Sai Deodhar, Television actress

What is your biggest worry when getting married?

Asha N Maniar, Housewife

"I was married 33 years back. I belonged to a fairly liberal family and was fortunate to have a modern upbringing. But on the contrary, I was married in an orthodox family. So my greatest worry at that time was that how would I live under such strict rules and regulations. Also, coming from a small family adjusting in a joint family was again another problem for me. My husband lived in a small home whereas I came from a relatively larger house. So space and privacy was yet another problem.
Then there were many other small problems, which I suppose every young married girl faces when entering a new phase in her life. But slowly and steadily all my fears were resolved with my husband's help and support."

Sai Deodhar, Television actress
"I suppose marriage for every woman leads to a graduating phase from a girl to a woman. So, similarly there were lots of apprehensions in my mind. The most crucial being how would I manage without my Mom and manage things all alone? Also, being a working woman I was wondering whether I would be able to balance my home and work properly, which I still keep on worrying about. But these, I suppose are small problems and if you have a loving and supportive husband (like I have) it becomes all the more easy."