Hole in my heart....HELP - Page 3

Be patient Kukuraja! I think the reason for today's poor performance was Dev's LUNGI. I think he is mighty uncomfortable in it like it is going to fall any moment so the poor guy probably couldn't act to his fullest potential. :)

More than the acting, I think the creatives are not spending enough time showing their reactions, etc.

Kukuraj, Put your mind at ease. You have to realize these are very hard working actors that have to put up with everything. Away from family, dealing with the media, really off eating and resting times. and working their ... on 12 hour shifts every single day. If you recall during the 200th episode Dev was sniffing all thru the interview at the isckon temple. I was really hoping and praying he is keeping well and is not down with anything. They work really very very hard and we need to give them a break. The Chemistry is very much there you will have to look for it and may be some romance in your own life will get back the chemistry😉

kukuraj,

Yeh to hona hi tha. Now even if Radev get married it won't make any difference. 🤢

Courtship is the most romantic period .
That was the reason the creatives were dragging on the acknowledgement of love by Radhika .
Now that they are an accepted couple -----it is only lived happily everafter .
If any of you are a reader of fiction books you will understand this syndrome .
Whether it is a love story , a family drama or a murder mystery .I find it very difficult to put down a book once I get engrossed in the story .
Daily mundane tasks that keep me away from my book irk me .
However after the story ends , I feel a certain desolation . I do go & read some pages over again , but I feel a loss . till I my daily activities take over again

Hey guys .... thanks for your posts...

but I hope what you are saying is not true... I hope I have not lost that special feeling forever... I am really hoping that it will come back...

Abhi to Picture baaki hai....... I am hoping I am resuscitate those feelings with the coming episodes...

Interest I see your point about courtship and happily ever after - but to me this is more about the poor acting , screenplay, dialogues, direction and auxilary storyline's being too stretched...

If you think about it Abhi to itna kuch baaki hai... !

Dev still have to know the truth

Fingers crossed for that magical feeling to come back !!!

AprilSunrise : I just saw your post 'Rehab' - you seem to have similar feelings to mine...

I think my addiction to CB may have reduced but it will take a LOT of time for me to completely get over it....

Kuku, I thought a lot about this post. To me it is not that they are together, but always since the beginning there is such an imbalance in this show. They have to keep beating over our heads that this couple CANNOT be happy. This is for whatever reason. The Janmasthami special was magic in the moments in which they long for each other; so are the moments that they had in the engagement. But the sorrow that was Rad's alone has now engulfed Dev. Her life so far has not improved in terms of happiness quotient but reduced. Dev's happiness seems to have decreased despite them being together. It is just that they never get a real courtship. Other shows show a sweet uninterrupted courtship. Here the problems are so huge that the couple has a shadow on them wherever they go. Even their first engagement being cut off, it just is beginning to leave a bad taste in my mouth. Their constant suffering with such few happy moments is effecting sometimes my ability to enjoy the show. I blame the creatives. They think that we cannot enjoy the show unless every Ra-Dev moment has a black cloud over it. It is like we are too dumb to be happy in a happy moment unless we realize it is ephemeral. But this is NOT true. Happy moments and positive character growth are beautiful to watch. This courtship period should have been fun, happy and silly. Ra-Dev could have helped medium characters like Vivek or Devki with certain tasks; there could be some lighthearted romance and shopping trips, etc. Why not here? It will be sorrow, sorrow, sorrow, happy wedding day and then?In Pavitra Rishta they show these happy moments beautifully. Even after marriage there are problems but they are not as dark and sinister. I think to me that is why the show has lost its magic (Hopefully temporarily)

I think what KUKURAJA is getting at is that Avi's and Rubi's acting (the intimate moment) was just mediocre in the last episode.

I think it was probably the scene that was shot which was the problem. If you think about it, in real life when you are that upset about something or someone you care deeply about the last thing you feel like in being all lovey dovey with your partner. And perhaps both actors found it hard to portray both those feelings (ie being extremely upset about something and being passionate to each other) at the same time. Or it is probably they are just tired. But we all know that both Avinash and Rubina are very talented.

I agree that the interest for the show is waning but still it is till fun to watch it and more fun to visit the forum. Like someone else said they probably have a set date for the wedding and need to drag it by these unnecessary story lines. But at the same time I like to think that until now Dev and Radhika just dreamt about being together. Now, they are facing mundane issues of life together as a couple. And seems like they are on same wave length. These 'problems' and agreeing and disagreeing about these problems and finding solutions to these problems ought to make them stronger emotionally. Just fantasizing about each other won't get you too far. And hopefully this would give them the strength to deal with the Mircha gang, amma, Vishkanya and looks like a very unhappy Vaishali.

Kuku, don't jump into the lead couple for one off-day! 😊 Everybody has some off days in life! It must be so hard for Avi-Rubi to be passionate in front of camera when they have a delicate relationship in personal life too, and with all the news of their tie-ups. This is a tough time! When you are not absolutely certain of one's love and on top of that people making different kind of stories! It's very difficult to concentrate on work! At that time, one word from your partner can elevate or sink your mood! Hopefully they will spring back in action from monday after the weekend break! 😊