taking for granted!!

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

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Posted: 12 years ago

😡ok, i am a mostly silent member of the forum and more so a vivid viewer however i have sometihng to say now, yes this is a behna show this is where two sis give most importance to each other ONLY and live for each other can die ofr each other, sacrifice ofr each other, hurt others ofr each other and even hurt self for the other !! i get that realyly, that is the crux of ik hazarau mei, but please!!

the mere fact that these two sis can scarifice do anytihng for - what in thier mind is the best ofr the other is quite dangerous- for in this they tend to take the other relations joined by them as granted!!

swami said a simple simple thing: jeevi u did sometihng that you thoutght was the best to save your sis and in donig so you took a decsion and after the decison then thwe whole- tellnig guilt ( even to viren she told her decison and expceted him to come around- which he did coz he is basically the sweetest hubby she cld get- but that is besides the point😆) and the fear that she had is being turned into reality

" everytime you two will feel there i s sometihng that you can do to bring happiness in each oters life or remve hurt misery in each oterl ife u will do so irresepctive how deterimental it is for others" coz when it comes to sisters nothing lese maters and dunu ku kuch nhn dhikta siway ik dusray k"

at this momet jeevi promis that i will do practatab and only i will get punished was just a diaouge that showed she dsnt get swamini point of view" when ur tied to family ur actions have imapct on all and uss pe she prmised no it wont" and then she goes ahead and odes this stupid tihng??

dnt hit me but i feel swamini is right!! yes when it comes ot behnas they really dnt care for other relations be it inloaws, maternal family and even hubbys!!

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how can jeevi who is supposed to be mature sensible think that her gong away will make it eaiser? and yes again her gong away to give manvi happiess she gives a hoot to virens being crushed?

how is that not taking for granted?

the man who stood by you who scarifced his first born for your sis, this is the gift you give him? leave him, this is the trust in a relation? cldnt share that i am not ok with samwni narazgi pls manate hain unku? nope u go ahead and agian make a decision that imapcts all coz u feel it is good for ur sis?

so how is the bua wrong?

and i knw cvs will in the end make bua the owrng person, jeevi mahan, the time that her sis and devar who have gone thru such hard times are to be happiest they will be broken and devasted!! she cldnt have left when virat manvi had gonge for honeymoon? why destroy their marriage and ruin celeberations? how is that step not affecting the family? she is behaving like a dodo bird 😡

fine she cant see manvis love to see the pain caused to viren ,vanshika, hell even bua coz everyone will blame her onyl( esp in the forum) but knwing her sis how much attached she is , she chhoses to leave at the moment sheneeds her the most? wnt her leaving like this make manvi feel guilty that coz of me di had to abort and then give up marraige too? how hard is it it to get that?

i want to see a remorse ful jeevi not a mahan jevvi an a ashmaded bua, i dnt want virento foirgive her , i dnt even want manvi to forgive her simply coz maza tou kirkara kardia nad is this the soultions?

really immature step and more so i have had it with showing girls taknig hubby ofr granted, how can they show shortsightnedness to be mahanta?

viren deserves trust repsect and communication , even manvi does deserve that, she is taking for granted all of them!!