Yeh Fitoor Tera episode discussion thread # 1- Page 109

That being said, I get how ungrateful Saumya is coming across esp in the precap. But think about it like this- this girl was ready to be led to the slaughters by marrying Sarthak a guy she could barely even stand... all to please her daddy dearest. Itna ingrained hai uske mind set mein to worship her dad. If she could easily sacrifice herself and her own body and her own happiness - why will she suddenly care for Jeets self respect in all this.

You need to love yourself before you can love someone else. Saumya only loves her dad. She doesn't feel she has any agency on her own thoughts and feelings. How can Jeet possibly figure into any of this at this point in time .

Saumya khud apne papa ko happy karne ke liye kuch bhi kare no problem afterall daughter hai woh

But dusro se apologies expect karna wrong hai just to please her father's ego

Frankly speaking aaj ke epi ke bad madam apology demand karti to thik tha

But ye rant last 2 episodes se chal raha hai is liye it's getting on my nerves now

And for Jeet sahi kam bhi wrong way se hi karta hai ye since from the epi 1 but jo bhi karta hai mostly Saumya ke liye hi hota hai so thoda samjhana chahiye somu ko bhi

I think ab sorry bhi bol dega ye.. I hope na bole kyunki Dr ise it's ok to bolega nahi

Originally posted by: Chinmayi18

Saumya khud apne papa ko happy karne ke liye kuch bhi kare no problem afterall daughter hai woh

But dusro se apologies expect karna wrong hai just to please her father's ego

Frankly speaking aaj ke epi ke bad madam apology demand karti to thik tha

But ye rant last 2 episodes se chal raha hai is liye it's getting on my nerves now

And for Jeet sahi kam bhi wrong way se hi karta hai ye since from the epi 1 but jo bhi karta hai mostly Saumya ke liye hi hota hai so thoda samjhana chahiye somu ko bhi

I think ab sorry bhi bol dega ye.. I hope na bole kyunki Dr ise it's ok to bolega nahi

Yep. I agree ki last 2 epis se demand kar rahi hai sorry toh it's definitely getting on the nerves.

I have a feeling ki now after all this- Jeet will definitely take a step back (which he should) and then Saumya will finally have the yearning for him.

Maybe this was needed for her to get over papa dictating her life.

Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Even in that BTS/ we don't know what she's saying to him but she clearly isn't able to bear the fact that he's ignoring her.

Jeet ki bhi toh problem hai/ usne apna sab kuch daav pe laga diya to protect this girl- without expecting any kind of reciprocation. Ab he's literally being burnt for that. Thoda relationship status solve karna Chahiye tha before going all out lol.

Originally posted by: wuthering

Yaar wrong in the sense that Jeet technically still doesn't have any business telling off a dad that he sucks at parenting. He did take out his own frustration with his dad on Anoop. He could have handled it differently. We all know he felt what he felt and we all agree what he dropped were truth bombs. But they were super insulting. And he called Saumyas dad as the biggest villain in her life. From Saumyas POV that was super harsh.

And hospital mein bhi- yes those goons were misbehaving but two wrongs don't make a right. A person who has been so much in check of his emotions esp when he dealt with Sarthak etc kind of lost the plot. Ek hota hai to protect and stop someone from hurting. He charged at that guy like a bull. He had to restrained- he may have ended up killing that guy based on the BTS. Again yet to see how they show in the epi but purely from the BtS thoda over kill laga uska reaction.

Saumya and her papa jaap is highly tiresome and leading up to today's epi made no sense whatsoever. But that rant and the fight will justify her in her sorry bolo endeavor all of a sudden I feel.

Jeet is still the morally right character in of this- don't get me wrong. But Saumays dad colored glasses ke POV se Dekho toh Jeet is wrong this time .

Sure, from Saumya's POV he's wrong, but objectively he isn't wrong.

Let's not forget, Anoop has no business calling him gunda, najayaz, and all that either. Somewhere, both Anoop and Jeet are aware that they are strangers who unwittingly have an intimate knowledge of each other's lives. The reason Jeet's words triggered a panic attack in Anoop is precisely because what Jeet said was the truth. And sach hamesha kadwa hota hai. The words were also not insulting. He wasn't demeaning her father, he just was angry and raised his voice at Anoop. Which tracks for a man who already was literally demeaned by his own father, and then had to deal with indirect taunts on his character by a man who claimed to know his daughter.

He's never been a mere bystander anyway.

As for the fight with the goons, again, we don't know what prompted it, but judging by Saumya's bloody nose, one of those goons either intentionally smacked her or accidentally shoved her. Now, when Sarthak just held onto Saumya's wrist really tightly, we actually saw a glimpse of the same anger Jeet is showing in the BTS. Sarthak just twisted/held Saumya's wrist tightly, and got an equally violent response from Jeet along with a verbal thrashing. If someone did something much worse with Saumya, he will react appropriately (re: Jeet literally thrashing Roop).

I'm okay with the conflict being Saumya being mad at Jeet because she thinks he's wrong, but a conflict that's derived from only Saumya being right and Jeet only being wrong is just unfair to both these characters. Saumya needs to learn that her father isn't a perfect man, and Jeet needs to feel vindicated for all the filth that Anoop, Roop, and Sanjeev have been spewing at him from day one.

This is literally a case of dono apni jagah sahi hai, but one character definitely needs a better treatment from the writers.

Originally posted by: Chinmayi18

Honestly ab somu SA victim kam aur papa ki bhakti me lin sadhvi jyada lagti hai 🤦‍♀

Wrong right kuch samjh hi nahi aata ladki ko apne baap ke samne oh God it's so frustrating

I know, right! And I still blame Anoop for this. He's just so far up his own a** ke isko khudka dard hi dikhta hai. Obviously Saumya will be all, "oh no, papa." Baap hoke beti se hi apne baap hone ki pariksha likhwa raha hai.

Originally posted by: cosine456

Sure, from Saumya's POV he's wrong, but objectively he isn't wrong.

Let's not forget, Anoop has no business calling him gunda, najayaz, and all that either. Somewhere, both Anoop and Jeet are aware that they are strangers who unwittingly have an intimate knowledge of each other's lives. The reason Jeet's words triggered a panic attack in Anoop is precisely because what Jeet said was the truth. And sach hamesha kadwa hota hai. The words were also not insulting. He wasn't demeaning her father, he just was angry and raised his voice at Anoop. Which tracks for a man who already was literally demeaned by his own father, and then had to deal with indirect taunts on his character by a man who claimed to know his daughter.

He's never been a mere bystander anyway.

As for the fight with the goons, again, we don't know what prompted it, but judging by Saumya's bloody nose, one of those goons either intentionally smacked her or accidentally shoved her. Now, when Sarthak just held onto Saumya's wrist really tightly, we actually saw a glimpse of the same anger Jeet is showing in the BTS. Sarthak just twisted/held Saumya's wrist tightly, and got an equally violent response from Jeet along with a verbal thrashing. If someone did something much worse with Saumya, he will react appropriately (re: Jeet literally thrashing Roop).

I'm okay with the conflict being Saumya being mad at Jeet because she thinks he's wrong, but a conflict that's derived from only Saumya being right and Jeet only being wrong is just unfair to both these characters. Saumya needs to learn that her father isn't a perfect man, and Jeet needs to feel vindicated for all the filth that Anoop, Roop, and Sanjeev have been spewing at him from day one.

This is literally a case of dono apni jagah sahi hai, but one character definitely needs a better treatment from the writers.

Oh yeah yaar. I'm totally with you on how frustrating this all sounds and looks. Jeet is definitely the one in the clear in my books as well through all these events and Saumya is the one who needs to work upon her own feelings and thought process and not be a mere robot in her papa jaap.

I meant to say Jeet is wrong from Saumyas POV, not Jeet is wrong from audience perspective.

I know I'm probably giving too much credit to the writers but I'm really hoping that this conflict where she is told to maintain her distance from Jeet and where Jeet actively avoids her is the external stimuli she needs to reckon with her own feelings and stop being subservient to daddy dearest. That's the only way out of this arc.

And problem of this show is the flip flopping of characters. Anoop ko itna rage baiting dialogues dete hain ek din and how he was so overtly obsessive about Saumya Sarthak marriage happening and then over night he's pretending that oh he cared for his daughters well being after all and calls of the marriage.

Koi consistency nai hai thought process mein. They give cute funny scenes to Jeet and Anoop and then random scenes where Anoop can't even stand Saumya standing next to Jeet no matter what. Just yday he was saying Jeet actually did a lot for the family but today he went in rage seeing them both together.

Kuch bhi dikha rahe hain as per conscience to stretch story and create issues.

Today's epi felt very disjointed also coz of the random humor they tried inserting in between after heavy scenes.

Esp with that Jeet and Ridhan scene in the middle of the road/ super random. And these characters have no sense of time and place. Ridhan said " us din sorry ne kaha " what Us din! It's the same freaking day you moron!

Originally posted by: wuthering

Yep. I agree ki last 2 epis se demand kar rahi hai sorry toh it's definitely getting on the nerves.

I have a feeling ki now after all this- Jeet will definitely take a step back (which he should) and then Saumya will finally have the yearning for him.

Maybe this was needed for her to get over papa dictating her life.

Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Even in that BTS/ we don't know what she's saying to him but she clearly isn't able to bear the fact that he's ignoring her.

Jeet ki bhi toh problem hai/ usne apna sab kuch daav pe laga diya to protect this girl- without expecting any kind of reciprocation. Ab he's literally being burnt for that. Thoda relationship status solve karna Chahiye tha before going all out lol.

Relationship status clear nahi kiya hai isi liye to fans jyada impress ho rahe ki dekho kaise ek stranger ke liye Kitna kuch kar raha hai , Z+ security de raha hai Kitna achha hai sachha hai sant Jeet

Waise Sorry bolne ki practice kar raha tha means sorry bolne hi gaya hoga hospital but kismat, timing sab kharab hai iski panga ho gaya 😂

Originally posted by: wuthering

Oh yeah yaar. I'm totally with you on how frustrating this all sounds and looks. Jeet is definitely the one in the clear in my books as well through all these events and Saumya is the one who needs to work upon her own feelings and thought process and not be a mere robot in her papa jaap.

I meant to say Jeet is wrong from Saumyas POV, not Jeet is wrong from audience perspective.

I know I'm probably giving too much credit to the writers but I'm really hoping that this conflict where she is told to maintain her distance from Jeet and where Jeet actively avoids her is the external stimuli she needs to reckon with her own feelings and stop being subservient to daddy dearest. That's the only way out of this arc.

Bold: That's the issue. Kya pata yeh log kya dikhayenge? Bharosa toh hai hi nahi mujhe. Par kya pata writers yeh forum pe mandra rahe ho aur humari sun le. Let Saumya learn and get better and give Jeet a damn break!

Originally posted by: Chinmayi18

Relationship status clear nahi kiya hai isi liye to fans jyada impress ho rahe ki dekho kaise ek stranger ke liye Kitna kuch kar raha hai , Z+ security de raha hai Kitna achha hai sachha hai sant Jeet

Waise Sorry bolne ki practice kar raha tha means sorry bolne hi gaya hoga hospital but kismat, timing sab kharab hai iski panga ho gaya 😂

Yaar but fact of the matter is that no matter how Sant Ishaan might deny- Jeet is developing feelings for Saumya. He still doesn't know what he's feeling for her and that's clearly messing with his head 😬😂

Expectations come apne aap after you go to all these extreme lengths for someone you care about ..

He has never asked for anything in return or ever burdened Saumya with his feelings to that extent on how alone he truly is in the world...

But Haan Mujhe bhi laga sorry hi bolne gaya tha and kaand ho gaya lol.