It's only AsYa! (Part 5) - Page 27

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

So about AsYa wedding, I know Niki, you've been saying that Asad is the oldest n should be getting married before any of his siblings but usually, don't older brothers get their sisters married first n then get married themselves. I know my dad married off all of his sisters before he got married n I know in several movies/shows n real life, I've seen the same thing happening. Is that just a Hindu type thing or a more universal thing? or since its a TV show, doesn't really follow the same rules😆

Originally posted by: niki_12

CC ever since Nikhat came from Haseena's house and hid her pain I have been thinking she is wrong. Yes she is strong to hide her pain but these are her parents and family. Her putting up a strong face when she is broken inside is commendable but a little ridiculous too. And then when she decided to accept Farhan's proposal because her dumb mother is regressive was completely wrong. IMO she should have finished college and pursued dancing. And the stupidest was to forget all that Haseena did and accept the proposal. She is depressed and she is making wrong choices and her mother is not helping.

Humera is stupid. She is completely selfish. That's the difference between Zoya and Humera. Zoya was ready to give up Asad for Billi's kid also. That is noble but Humera is being selfish and stupid. Forget Raziya but Gaffur really loves her a lot. And all she is thinking about is Ayaan not once did she realize what her parents would go through if she kills herself. STUPID!

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

So about AsYa wedding, I know Niki, you've been saying that Asad is the oldest n should be getting married before any of his siblings but usually, don't older brothers get their sisters married first n then get married themselves. I know my dad married off all of his sisters before he got married n I know in several movies/shows n real life, I've seen the same thing happening. Is that just a Hindu type thing or a more universal thing? or since its a TV show, doesn't really follow the same rules 😆

Originally posted by: niki_12

Devika i know what you mean. And yes we often see that but its not always necessary if the age difference is huge. Asad is much older than any of his siblings.

The only reason i keep saying Asad has to be married first is because marriage is doomed in QH LOL...and the only couple who is "right" to get married is AsYa. They have shown every other couple goof up/not ready for marriage (only AsYa did not hug during Ramzan). I feel only when Asad and Zoya say QH will the doom end and the other couples can proceed. F32 keeps saying how no one has said QH yet so going by that logic the first one to say QH also should be like a landmark and a milestone! IMO it has to be AsYa for that reason.

Then once the other couples overcome their problems they can say QH!

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Devika 🤗 missing u man!!! u r right that generally sisters get married - i think it is a cultural thing - the mothers want the daughters married before the wife comes and corrupts in the son😉 just kidding - but Niki is right - Asad is a lot older than this sibling so he should get married

Personally from a sentimental POV i want them married - as a viewer who gets bored fast - i want them married - from a CV/ TRP POV ASYA would get married in the end

@ pink - Niki ASYA have daddy issues yet to be resolved do u still feel that they are ready?

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Devika 🤗 missing u man!!! u r right that generally sisters get married - i think it is a cultural thing - the mothers want the daughters married before the wife comes and corrupts in the son😉 just kidding - but Niki is right - Asad is a lot older than this sibling so he should get married

Personally from a sentimental POV i want them married - as a viewer who gets bored fast - i want them married - from a CV/ TRP POV ASYA would get married in the end

@ pink - Niki ASYA have daddy issues yet to be resolved do u still feel that they are ready?

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

CC, yea man, just been busy with stuff 😔 Miss u too 🤗

I guess wht u n Niki are saying is true - Asad is way older than his siblings so yea, it makes sense for him to get married.

Niki, I do feel that they are the only right n pure couple n so shud be the first ones to get married. CC, I agree that they have daddy issues but I feel kuch toh hona chahiye na, shaadi ke baad work out karne ke liye. I think, normally,on TV, ppl often skip the sort of adjustment period that ppl have after they get married. I think, if done well, they shud do that in QH n show Asad n Zoya adjusting to each other's lifestyles n thought processes. They've already started showing that n how both are compromising for each other. It would be great to see that continuing after marriage cz honestly, physically, I feel they still have not reached that stage yet n Zoya hasn't reached that stage emotionally. So I think shaadi ke baad, that part can come.

I was thinking about how I want Asad to initiate romance but then I realized that I think that'll happen only after shaadi n maybe even after SR cz like I mentioned, physically they're still not fully comfortable with each other. Like when he pulls her back towards himself before the photo album scene (the mitwa moment by the stairs), as soon as she said you're hurting me, he left her. Usually, if a couple was in love, that wouldn't have happened (at least, I don't think so). Even the pizza wala scene, somebody mentioned how as soon as he leaned over to touch her mouth to remove that piece stuck on her mouth, she just shrugged n indicated that she wud do it n he also had that puzzled expression which actually even I had. That level of formality is still there n is evident with the whole name thing as well. I think once they've started living together n getting comfortable with each other, then we can have more Asad initiated romance.

Allah jaane..woh din kab aayega 😛

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

CC, yea man, just been busy with stuff 😔 Miss u too 🤗

I guess wht u n Niki are saying is true - Asad is way older than his siblings so yea, it makes sense for him to get married.

Niki, I do feel that they are the only right n pure couple n so shud be the first ones to get married. CC, I agree that they have daddy issues but I feel kuch toh hona chahiye na, shaadi ke baad work out karne ke liye. I think, normally,on TV, ppl often skip the sort of adjustment period that ppl have after they get married. I think, if done well, they shud do that in QH n show Asad n Zoya adjusting to each other's lifestyles n thought processes. They've already started showing that n how both are compromising for each other. It would be great to see that continuing after marriage cz honestly, physically, I feel they still have not reached that stage yet n Zoya hasn't reached that stage emotionally. So I think shaadi ke baad, that part can come.

I was thinking about how I want Asad to initiate romance but then I realized that I think that'll happen only after shaadi n maybe even after SR cz like I mentioned, physically they're still not fully comfortable with each other. Like when he pulls her back towards himself before the photo album scene (the mitwa moment by the stairs), as soon as she said you're hurting me, he left her. Usually, if a couple was in love, that wouldn't have happened (at least, I don't think so). Even the pizza wala scene, somebody mentioned how as soon as he leaned over to touch her mouth to remove that piece stuck on her mouth, she just shrugged n indicated that she wud do it n he also had that puzzled expression which actually even I had. That level of formality is still there n is evident with the whole name thing as well. I think once they've started living together n getting comfortable with each other, then we can have more Asad initiated romance.

Allah jaane..woh din kab aayega 😛

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

Awesome post Soup - got up and read it first thing - made my day 😉

comments in purple


Edited -
I am one of the few who complain about Zoya's immaturity at times (especially of late) or the light romantic scene for i prefer when they actuall talked and communciated while being there for each other - like Zoya telling him about her nightmares and past or Zoya and Asad scene after his confrontation with Rashid at the factory - but the thing we do not realize is that Asad had to grow up and be emotionally mature long before his time - remember the scenes b/w him and Najma when Dilshad has asked Rashid to come over or Asads convo with his mother after she saw Rashid 1st time after 17yrs or when Rashid did not come over after promising he would? Asads has a great open mature relationship with his mother- he has had to be the emotional support for her since he was a boy therefore he has missed the fun aspect of all relationships - thus when Zoya does stupid silly antics which we feel are childish they are actually very dear to Asad - something as silly as her teasing him or giving his jam sandwiches with smiley face are Asads fondest memories of their relationship😃