Blast from the Past Thread #6, ep 78, pg 115 - Page 68

EPISODE 75

Love and hate are two sides of the same picture as these both emotions are associated with the deep inner desires for someone who is way too close to your heart.Arnav and Khushi are going through the same phase right now at this stage they both are burning in love with each other immensely and the intensity of this burn is creating havoc desires which looks like hate but that is another shape of acuteness, deepness, ferociousness , strength ,keenness , and agitation of this impulse known as LOVE.

King and Queen - Round 4 [good part NO Slithery Rook in this epi]

Defending each other.

Khushi's respect towards Arnav shows how unintentionally she gives him prominence . She will never complain about Arnav to anyone .She always treasure him for that and especially now when she knows how does he feel and care about her regardless of his rage and animosity.She diverts Naniji 's concern for her as she knows She will not spare him.

Pause here:She never say a word against Arnav no matter how much he hurt her.From Forced marriage to every fight in between them.Poolside fight where Shyam and Anjali comes after their severe fight is one example

Poolside the place where they met first time when he held her after she saved him from falling and they both marked it as theirs.Today Queen is in King's den ,in her place as fate has written it as their Eternal Heaven."Mehsoos" feeling of each others' presence and pain is getting intense as she knows he is here right behind him and he knows her pain as he is the cause of it.He is apologetic and wants to alleviate her pain "Khushi whoh tum nain..."[Khushi you...] No anger just disconcertion is all over as his voice modulation with discomfiture is speaking volume and with his attritional eyes

Queen is in no mood,"Bas humain aapni aukat keh bare main aur khuch nahin sunna"....[I don't want to hear anything about my status anymore] and turned her face with anger and ire and here she feels a tug in her Dupatta."humara dupatta choriye"[leave my Dupatta] as she assumes he got her Duppata.She is breathing heavily with mixed feelings which changes into rage and as his mind does not work in anger so is hers .While throwing hot tea on Arnav,"aapki himatt kaise huai"[How dare you?]

Pause here: He is not angry.Arnav Singh Raizada is not angry with his Khushi as he 's been through with the same pain as she is .She went through hell because of him,as he threw her out of her home and then her car.He threw her respect in muddy water by throwing money at her first,then throwing her in the list of gold digger,and when all this did not throw a moment of peace at him he literally threw her in muddy slush.When in return she threw some slush at him in the form of juice of embarrassment in her melodious way ,he threw the daggers of his peace of mind by calling her low cheap liar full of deceits .He knows the meaning of those tears which she had shed in these couple of hours which splashed on his heart as hot burning oil with which this hot tea can't even compare.He knows the meaning of each word of her and the reason behind it as she is asking him in these private moments how dare you and how could you play with my dignity and respect like that as her Dupatta is her respect ,her protection which becomes happy when he is around and reminds him of her when she is not around in the form of wavy curtains right here in this sanctuary " the poolside" their "Eternal Heaven"

She gets flustered by knowing her mistake and he asks her in his silence "ab theek hai"[now you ok] after throwing your anger at me.She runs away from there and sees him in deep pain by throwing last hidden look at him which brings her in pain and distress more than ever.

Pause here: She always gets double pain while playing pranks on him like Swami Track she wakes up all night for taking care of him ,the same way he goes in pain while throwing daggers of his rage on her like he takes care of her during Nanital trip.Always "Hamesha "at numerous occasions.

BEAUTIFUL PONDERING MOMENTO before I move on:

1-Dupatta catching before kissing

2-chai phanking before kissing

and many more but these are my fav...hmmm..dreamland...

Anjali's distress put Khushi in deep anguish.Khushi,"buri tarah se jal gaye"[burn badly] .The soreness and affliction of pain could clearly be heard in Khushi's voice after knowing her LaadGovernor's agony which caused by her and left that mark on her heart on her Soul deeply.

A sister's pain vs his soul mate's pain is compared here very well as Anjali is worried about his physical pain but Khushi is getting the heat from his inner turmoil along with that burn mark as this time he diverts Anjali's intention when Khushi was ready to tell herself who is responsible for it."kuch nahin hai Di,choti si chot hai mein handle kar loonga"[Its a small wound I will handle it]...Like he was saying to her if you can handle my given pains I can yours.He relieves his Di as he can't see her in distress because of him at any cost because at this point his Di is everything for him because of his denial state with Khushi.

Pause here:Just like Khushi ,Arnav dignifies Khushi's respect infront of ppl as he did the same when she breaks his fav vase and above all he defended Khushi when ppl were questioning about their marriage.Their fights and sorrows remain in between them.They both can rattle about anything in between each other but putting each others dignity at stake is not their trade.

Khushi comes back to apologize as she can't go against her nature if she is at fault she rectifies it immediately.She can't remain angry with anyone for a long time and here is her LaadGovernor "Humain Bolne tou dijiye"[let me talk]but King is not in a mood.He closed the door on her the same way as she did "humesha keh liye" without listening him .Got the taste of her own medicine.Ouch...

Khushi,"iss dafa ghalati humari hai" [this time I am at fault] They both can feel [mehsoos] each others' pain with this closed door.

Pause here:Anjali'"tumhari bachpan ki aadat hai itni chot lagi hai and muun se uff bhi nahin nikal rahi"[ since childhood you don't say a word no matter how big your wounds are ]Di surely gave a lot of food for Khushi's thoughts to explore more about his Arnavji.

CONNECTION:The door is closed but they both are on either side feeling each other s' distress and condition unlike last time when he was standing outside the closed door as she was not the other side to see or feel his distress as she is the KEY and this time KEY is outside and Arnav is inside and she has the access to open this door and at the top this door does not have a LOCK.The only thing she needs a push of LOVE.

Khushi," babuji bhi humain bewaqoof kehte hain ,par hum itne bare bewaqoof hain pata nahin tha"

She knows the pain of "burn" as she got it during Navratari and she were not able to rest over small and He is not saying a word even though he burned badly."Kitna jalah hoga na"[how badly he is feeling that burn without uttering a word]

"Humain unse maffi mangini chaiyeh"[I must ask forgiveness]

La does not want Khushi's help as she is thinking this way she will win Naniji's heart and Khushi will be out because this is her international samaseya "KHUSHI" as she is discussing her with pim and pam...

She loses Lakhmiji because of her extra care and Mamiji wants her "Switch off" as she has to think something to save herself because "why fear when Mami is there" .She found the solution by switching the goat and color it white

Khushi,"yeh tou Lakshami nahin hai"[this is not Lakshami] Lavanyaji aagar aapse koi ghalati ho gye hai tou humain bataiyeh"[If something went wrong just tell me]She is selfless soul ready to help no matter what.Mamiji is shallow here.

Khushi wants to rectify La's wrong actions by her good deed as she is determined to find Lakhmiji.She loves and cares with her pure heart.

Symbolism of white and lakshami

White is a mixture of all colors so it takes all the emotions.It also associated with light, purity,and truth,simplicity,innocence ,marriage in western culture, cold in eastern culture .

Lakshami A Mother of Goddess: The female energy of the Supreme Being. She is the goddess of prosperity, wealth, purity, generosity, and the embodiment of beauty, grace and charm.

Connection:Khushi will find Lakhmiji as she emotionally attached to it and loves it unconditionally as she is a pure heart.Her lie comes from the her pure heart to alleviate the tension but Naniji knows her and she will regard her more in her heart.She helps La unconditionally which in return changes her towards Khushi because of her purity and simplicity.

AND khushi is Lakshami all along.

Pause here:Naniji sees her in Khushi as Nani herself is same as her very forgiving and chulbuli as "khushi,"aap tou nachiti ho" during Holi and Nani forgives Garima [even though her daughter died] so easily and hugged Khushi in remarriage

Naniji's concerns for her Lakhmiji are so natural as she is mother and it symbolizes how someone who is close to heart becomes a part of you thenits hard to let go of the someone and that person is no other than Khushi.

Khushi comes to rectify her actions which has caused for her Arnavji her protector her Rakshus her laadGovernor a deep pain which is so excruciating for her that she can't breath without see him in relief.He looks at her,"Tum yahan kia karne ayei ho"[ why did you come here] words are not with khushi who has answer for everything and was not gone unnoticed by him .Before she could speak her tears tore him apart as his anger washed away with these tears.Khushi,"Who hum aapko jalana nahin chahte thai humnain aaj tak kissi ko bhi nahin jalaea"[I did not want to burn you as I never burned anyone before.It seems like she is saying"I never meant to hurt you that much" as she saw his pain just couple of hours ago when he was delivering his complaints in rage holding her hand and she also witnessed that he never wanted to degrade her in front of others as he did not let her disclose the reason of his burns.

Pause here:It seems she is saying she never want to make him go through with this burning sensation by leaving him to lukhnow or by not listening him during resignation or during Teej and all that.

Khushi while crying bitterly,"woh humain laga tha apnain humara Dupatta pakra tha"[I thought you caught my Duppata]Like she is telling him I thought you are deliberately disrespecting me as her Duppata is her respect meaning Her.

Arnav asks with bafflement and innocently,"tou kia pakrna chahiye tha"[Should I have to catch your Dupatta,]like he is asking and seeking her permission to move forward for her to make her his.

Bitter batter is on...

Khushi,"Hum nain hi apki ghari mein Mishari ki goli dali thi aur apke shoes mein juiceee"

Arnav,"mango juice"

Khushi innocently and cutely,"woh sangtare ka nahin mila na iss liyeh"[because i did not get orange juice thats why]

Arnav just literally smiled at her innocent answer.Yummilicious smile!Seriously people this haircut and this beauty never came back the same way.Loved him in this haircut.

She bitterly cried for her every action and he smiled at her chastity and purity.ASR completely dived in this river of innocent adorableness and artistry of her today as she soothed his pain out for everything she did and for every pain she caused by saying "Sorry"

He offered her tissues and our Sanka Devi just used her multipurpose Dupatta which he wants to hold.How can he hold it like that parmeshwari. He felt icky with this strange act.He is right UNBELIEVABLE!!!Khushi Kumari Gupta...

I must say Barun and Sanaya was SUPERB here:👏👏👏fantabulous!

Pause here:Khushi,"aap bohat ajeeb ho"[you are strange]asArnav," ajeeb hai yeh "[she is strange] and will turn into" hum dono kitnain ajeeb hain.[we both are strange]

Symbolically and metaphorically

Mishari ki goli in the car meaning...Khushi's thoughts stuck in his brain

Mango Juice in shoes not orange ... means seeding love in him with sexual tension ,an urge to get her

[as The orange symbolically in chinese is a prayer or wish for good fortune and luck Orange trees are a symbol of love just like mango but mangoes for sexual desires]

Hot tea ... meaning Ghusa and burning desires

Anger "Ghusa"from both sides as love is burning and why?Love and hate from both sides as one is throwing and other is getting the burn ...as tom and jerry game No body is winner and no one is loser.

MOMENT OF THE DAY:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tp-kt33fyDY

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tp-kt33fyDY[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: chalhov

Lets see Durga what I can do either I can reply and read the posts or create my posts very tough for me to spend so much time with my job and home( having maids for all works) so whenever I get time I collect pictures and upload and search for the proper songs and lines sometimes I think something but cant get the exact words

I have to head a batch of nearly 100 people pretty tough cant give this work to any one😉 have to do myself all will be shocked with my pass time My love for this show and this thread am a very late starter keeps me glued here earlier it was CB and also My destress factor. Again have to attend a top level management workshop next week ( so this is my real kahani started watching shows after my son left for higher studies when I joined IF) Earlier and till now am a news person could never tolerate SB dramas. Never watched any K dramas etc very few out of the mill stories/shows which coincide with my time

Thanks Durga yesterday was home so could do it. part 2 also I have pictures and song have to put in time and post I also selected and uploaded pictures for 75 in fact I have a paid photobucket account as well( not trying to make excuses) love all your efforts

Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

Its on SAT March 16th in between 2-5 PM

Originally posted by: ..Anita..

Episode 75!!!!

The episode begins with the nani and mami sitting in the living room'then Anjali and khushi come and sits down'the two ladies sees them upset and asked what happened'they do not reply and nani is like what is up'then la and laxmi came and la asked nani if she can take laxmi for a walk'nani refused (wise decision'I would not trust her either). Sadly nani agrees on mami and anji's persistence but she told lavanya to be careful (she has a little too much hope for her). true that! 😆 Khushi wishes to go but la was like Heck to the No'Anjali then tells khushi to bring tea from the poolside.

Khushi is by the pool and Arnav come there too'before arnav could say anything khushi was like I do not want to talk about my status and she moves from there but then her dupatta gets stuck on a plant (I am surprised that thing is not caressing arniekin's face)'khushi thinks arnav is holding it and she tells him to back off before arnav can say anything'she throws scolding hot coffee on his face. my poor man Then khushi notices that her dupatta is indeed stuck on a plant'Arnav does not say anything'and khushi takes off her dupatta off the plant and starts walking away nervously (yeah I would be scared too) Poor boy did not even express his pain (how manly).

Lavanya is taking laxmi outside and her phone rings and she tells her friends that the goat is joining them because that is the only way she can leave'she tells them that khushi is training her'and as she was talking she was not paying attention and laxmi just walks off..

Anjali is looking for arnav and in her she has an ice pace'she tells khushi that arnav burned himself very badly'khushi feels maha bad now'In arnav room'arnav is buttoning up his shirt (first time I saw it I thought he was unbuttoning his shirt) anaji told him not to button the last few button and let the burn have some air (she is my hero'when I first saw this episode I thought she was stopping arnav from unbuttoning his shirt'but I am proven wrong)' 🤣she takes arnav to the bed and tells him to but the ice pack on it'Khushi comes in and Anjali asked arnav about his burn'and khushi was about to say that she caused it but arnav said it was nothing'Anjali then said as a child, he was always like this, he never cried in pain'Arnav makes anji leave and he said he will handle it'anjali leave and khushi comes there and she is about to say something but arnav closed the door on her face (she got a taste of her own medicine) and she said that this time it's her fault and she will ask for forgiveness'

This should have been in the show!!!! Stupid editors

Lavanya finally hangs up her phone and she looks for laxmi because she realized laxmi is gone'and she goes to mami ji (bad idea) and tells her about laxmi being gone

Khushi is sitting on the stairs and she calls herself and idiot for doing that'she remembers that she cried a lot for a small burn and ruined navratri during her childhood but arnav faced a bigger burn but did not cry in pain'she was imagining the great pain he must have felt.

Arnav is now gardening and khushi comes there and he asked her what is she doing in this neck of the woods and after a while she starts to cry and she starts telling him everything she did and that she is sorry'she mentioned that she thought he held her dupatta and arnav said why would I hold it (even he know that the dupatta comes to him and he does not come to the dupatta)'She calls him weird and he is like excuse me'Khushi accepts the fact that she put sugar in his car and "joose" in his shoe'arnav then said mango juice'then she said that she could not find orange juice (I think she said that) arnav then smiled!!!!! She feels ❤️❤️❤️ this entire scene, seen it like million times!

maha sorry and she cries again'he hands her tissure and she blows her nose in the dupatta instead'he was like wth that is gross'. And then khushi leave and arnav said unbelievable but still smiling!!!

Mami brings laxmi back and la was like where did you find her'mami was like she is a duplicate'they find out that this goat has a dark mark on it and try to hide it by putting powder on it'khushi comes in and said that is not laxmi and tells la that she is wrong'.she told la that they should go find laxmi and la said no'she knows what she is doing and mami said you are giving la the bad ideas so nani will hate her (that lady got it wrong)'Nani asks for laxmi and they take "laxmi"outside. Outside nani is worried and wonders where is the clothes to laxmi'Khushi is in la's room saying that she must find laxmi' Will laxmi be found

These pictures came from my friends FB album'they finally came in handy!!!!

Originally posted by: chalhov

Ami again a lovely analysis I think I have tried to follow your color codes hope they are right loved all the colored parts and extra pink/purple my comments mostly in blue and the drools wah wah wah

Originally posted by: DurgaS

Hello my friends,

On Friday, Cynthia's mother's service is taking place. @ArshiHamesha, do you know what time it is likely to be held? I would suggest, if we get to know the time, all of us could jointly say a prayer for our friend's dear mother. Or, we can fix a time tomorrow and observe 2 minute silence. We need not come online at that time, just say our prayer from wherever we are. Would like to know your views.

Originally posted by: wiwy

Hey Durga

At last. I have it! A poem dedicated to your one month old bday on the thread! During my college days(sigh!!!) I used to write poems. You have rekindled me! Hope you like my poem!!

PAYASH LOVE DURGA

Hum dono ki kahaani par

Na daali kisi ne nazar...

Hum dono ke beech bhi

Laal rang ki uthi lehar!

Ab khola hai Durga ne

Hayye! Humara raaz!

Pyaari wo ban gayi

Ab humari humraaz!

(No one paid attention

To our tale of love

The wave of red colour

Had also risen within us!

But Durga has disclosed

Our silent love!

Dear Durga has now become

Our bosom friend!)

Originally posted by: indi52

"khushi!" "khushi!!" his voice sounds worried, is that a trace of remorse in it? his eyes rend the darkness... where is she? he hits the steering wheel frustrated. "kahan gayi yeh ladki?" where has this girl gone! always comes back for her, like that time when it rained. tonight it wasn't the rain. it was the torrent of gussa. she walks alone in the dark, scared.
he is always there for her no matter what either in hate or love and that is the beauty of this relation which attracts me

"mere hi ghar mein aakar, yeh shart rakhti ho ki main tumhare saamne na aaooon?!!" the last bit teeth grinding. come to my house on the condition that i shouldn't appear before you! hah, the cheek.
he was mad at her how can he not see her or let her see him so cute even in his ghusa😳
and so starts a fight he's been itching to have ever since he overheard the conversation between la and khushi. how khushi tricked him into attending the aarti. oh, hopping mad is he. in fact, that thing about her stipulating the condition, ever since la deliberately let him know of it, he's been seething.
he is so adamant to get her
and now that thanks to nani he has her alone in the car with him, he is all set for a super dooper asr gussawala fight. looks like she is in no mood to cower and back down either. great lovers are possibly great fighters too. i have heard from someone much into the ramayan, that valmiki's original had a really feisty sita, who fought with ram when needed. in fact, she roundly taunted him when he refused to take her along for the 14 year banishment in the forests. sita managed to have her way. ha.

love the connection

the long drive has begun. in the cab, temperature pressure far from normal. plenty internal combustion going on. an about to erupt silence. he reaches to untie dm's chunari or so it seems. she prevents him with alacrity and without any thought rushes headlong into confrontation.

"yeh kya kar rahen aap?" what are you doing?

you can't open the chunari just like that.
he touched the right nerve it proves how ell he knows her more than her knowing him

and mr angry lets it rip. "kyun? karoonga toh kya karogi? di aur nani ko bataogi? shikayat karogi meri? tum apne aap koi samajhti kya ho... mere hi ghar mein aakar yeh shart rakhti ho ki main tumhare saamne na aaooon? tum ho kaun? how dare you... tumhari himmat kaise hui?... mujhe dhoke se aarti mein bulane ki..."

why? what will you do about it? tell di and nani? complain about me? who do you think you are? his temper is rising fast. come to my house and lay down a condition that i can't come before you?!!! who are you (the hell, is suggested by his tone)? how dare you? trick me into attending the aarti...!!

he had mixed feelings and she is making it worse for him

a right royal battle ensues. reminded me of the ocean raging against the shore again. lashing out, receding, lashing out again.

LOVE IT
she's surprised. but is quick to recover. she's angry. and in her case too, the real anger was triggered by something else. he stops the car suddenly, till she's heard all he has to say, she must sit there and listen. the heat of a sunday afternoon storeroom suddenly in the car this late evening.
yeap kissi aur chees ka ghusa aur nikla kanih aur ja keh
she tries to get out. he locks the doors.

okay, she lets him have it too. i did it because you were rude to bal gopal.

"toh?" so?

how could i just let you go?

"tumne theka liya hai kya? tum hoti kaun ho?" have you taken the contract (to resolve such matters)? who are you?

"aap kaun hote ho?" who are you?

i almost felt like stepping in and saying, "sh... don't fight like that... don't you know only married couples or at least couples in long relationships are allowed to yell and shout and make such a scene in the middle of the road?"
haha they already crossed that level
i respect god, can't bear to see anyone talk like this before him.

"mooh pher liya karo..." silver smooth rejoinder, turn your face away then.

"aap kabhi apni sar jhuka liya karo" cracking return, you should sometimes lower your head.

(if this were a game of tennis, umpire would be having a mean time. love 15, love thirty, love forty, deuce, 30 love, 40 love... uff love all.)
so true 😆
"laad governor toh aap ho hi..." you are of course, laad governor...

he looks at her...

thought you'd get some wisdom after doing arti, she completes. but... and this is when she really begins to go where no one should ever dare to venture in, his inner rage...

"bina shadi kiye kissi ladki ke saath aise rehna," living with a girl without marrying her, she mutters.

"jo bolna hai mere samne bolo," whatever you have to say, say it to my face, he rasps (at last i get to write an m&b verb)... "jab main tum se baat kar raha hoon toh meri taraf dekhkar baat kiya karo...main tumse kuch kah raha hoon!!!" when i talk to you, look at me!!! i'm telling you something!

"humne kaha ki aap rakhas hain rakshas!" i said you are a rakshas, a demon.you don't respect god, you don't give importance to people either. which is why you're showing such disrespect to lavanya ji.

ah, finally it's out. her extreme discomfort with the whole living in thing. completely at odds with her view of life. repulsive, abbhorrent, wrong.

he's confused. what's she talking about.

and khushi clarifies that living with la without marriage is what she considers "beizzati."
Pure fact but that was the reason in her head bugging her as she can't see him with her but havs no clue why
he stops the car again.

"kya bakwas kar rahi ho..." what nonsense.

note how neatly the quarrel escalates this point on..

how can you do this, counters khushi.

i can... it's my life... and i don't believe in marriage. asr is clear.

"aur lavanya ji?" what about la?

"tum hoti kaun ho uski taraf se..." who are you to take up the cudgels for her? he is incensed. voice rough, hard.

"ek ladki," a girl, says she. making la's cause her own. khushi as "jagruk nagrik" flits through the mind, but here the situation will take a really nasty turn, even before you know it's coming.

"darte hain aap... apne rishte ko naam dene ke liye... kyunki aap kamzore hain," you are scared to give you relationship a name, because you are weak. khushi is getting very rude and moralistic, crossing a line... but she is now too far gone to stop and so, "par apne kabhi yeh socha hai.. aapke ma baap ne bhi sha-" but have you ever thought, you mother and father also mar-

"get out."

swift, almost sotto voce, doused with cold anger. who would have believed his voice was rising and heated just a moment ago. that reference to his parents seems to have hit a nerve. he isn't thinking. some place inside is in turmoil, waves rising, crashing, frothing. on the surface a deathly calm. a decision is done. "tumne suna nahin... maine kaha get out..." didn't you hear, i said get out. again, no shouting, just a command.

thats it she got him and this time he she hit the nerve

she's worried, frightened, it's late. what's she to do alone here in the middle of nowhere.

and he steps out of the car, walks out, over to her side, opens the door, grabs her and pulls her out of the car. then walks back to his seat and drives off. that cold, that nasty.

his rough, angry wheels leave a last lashing on her. mud.

"keechar uchhalna." the hindi words for spattering mud on someone, speak of loss of face, of respect. of course, this will happen to khushi, in fact, just like this evening, his actions will mire her further in the muck.

she will get a lot from him 😭

but perhaps here as in later, the important thing really is he will not be able to go away despite all the anger, the hate, the gussa. how hard i tried to hate you, khushi, but my own heart wouldn't listen to me. yeh tumne mujhe kya kar diya, khushi. and me, how hard i tried that i may hate you, but i couldn't, arnavji. can you hear me, khushi... hamesha.

tonight, despite everything, all his red hot rage... he could still hear her. so he had to return. not just once, twice. there is a tie between them building, whether they know it or not, whether they acknowledge it or not. the sort of tie that lasts forever, in sickness, in health, in gussa, in joy, marriage or no marriage.

I wish this tie happen to a lot of ppl coz its rare


extra extra extra
every shot in the car today and the sequences later, wanted to be captured and included in the post. i've chosen some i just had to share, hope you enjoy.





again a hot sunday afternoon storeroom crashes into the evening.

she won't take that hand. balled fist, again

"gadi mein baitho," sit in the car. "pahle aap apni badtameezi ke liye maafi maangiye," first apologise for your rudeness she'll demand. of course, no chance of that happening, but a much more gorgeous outcome will her demand get, a classic sobti "palat," the turn back.👏

















and finally, a question, if you had a chance to replace the girl in one of these cars (girls, not buaji), which car would you choose. and why?

do we have to answer its the second one with comfort and full of love and hate and care and consolation with lots of RabaVes😆