Originally posted by: guptill
MANAV doesnt deserve Archana.. Yes, it true, absolutely true..
Archana has always loved manav, but Manavs love was never upto that mark.. So what if Manav saved her and helped her family many times without asking anything, yet he doesnt deserve her.. You are right on and u hit the nail on the head ! So what if he saved two members of her family .........still he doesn't desrve her .So he saved Manohar and Varsha..........so ???? These actions of him do not guarantee a happy , safe and secure future for any girl to go and live in that house under his horrible monster mother Savita for a LIfETIME . In plain words my dear , the girl's life is destroyed as she will NEVER be happy . Yes he saved Manohar and Varsha and these humanatarian actions r indeed very nice but for these two humanatarian actions a girl's full life cannot be destroyed by asking her that she shud spend the rest of her life with that foul mouthed Savita ...............against whom btw he is helpless to protect Archu as much as Damodar or that useless Kaka. Ask any girl's mother and she will say ........THank U very much , but only that much , bas . She wont say Thank u and send her girl in that hell hole . Any girls mom will say THank U very much beta but still I cannot send my girl there as u r never going to stay seperate and your mom is Never going to change .
Tell me guptill , which mother on earth will do satyanaash of her daughters future by sending her to live with a monster like Savita only coz the boy is good ? Arre of what value is that goodness if the boy is going to live sticking to his awful mom all his life ...........that so called 'good' boy is half the time not even aware of his mom's doings. Full world around him knows how awful his mom is........the boy doesn't . I am sorry guptill , but just Manav being good is not enough . His mom and he come together as a package and till Manav doesnt break from her apron strings ..........he will never be liked by ANY GIRL"S MOTHER . Did Girish want Shravani to live with Savita? Later he agreed coz his foolish daughter made a BIG mess of her life . It is sad but Manav will always have to pay for being Savita;'s son . Sad but ruthless fact of LIFE. Indeed if his mom is Savita he doesnt deseve a girl like Archana.
So what Manav loved Archana before and Archana didnt trust him, it wasnt her fault, it was manavs fault.. He should have done enough to show that he is nice man as every nice man says to his wife that he is very nice.
So what Archana didnt listen him and believed him, it was Manavs fault as he wasnt able to gather proof of his innocence.. Again you took the words from my mouth dear . He could not gather proof of his innocence , his drunkard father did it in one day while this simpleton just sat there fretting . The police went against him and said he was a stalker . No one wud have just believed Ajit , they became shocked when even police blamed Manav . Now Manav had only one alternative left .......proving his innocence . He had to prove somehow that police were corrupt , that bribes were accepted , he shud have got that taped confession of Ajit much earlier . What does one do when the system fails you ? What does one do when one loses in high court he goes to supreme court to fight his case by gathering more proofs to make his case strong . Is mein Archana ka kya dosh hai ? I simply cannot understand how a 15 day arranged marraige gal is expected to behave like some Hindi film actress who believes her husband in one shot ! Trust is built ober a period of time , doesnt anyone get it ? Manav finding out info about Archu and Archu about Manav r two diffrent things in conservative suburban society . Ashwin , Ajit are guys from good families........see their real face ! They r educated rich guys .........will anyone say they r stalkers and play around with women ? Fears and doubts arising in Archana's mind is normal or abnormal guptill ?
So what Archus vahini filed complaint against him and his family for harassing archana and his family was beaten up ruthlessly, he should have said archu that whats gone past is past..I dont think anyone in the entire forum is saying this statement ........that Manav shud say past is past and take archu in his arms and have bhelpuri with her on the beach . He has full right to be angry . Nevertheless I dont see why anger shud cloud anyone's common sense to this extent . His father has plenty of it . He too has witnessed his wife , daughter getting beaten up yet he has no glorified ideas about his horrible wife . Nor has his sense forsaken him to this extent that just by looking at Archu's persona he finds it IMPOSSIBLE that she did that complaint .
Look how savita is humiliating Archu, its all due to manav. How dare he marry a girl not of his league like Archana. At least, before loving Archana, he should have gathered information about her status.. Its surely manavs fault.. Look, how archu loved him and he has just made mockery of that love.. Poor Archu, she is going through so much humiliation and see shameless manav, how much happy is he?? Many of us havent seen smile on Archanas face, but all of us see Manav always smiling these days as he is marrying Shravani becoz he loves her and her wealth..Yes guptill , Savita is indeed humiliating Archu coz to date Manav has not put his foot down enough except for that one time . Manav worships Savita and pampers her even above his own father . Full world knows Savita for what she is.........only Manav doesnt . The chawl people , Kaka , Damodar , even Sachin Vandu . Only Manav doesnt see . Is this believable ? He is the major earning member of the family .............everything is in his contrlol .He never speaks up even when she says things like Today I went to ur wife's family and did hajamat etc . One statement from him that one more time you ask my wifes family for dowry , I will personally report you to police will curb Savita..........see how Varsha curbed her that day in market . But Manav encouraged his moms dowry demands by buying her a necklace and lying it was from Sulochana . This is a weak man we see who is pathetically trying to keep his wife happy and mom happy too . Manav is lead hero..........today he is showing a big angry young man roop , well where was it when his mom called Archu badchalan all the time and did these dowry demands ? Again when Archu mde him promise NOT TO SCOLD SAVITA again he gave in and listened ! Why ? Why didnt he put his foot down and say to Archu dont give me these kind of promises , I wont hear of them as Dowry demands r illegal ..........whether it is you or another girl ? Savita is sitting on everybodys head today only bcoz of Manav . Yes i know ur point that Savitas nature is uncontrollable , Manav is Not responsible for it...........but Manav can definetely control it with his firmness and he damn well should as he stepped into matrimony .
As far as the Shravani point goes that he is not smiling and his action is selfless and that he has NOT taken this decision for moving on in life ...........well guptill frankly THATS HIS PROBLEM ! No one told him to take that decision .........not even Savita . It was his very own .
Its true MANAV DOESNT DESERVE ARCHANA..
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