At first I was so furious and all set to leave home, but Dadi ma and Ishaan's father tried to calm me down and convince me to stay. The next day Radha Bua spoke to me and requested that I don't leave home. I was touched by everyone's concern for me. Later, Dadi ma told me a little bit about Radha bhua's past, but I still don't know what the whole story is.
Dear readers, if you have ever experienced a situation such as this, you would have also learnt something from it. Here are some tips that I would like to share with you all based on my recent experience.
Respect other people's feelings: The big take away for me from this whole episode is to respect other people's feelings. Although I tried to do something nice for Radha bua and Deepak, I did not pause to think how they might feel about it. When I'm asked not to interfere in someone else's personal matter, I should have stayed out of it. I am someone who does not really think about the consequences of my actions, but after this experience, I will make sure to think through every decision of mine.
Be calm and patient: It is very important to maintain your calm in such an intense situation. It will help you to think clearly and will prevent you from making rash decisions or hurtful comments that you are most likely to regret later.
Give the other person the benefit of doubt: Don't always assume that the other person is at fault. Do give them a chance to explain their actions.
Do write in to me at suhana@starplus.in with your tips and suggestions based on your experiences. I would love to hear from you.
Now that the unpleasant episode is behind us let me tell you all about the special guest who arrived unannounced at our house yesterday. At first we were all worried that it was a contractor who has come to demolish our house, but later on he revealed his true identity and guess who it was? None other than our favourite actor Akshay Kumar. It was very nice to have him amidst us and he really enjoyed spending time with our family and was totally impressed by the bond among the family members.
I will write to you all again next week and hopefully by then the mystery behind Dada ji's obituary is solved. Meanwhile, do write in to me with your suggestions/messages and also, do recommend ways through which I can bring Radha bua closer to Deepak. E-mail me at suhana@starplus.in. Help me get to know you better by leaving your name, age and city where you reside in. I would love to hear from you!
Here are my replies to some your messages. Thank you so much for your responses.
Neethu: Hi Suhana, I am Neethu from Kerala. I regularly view your show and never miss a single episode. I love the way you act. You have perfect timing. You look very lovely and you dress really nicely as well. My regards to all of you at the Kashyap family and the Bajpayee family, especially to badi maa and dadaji. Wish you all the very best.
Suhana: Hey Neethu .How are you? Thanks for all the compliments and the love.
Noshin Nawar: Hey Suhana, this is Noshin Nawar from Bangladesh and I am 14 years old. I am a big fan of yours. I like your show a lot and I do not miss a single episode of it. I was really sad to see that Radha bua slapped you but I guess now everything is coming into place. Please keep smiling always because you have the best smile in the world.
By the way, I want to thank u for your intelligent bargaining tips and for the names of the popular shopping places of India. In fact, my mom also bargains in this same way and I m trying to learn these tricks! And the next time I visit India, I will surely visit these shopping markets! Please reply because I m dying for your reply.
Suhana: Hi Noshin, you are most welcome. Do use these bargaining tips and let me know how the experience was.
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