with pain when Riddhima lashed out at her, for no fault of hers. Ouch. Shilpa's just trying to be where Armaan is, she's just being what he needs her to be. Armaan is beyond any advice, or verbal lashings right now, which is precisely what Riddhima's doing. What he needs right now is someone to stand by him, till he chooses to help himself, which is precisely what Shilpa's doing. And today, she found out that the man she's fallen in love with still loves her sister, a sister who has no clue of her existence and who detests her very sight. Poor, poor Shilpa. Her world's shattering around her, and she has no one to hold on too. And inspite of that, she's strong, which is what I admire about her. She hasn't lost faith in life, in hope and humanity. And that is what makes her special.
Armaan Mallik:
I understand Armaan's pain. It hurts to lose somebody who was the center of your universe for such a long time. The loss and the pain he feels must be unbearable right now. However, he needs to realize that no matter what, life does not stop. He needs to pick up the pieces of his life and start living again, and not just survive. But nobody can help him do that, except for himself. Every ending is also a beginning, but we just don't realize it at the time. And this realization has to come from within. But for that, he needs to stop blaming Riddhima, and take control of his own actions. The day he realizes that ultimately, we're the ones who're responsible for our actions, and our actions do affect others, is the day he'll begin to truly heal.
-Aditi
Siddhant Modi:
What does one say about this man other than the fact that he's all heart ? How can you not love a man who's made of pure goodness ? Before leaving for his trip, Siddhant told Riddhima how it'd be nice to be her number one priority. Today, when he called his wife to tell her that he was missing her, the first thing she said was that Armaan is in trouble. Sid, without a moment's delay, immediately rushed to help Armaan, without a thought about himself, or his own feelings. Now, if that isn't the mark of a good human being, a selfless human being, then what is ?
Siddhant Modi, you may not be about the big things, the grand gestures, but you're about everything that is good, everything that is pure, and everything that counts. And that makes you a very, very special man.
Riddhima Modi:
Riddhima cares deeply about Armaan, and always will. How can she not, when he was such an important part of her life ? When she sees him hurting himself, deliberately, and that too because of her, its natural for her to react the way she is. How can you focus on being blissful and happy if someone in front of you is deliberately destroying himself, bit by bit ? And Armaan today openly blamed her. I can totally understand Riddhima right now. When Riddhima lashed out at Shilpa today, it was because she thought that Shilpa's pushing Armaan down the path of his destruction. And when Shilpa said that she couldn't stop him even if he tried, it upset Riddhima further. According to her, she knows Armaan better and could've helped him, but what she doesn't realize is that the only way she can help Armaan is by staying out of his way, which he clearly stated today.
Shilpa Malhotra:
Today, I just wanted to hug her. She's so full of innocence and so full of hope, and it wrenched me today to see her eyes fill up with pain when Riddhima lashed out at her, for no fault of hers. Ouch. Shilpa's just trying to be where Armaan is, she's just being what he needs her to be. Armaan is beyond any advice, or verbal lashings right now, which is precisely what Riddhima's doing. What he needs right now is someone to stand by him, till he chooses to help himself, which is precisely what Shilpa's doing. And today, she found out that the man she's fallen in love with still loves her sister, a sister who has no clue of her existence and who detests her very sight. Poor, poor Shilpa. Her world's shattering around her, and she has no one to hold on too. And inspite of that, she's strong, which is what I admire about her. She hasn't lost faith in life, in hope and humanity. And that is what makes her special.
Armaan Mallik:
I understand Armaan's pain. It hurts to lose somebody who was the center of your universe for such a long time. The loss and the pain he feels must be unbearable right now. However, he needs to realize that no matter what, life does not stop. He needs to pick up the pieces of his life and start living again, and not just survive. But nobody can help him do that, except for himself. Every ending is also a beginning, but we just don't realize it at the time. And this realization has to come from within. But for that, he needs to stop blaming Riddhima, and take control of his own actions. The day he realizes that ultimately, we're the ones who're responsible for our actions, and our actions do affect others, is the day he'll begin to truly heal.
-Aditi
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