Advantages & Disadvantages of AbHer Relationship

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was just thinking about the advantages and disadvantages of ths AbHer Relationship once both of them fall in love and r married despite family's opposition🤔

Advantages of AbHer relationship:
1)Opposites always Attract and no wonder Abeer and Leher r poles apart😉😆😳
2)Whenever a rich guy falls for a middle class girl,there r high chances of that relationship sustaining forever because either the boy or the girl is ready for small compromises in life which results in a successful marriage😃 unlike in same-caste marriages where both think that they r superior than each other and this results in a break-up
3)These days Love marriages work more than arranged marriages because u know your life-partner better😳(I m not saying this..wikipedia poles r saying this😆😉)..sinse AbHer will first fall in love and then think about marriage ,so their is every chance that their marriage will work under any circumstances..mayb some ups and downs will b there but eventually their love will win😳..but if creatives don't follow wikipedia then anything can happen😕😆
4)Both AbHer live in the same locality😃 ..so even if there is a spat between the two after marriage,Leher will just go to her negihbourhood only which is her Maayka and it won't b much difficult for Abeer to just step out of his house,go to his neighbour's house and bring his wife back home😉😆😛
5)Sinse Leher is shown to b a more responsible girl,she will transform Abeer into a more responsible and independent guy eventually thus making Abeer's family proud of their son😃..
6)Leher might change the mentality of entire Vajpayee family after marriage with her love and good deeds😳 and then Vajpayee family might realize that even a girl from another caste can fit into their family provided she is born and brought up in a good environment..so caste should not b the main criteria everytime for marriage😃
Disadvantages of Abher relationship:
1)Abeer's family is pure veg while Leher's family is pure non-veg..this issue might crop up after AbHer's marriage thus creating a major issue between the couple😭
2)Leher might suffer from this caste-difference problem after marrying Abeer because no wonder Abeer's dadi will try to put her and her family down in every way possible and this might result in spats between the two lovers
3)Abeer's father and Leher's father might never get along well because both r very different in their nature..while Leher's father hv a very informal outlook towards life and his wife😉..Abeer's father is always strict hitler types even when he is interacting with his wife😆..so Abeer's father might not like the bindaas attitude of Leher's father..
4)Leher's family might go through all sorts of humiliation in any family gatherings or festivals because Vajpayee family will make sure that they get the upper hand and this might not go down well with Leher considering the fact that she is a very dignified lady with immense self-respect..if Abeer opposes his family at such occasions..its fine or else these small issues might develop cracks in their relationship
5)Vajpayee family is very much into puja and superstitins,so if by any chance Leher breaks any of the house rules..like say doing tulsi puja without taking bath..or doing the main puja after eating the breakfast which r small issues in her family,but in Brahman families these will b unacceptable and dadi will not spare Leher from her anger..
6)Leher is a good singer while Abeer is a bathroom singer(from yesterday's episode we can see this😉😆)..if the creatives take the story forward in terms of Leher's singing aspirations then this might create few rifts in AbHer relationship😕😕
There are many more advantages and disadvantages in this AbHer love story😆..chalo lets list them out😛

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

I was just thinking about the advantages and disadvantages of ths AbHer Relationship once both of them fall in love and r married despite family's opposition🤔

Advantages of AbHer relationship:
1)Opposites always Attract and no wonder Abeer and Leher r poles apart😉😆😳 agree hun... the most important advantage... it would be a solid relationship... coz the binding forces will be strong naa...😉
2)Whenever a rich guy falls for a middle class girl,there r high chances of that relationship sustaining forever because either the boy or the girl is ready for small compromises in life which results in a successful marriage😃 unlike in same-caste marriages where both think that they r superior than each other and this results in a break-up ahaan... nice logic here...
i agree again and hope that same happens with our janus AbHer....
3)These days Love marriages work more than arranged marriages because u know your life-partner better😳(I m not saying this..wikipedia poles r saying this😆😉smart girl you are hun... you have even collected proofs to support your cause... i like it....😉)..sinse AbHer will first fall in love and then think about marriage ,so their is every chance that their marriage will work under any circumstances i pray that all your predictions come true..mayb some ups and downs will b there but eventually their love will win righty right... agreed....😳..but if creatives don't follow wikipedia then anything can happen😕😆 than may be wee should start some petition asking the creatives to follow wikipedia results lolz....
4)Both AbHer live in the same locality😃 ..so even if there is a spat between the two after marriage,Leher will just go to her negihbourhood only which is her Maayka and it won't b much difficult for Abeer to just step out of his house,go to his neighbour's house and bring his wife back home😉😆😛 ya right... but i dont think there is even need of stepping out of his house hun... forgot the short cut??? the terrace way??? walls are very short naa... Abeer can easily jump croiss them and reach her maayka... waise bhi Abeer's room is upstairs, sop the terrace way is more cosiderable option...lolz...
5)Sinse Leher is shown to b a more responsible girl,she will transform Abeer into a more responsible and independent guy eventually thus making Abeer's family proud of their son😃.. ya right... now that the most common advantage, coz we got to see that in every other serial....😉
6)Leher might change the mentality of entire Vajpayee family after marriage with her love and good deeds😳 yeh wala thora mushkil lagta hai... but who knows... may be Mr. Tn (the ego beast) changes... let hopefor the best...and then Vajpayee family might realize that even a girl from another caste can fit into their family provided she is born and brought up in a good environment..so caste should not b the main criteria everytime for marriage😃 you are very very positve person i must say... bringing out the aspects which are least possible according to me....
Disadvantages of Abher relationship:
1)Abeer's family is pure veg while Leher's family is pure non-veg..this issue might crop up after AbHer's marriage thus creating a major issue between the couple😭 point here... but you know where there is love, such deifferences doesnt matter, may be they can effect Leher's relationship with her sasural member but i dont think this gonna be an issue of spat between AbHer...
2)Leher might suffer from this caste-difference problem after marrying Abeer because no wonder Abeer's dadi will try to put her and her family down in every way possible and this might result in spats between the two lovers only Dadi??? not that Mr. TN????? but surely hun thats the worst issue in this story, and off course it has all the potential to disturb AbHer's relationship....
3)Abeer's father and Leher's father might never get along well because both r very different in their nature..while Leher's father hv a very informal outlook towards life and his wife😉..Abeer's father is always strict hitler types even when he is interacting with his wife😆..so Abeer's father might not like the bindaas attitude of Leher's father.. hmmm... agree... may be Leher wud be looking for her father in her sasur, and she would be highly dissappointed by the over all attitude... and thn off course Leher's papa and Abeer's bauji dont seem to be the guys who wud get along well... very different from eachother...
4)Leher's family might go through all sorts of humiliation in any family gatherings or festivals because Vajpayee family will make sure that they get the upper hand and this might not go down well with Leher considering the fact that she is a very dignified lady with immense self-respect..if Abeer opposes his family at such occasions..its fine or else these small issues might develop cracks in their relationship haila... the starting of your post made me all happy, but now i am growing all depressed with you narrating the disadvantages...
5)Vajpayee family is very much into puja and superstitins,so if by any chance Leher breaks any of the house rules..like say doing tulsi puja without taking bath..or doing the main puja after eating the breakfast which r small issues in her family,but in Brahman families these will b unacceptable and dadi will not spare Leher from her anger.. hmm... the adjustments issues naa... worst of all...
6)Leher is a good singer while Abeer is a bathroom singer(from yesterday's episode we can see this😉😆)..if the creatives take the story forward in terms of Leher's singing aspirations then this might create few rifts in AbHer relationship😕😕 na na... i dont think so... but yes creatives are the people expert in creating issues out of nothing... so anything is possible...
There are many more advantages and disadvantages in this AbHer love story😆..chalo lets list them out😛

arey yar sab tou list kar dia tumne...
for me nothing left...

btw nice post hun....


love,
Suhana.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey Jyoti ...loved your synopsis ...yep both the advantages disadvantages seem to be vey true ,,,,par yaar first thing first the way the families are ..these two might have to run away to get married so I don't see them living with the family for some time after marriage ..haan given Abeer's promise to his mom maybe their running away will have her blessings and one more thing I thnk TN is a very positive character ...he is hard from outside , but you never know once he acceps his bahu he might turn out to be staunch supporter for her ... let's see...
but really i love the show ..simply coz it brings all memories of lucknow back ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Jyoti, brilliant points put forward. I can see these advantages and disadvantages come into play. The main thing is we know the family are going to play a key part in AbHer's relationship. The real test of love will be with AbHer themselves.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Gr8 post jyoti😊You have listed out all the advantages and disadvantages beautifully.
But anyways i dont think abeer and lehar r going to be married anytime soon.Because when the initial article of YPNHK had come out they had mentioned that the show is similar to dilwale dulhaniya..so i think abeer -lehar will get married only after everybody agrees to it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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one more thing:
if there is an arguement/ fight bet. 2 families, then watch out for dadi from abeer's side and chachi from leher's side as captains..

"Banki, Banki.......... jaldi lao kua ka pani..."--dadi

"Bade paisewale goomte phir the hain.., inhe kya pata middle class hona kya hota hai!!"---chachi

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tibs09

hey Jyoti ...loved your synopsis ...yep both the advantages disadvantages seem to be vey true ,,,,par yaar first thing first the way the families are ..these two might have to run away to get married so I don't see them living with the family for some time after marriage ..haan given Abeer's promise to his mom maybe their running away will have her blessings and one more thing I thnk TN is a very positive character ...he is hard from outside , but you never know once he acceps his bahu he might turn out to be staunch supporter for her ... let's see...

but really i love the show ..simply coz it brings all memories of lucknow back ....

Look who is here😲..Aditi where were u hiding these days😲..missing u in the adda🤗...
I agree AbHer eloping and getting married in a temple with mother's blessings is a real possibility😆..in fact I think Leher's family might support this relationship because her father seems to b very light-hearted and a jolly person who doesn't believe in these long term rivalries...the main problem will arise in Abeer's family only..even though TN later might turn out to b good but initially I think he and Dadi will b against this relationship..but mayb because of mother's insistence,they might accept the marriage but not from their heart..so it will b interesting to see how a Kayasth daughter-in-law adjusts herself in a brahmin family😉😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mari1986

Jyoti, brilliant points put forward. I can see these advantages and disadvantages come into play. The main thing is we know the family are going to play a key part in AbHer's relationship. The real test of love will be with AbHer themselves.

Definitely first AbHer themselves will hv to pass this test of love and trust😳..then the families will come into the forefront😆😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rexy34

Gr8 post jyoti😊You have listed out all the advantages and disadvantages beautifully.

But anyways i dont think abeer and lehar r going to be married anytime soon.Because when the initial article of YPNHK had come out they had mentioned that the show is similar to dilwale dulhaniya..so i think abeer -lehar will get married only after everybody agrees to it.

Ya even I don't want a marriage so soon😳..first let romance b in the air for sometime😉..but there r high possibilities that AbHer might secretly marry if both the mothers somehow agree and then the families too will hv no option but to agree for this marriage😃 They said it will b lke DDLJ..but till now I din't find any such similarity..if u remember in DDLJ SRK's father was more like Leher's father and Kajol's father was quite strict like Abeer's father..so here its role reversal😉😆..also there was no caste issue in DDLJ..so that way story is quite different😕..lets see how it goes😳

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