Time to change from past precedence!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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People need to realize that if you look at past episodes, this is classic ASR behavior! He has yet to learn to really notice everything and properly apologize. Yeah he's said sorry in the past and says it offhand sometimes as well. But he's only meant it that one time after he talks about her parents. ONE TIME! He's done so many rude things to her but we never see him regret it. We could just chalk it up to CV amnesia but that's just how he is! He regrets it internally and blames himself for causing her pain. He himself has said that he never realizes what he does when he initially does it!

As for Khushi... The only reason she's acting this way is because she knows that in a few weeks/months, the contract will be over and this man who she searched heaven and earth for will be letting her go. She once again will lose the family that she has come to love and worship so much. A family for whose happiness she sacrificed her own. She will once again become an orphan with no where to go. So why should she give in to him? A couple of episodes ago, people were up in arms about how Khushi shouldn't forgive him for what he said to her and how this was the last straw. Now those same people are hating Khushi for holding a grudge?! People be consistent and realize that the friction is needed. We all wanted to see Arnav not ASR woo Khushi like the wife he wants to keep in his life. So what's with all the "the CVs are changing his character and this is going to ruin the show!"? We've seen it in the past where the story needs to pan out otherwise if there is drama ALL THE TIME, viewers get sick of the rona dhona and demand more romance. Now there is romance, people want to see some arguments and natak. But then when they can't stomach the anger ASR throws out, they whine and complain about how he needs to be nice to her. Do people not realize they're being contradictory?!?

The TRP drama that happened last night should be a wake up call not just for the makers of the show, but for all of us. We need to think back like Arnav did today and realize that for 300 episodes, this show has entertained us, made us cry, fall in love and break our hearts numerous times. But each time we've bounced back! When ASR broke Khushi's heart after Diwali and blackmailed her to marriage, her pain felt so real that I'm surprised the show kept going. The terrace MU episode hands down was the most hated episode in the history of the show. But we still watch the show, even a 100 episodes later. Why?

I may still be new to posting online but after reading everyone's take, why not offer my own? I agree 100% that we'll see a new side to Arnav and Khushi but that's the point of the show evolving! We don't forever want an Arnav who in his ASR mode will hurt Khushi and never regret it and we certainly don't want a Khushi who will forever be nosing her way into other people's business!

If you look back and watch the series as a whole, you realize that Arnav's temper doesn't boil over as quickly anymore and Khushi has a more serious side to her ever since he came back home. This isn't a deviation from the original character sketch. This is part of GROWING UP. But you can't forget the original character flaws that both have where they have this huge communication gap. I'm sorry for all those people who said last week we saw a mature love. Yeah we did. But that doesn't mean people who "maturely love" each other do not fight and bicker. The right to fight with the ones we love is what makes us human!

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