Ridhhima...Jealous? Really?? (Arsh and SR)

Hmmm so Ridhhima is Jealous.... Really?? It seems i have a herculean task ahead if i wanna justify her... So lemme quote a couple of real life experiences...

My sis and her ex broke up on bad terms... it took her a lot of time to get over him...but she did...and even started dating someone else...Her ex had started seeing this girl who was a complete B**** and it was a known fact... And guess what? My sis dint like it even one bit! Know y? No she wasn't jealous! And yes she had completely moved on... But she still dint like to see her ex with this girl coz...She dint like her... As simple as that.... And no she wasnt being judgmental...She knew that the girl is not a good person!

Now another one...This is my experience - when i broke up with my ex, i took the decision of ending it leaving him hurt and miserable... i was miserable myself to see him in pain and the fact that i had moved on and he hadnt was eating me up (see the connection?) I used to keep a tab on him and kept checking if he s doin fine or not... Concern...Yes... Friendship...Yes...But love...I dont think so..
After a few months, i met him and he told me he s seeing someone...and on another occasion i even saw him with his current babe... I felt weird! Weird to see someone else in my position... I had gotten so used to being his center of attention that to see someone else get that was a lil unsettling! But was i jealous? NO! Coz jealousy comes when you look at someone in a Romantic kinda way...This was purely a reaction based on human instincts...

So combine these 2 situations and you get Mrs. Ridhhima Modi - Who was once the universe for Armaan is now seeing him stand up and speak for someone else...And who is that someone else? A girl she has taken an instant dislike to...and not without reason...we have to agree that shilpa has been caught at the wrong place at the wrong time...And also remember that ridhhima believes that shilpa was indirectly responsible for getting armaan into the street fight...And hence you see a protective ridhhima coming out who doesnt want Armaan to get hurt..AGAIN coz SHE believes Shilpa is not good for him!

If you ask y she s interfering then thts a stupid question...Armaan interfered and so will Ridhhima...She was made to understand by her husband that only SHE can help Armaan move on...And from Ridhhima's point of view - Armaan will not move on with shilpa...he ll only hurt himself even more! It's a reaction based on pure human instinct! Maternal...Yes...Protective...Yes...Concern...Yes...But Love? I dont think so... And its natural...Infact i would have been surprised if they would ve shown ridhhima not getting affected at all...That would look unrealistic!

So i leave with this thought and hopefully the Arshians and the SRians are better placed to understand the enigma called Riddhima! But the one thing thing which is blatantly obvious is that she is now Mrs. Ridhhima Siddhant Modi and a wife who is very much in love with her husband!

PS: We all know precaps and promos are misleading so pls dont go by that!

Cheers!!!
Rapz

That was a good take Rapunzel.......... And I really appreciate how you drew up the similarities in real and reel life.

well... really deep thoughts and comments.... However I think that on a subconciuns level she might feel a litlle bit of jealousy..... but I think that it will be more concern rather than jelousy. Riddhima will be very concerned for Armaan since she have been getting a really BAd feeling abt shilpa since shilpa according to her is someone who does not care abt anything... a careless firl who always wants to have fun and when she is bored she moves on.... I think that Riddhima is afraid that Shilpa might hurt Armaan. But Riddhima should remember how much she has hurt Armaan, deliberatley or not.... anyways I hope u understand me....

Rapz😛

i cant tell shes actually jealous😕 ...but its like shes not used to seeing armaan with any other gal
..so she does not like it...somewhere in her heart she still has feeling for him.....
n shes just not used to seeing him with any other gal....soo she feels awkward
...shes not yet dealt with the part where she sees her ex with another gal....
she always told armaan "u need to forget the past..n move forward"..n i don think that she actually thought of a gal cumin to his life just yet 😊 :)..she just meant u need to forget me n stop hurting ur self...:)
.she too will deal with it..& will accept it eventually:)....n itll b okk i guess.😆..:) .......i dunno y is she saying shilpa is not good for him :)...but in the end shell get used to it the same way armaan did :)....i think shell deal with it quickly coz shes already accepted Sid n luvs him :)...

i hope u ppl understood what i meant 😆... ...din know how to express itt...:)Edited by niki_09 - 13 years ago

Good post......

But i have no left hopes with DMG ... 😕

its a nice post and i agree in real life people act maturely...this is DMG we are talking and i doubt the CVs are anything but mature...! i doubt they are showing a mature gal trying to warn her ex. The promo did not come out like that at all neither her scene with Sid! Its very clear ridzie is jealous and tht's wht the CVs are trying to show as this is reel life and they need to show drama here i guess!

rapzieee.....🤗 🤗 .......amazing pots.....hatt's off to you....👏 👏 👏

just when i think that where the heck have you disappeared.......you come up with such beautiful posts that all my anger vanishes in thin air.....for detailing everything including the lovable SR and ArShi.......

well m so siddhimafied that your posts make me relive that scene again and again........love ya always.......
proud to be a siddhimholic!!!!!..........
loads of love ❤️ ❤️
mayuri ❤️ ❤️

yh i agree. bt u noe wat dis fights is only bringin ArSh 2geder, so m glad. anyways m really hatin dis attitude of ridz towards shilpa, she's very judgfull widout knowin sum1.

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