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Hey Guys, Am throwing another post at you lol, thanks for all your support and love over my last few posts hope you like this one and if not then please leave and don't bash. Thanks.
So this post is going to be based on what the behaviour of Ridzy (as some people seem to be confused as to why she is acting in the manner that she is) means.
Now I've noticed that many people have been regarding Ridzy's behaviour as rather strange, in some cases people are going to the extent of calling it jealousy towards Shilpa and Ammy. But truly here is the question, I am sure many of us here have friends whom we care deeply about right? (and as I'm assuming many of us fans are girls) there have been times where we still care for those we once had feelings for right?
That doesn't mean we still harbour feelings for them though does it? It simply means that the friendship we shared with them at one point still exists and that we are wanting to maintain that friendship at whatever cost it takes. And frankly how many of us here started off as friends with those we once had feelings for? So it makes sense that after those feelings fade we'd still want to continue the friendship rather than let it go right?
Because before the alliance developed to attraction or love, all that mattered was our friend and how much we cared for them. So of course even after things go wrong and the love doesn't work out as it was meant to, we still try to keep that once friendship intact, because the memories of what the friendship was like lingers, and due to not wanting to lose them, we still care and we hold on.
So you see this is exactly what ridzy is doing. She does love Ammy of course she does just as sid, JPJ and us fans do , BUT she is not IN LOVE WITH HIM. There is a subtle difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone.
When we love someone, we care for them and try and help them through their struggles, and are hurt when they are in pain.
When we are in love with someone, that person holds significance to all else before us, we are consumed by constant thoughts of them, eager for the next encounter, and soon enough they become a cogent part of our lives and we do all we can to make them happy.
See with Ridzy, She Loves Ammy, But the one she is In Love With is our one in a million rock star Sid. The way she is behaving recently is simply the natural way for a girl to when she witnesses her best guy friend falling into the clutches of danger, all she wishes to do is be there for him and help him through his struggles as any good friend would do. Most of all she is fighting to maintain the friendship and save her friend from the perils of his past.
Doing this however does not make her a bad person, Sid understands why she is hurting so much, as should we fans, she hurts because she dislikes seeing her friend torturing himself in such a manner and feeling helpless to intervene and aid him. And Sid acknowledges this, he knows what his wife is feeling as he too feels the same pain, he too is distressed at seeing his brother suffer, so much like sid, we fans should empathise with how Ridzy feels rather than point fingers. After all we would react in the same manner as she is if we were in her predicament.
By Tazzy,
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