Arman's love vs Abhimanyu's love - Page 5

Originally posted by: maggie131984

Hello all,

Seeing the way Abhimanyu is reating to the insult he faced by the intern gang, a question arose : Does he really love Nikita? Because if you love someone , you would never hurt that person. Even if u hurt that person, later on you feel remorseful and hate yourself for causing grief to the person you love. Like Arman, he has faced so many insults, rejects from Ridhima, but never has he tried to insult her or give grief like Abhimanyu is giving to Nikita whom he loved. Arman took the insults and rejects and gave him self pain. Whenevr he did somehting, it was to make Ridhima realize that she loves him.He always respected what Ridhima wanted and never forced her to do what he liked (like kiss). He went away twice to keep Ridhima happy, On the other side, Abhimayu just cares for himself. If he is in pain, so is Nikita. If he loved her he should have seen the hurt Nikita is going through. Today. insulting in front of others, by throwing away the file at her was worst. Abhimanyu said he will not love her, one cant remove the love from heart. I love Arman's charatcer compared to Abhimanyu in terms of love. Abhimayu's love is selfish while Arman's love is pure.Abhimanyu on the other side kissed Nikita and insulted her. If he didnt want her to be a part of his life, then why did he kiss her? Abhimanyu doesnot have the coruage to fight with others for his love, like Arman did.Arman faced insutls from his own freinds and then from Dr. Shashank.

Love Arman's love for Ridhima.

What do you guys think?

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i agree wid u topic maker....Armaan love is best as cmpare 2 Abhii..

ridz has refused him sooo many times dat she doznt love him n all....sent him 2 jail,made Armaan victim of bhaang..she has dne wrst things 2 him as cmpare 2 niki but still Armaan never insulted her wat abhi is doing???n how abhii can b sure dat niki feels sumthing for him...

Originally posted by: dua_44ever

I don't believe I m about to say this but Abhi is totally different from Armaan...Armaan no doubt is the best lover boy...but why r we giving him this title?? We know his whole story from the begining...we know how he was..then how he loved and then how he was rejected, humiliated and insulted and then how he reacted....but what we don't know here is what's Abhi's story? what's in abhi's past? why is he the way he is? initially when rahul came in DMG..we hated him b/c he was against armi and he wanted to create a rift between AR...but then when he sort of helped AR get back together and was always there to support them...we loved him...getting back to Abhi...when he entered DMG..he was shown as the careless guy with a huge attitude who knows no meaning of remorse or compassion...we didn't know why he was like that...he just was...and everyone hated him....then he started changing a bit and the only 2 people who realized this were nikki and ridz...the reason for abhi's changing attitude was nikki...so think about it...the person you r changing for...if you don't get a positive response from them..you r bound to be agitated and aggravated by them...since we don't know what's in abhi's past and what has happened to him....this is the way he chose to react...not everyone in the world behaves like Armaan...and we know Armaan's whole story...we don't know Abhi's whole story yet...Nikki pushed him to this limit and not he wants to hurt back everyone who hurt him...which may not b the right way but to him it seems right....I m not taking his side...I m just trying to understand his behavior...I still want the interns to teach him a lesson...b/c what abhi is doing is absolutely wrong...but he is so hurt that he can't see that difference...ridz tried to talk to him twice so far...but he isn't listening...so...eventually he will be taught a lesson to get things thru his head and see right from wrong!

ABHIMANYU AND ARMAAN ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT INDIVIDUALS.ARMAAN PASSIONATELY AND TRULY LOVES RIDDHIMA INSPITE OF THEIR LITTLE MISUNDERSTANDINGS.RIDDHIMA ALSO STANDS UP FOR ARMAAN WHENEVER HE IS IN TROUBLE.BUT ABHIMANYU'S SO CALLED LOVE NIKITA IS EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE.SHE DID NOT STAND FOR ABHIMANYU WHEN HE WAS INSULTED AND INTEREFERENCE FROM HER SO CALLED PESKY FRIENDS NOT TO MENTION ARMAAN SPOILED THEIR RELATIONSHIP.NO DOUBT ABHIMANYU IS ARROGANT BUT HE IS BCOZ OF HIS PAST REALTIONSHIP NOT WORKING OUT WHICH DID NOT WORK OUT.THEN NIKITA CAME AND IT ALL STARTED AGAIN. HE CHANGED FOR THE BETTER BUT WENT BACK TO HIS USUAL ATITUDE DUE TO NIKITA.OTHER THAN BEING A LOVER BOY HE DID PASSIONATELY LOVED NIKITA AT ONE POINT AND HE PROVED THAT HE LOVED HER ON QUITE SOME OCCASIONS ALSO.I THINK THAT HE STILL LOVES HER BUT AT THIS POINT IT IS DIFFICULT TO SEE HIM IN LOVE.HE IS TAKING REVENGE ON ALL INTERNS DUBBING IT AS SO CALLED PROFESSIONAL CHANGES IN SANJEEVNI.HOWEVER HE HAS CROSSED THE LIMIT BY INSULTING NIKITA AT MEETING .RIDDHIMA HOWEVER FEELS THAT ABHI STILL LOVES NIKITA WHICH I THINK IS SOMEWHAT QUITE TRUE.TODAY'S EPISODE THE WAY HE LOOKED AT NIKITA I SAW THE SAME INTENSE FEELING IN HIS EYES.HOWEVER I CANNOT BE SURE .RIDDHIMA HAS TOLD NIKITA THAT ABHIMANYU LOVES HER.HOWEVER IT WOULD BE BETTER THAT ABHI STILL SHOULD NOT LOSE NIKITA .ONLY NIKITA'S LOVE WILL BRING BACK THAT OLD NICE ABHIMANYU.NIKITA IS CERATINLY PERFECT FUTURE WIFE FOR ABHI AND THAT'S WHAT I FEEL.NIKITA SHOULD ONLY MARRY ABHIMANYU.

AS THE CONCLUSION I MUST SAY LOVE IS NOT AN OBJECT WHICH CAN BE COMPARED .IT IS THAT FEELING WHICH COMES FROM WITHIN. ONE DOES NOT KNOW HOW AND WHEN IT COMES.HOWEVER REGARDING COMAPRISON ARMAAN IS AN OPEN HEARTED COOL DUDE WHILE ABHIMANYU IS A NO NONSENSE GUY.BOTH FOUND THEIR MATCH IN RIDDHIMA AND NIKITA.

HOWEVER WHAT HAPPENS HAPPENS FOR THE BETTER. I AM BETTING THAT NIKITA WILL NEVER LOSE ABHIMANYU NEITHER WILL ABHI LOSE NIKITA.THEY R BOTH GOING TO GET MARRIED ONE DAY OR THE OTHER.OTHERWISE WHAT'S THE POINT OF WATCHING DMG .TODAY THEY R ONE OF THE BEST POPULAR COUPLES OF DMG AFTER RIDDHIMA AND ARMAAN.IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE ABHI REALISES THAT HE CANNOT LEAVE WITHOUT NIKITA.ON THE OTHER HAND THE PATHWAY SEEMS TO BE CLEAR FOR ARMAAN-RITZ WITH A SMALL GLITCH.TIME HEALS THE WOUND OF EVERY PERSON.NIKITA WILL AGAIN COME BACK INTO ABHI'S LIFE .IT HAS HAPPENED IN RITZ'S LIFE AS WELL.IT IS A PART AND PARCEL OF LOVE LIFE.