Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2: EDT #12 - Page 117

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

Karan Nandani issue isn't just about them shifting to India or him being overworked.

I think Nandani is doubting him for something..

Now since Noina is nearly out, it could be Mandira return. maybe Karan is in touch with Mandira for some reason and Nandani thinks he is having an affair or else it has something to do with Samaira

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

I wouldn’t be the least bit surprised if the next one to have a marital crisis is Shobha who discovers her green forest of a husband has found greener pastures in her absence in the arms of another woman.

Shobha has not been home for god alone knows how long now. She was in SN pre leap, she’s in SN post leap. Sometimes it seems like never left SN in between. So they might as well go there.

Pari gets married, Shobha gets divorced and the cycle continues

Yup only her marriage at the moment is going good😂, ussko bhi thoda EMA touch de denge CVs😂😂. Sahi bhi hai abhishek ko koi colleague mil jaayegi 😜 Shobha has been neglecting her family from 6.5years, usska bhi bigad sakta hai😂. CVs will be at peace, chalo isko bhi tod hi denge ❤️❤️Mujhe ye invisible, imaginary man Abhishek ko dekhne ka man karrha hai'

Shadi > bacche > problem>EMA>divorce in circular motion around SN 😂😂

Liked yesterday’s episode. Tulsi articulating why it’s not that easy to return to Shanti Niketan was nice.

Her explaining that he made her feel small, shouted at her , hurtful comparisons — all of that is still too fresh to forget. How many compromises are one too many?

6 saal uski aatha-patha dhoondne ki koshish nahi ki — kabhi yeh nahi socha ki Tulsi kya kar rahi hogi. I understand that he was feeling guilty and didn’t possess the mental fortitude to face her, but it truly pinches only when you think from her perspective. It’s too little, too late.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

I wouldn’t be the least bit surprised if the next one to have a marital crisis is Shobha who discovers her green forest of a husband has found greener pastures in her absence in the arms of another woman.

Shobha has not been home for god alone knows how long now. She was in SN pre leap, she’s in SN post leap. Sometimes it seems like never left SN in between. So they might as well go there.

Pari gets married, Shobha gets divorced and the cycle continues

SN has seen so many divorces. It would have been better if someone had chosen to become a divorce attorney within the family. Karcha bhi bach jaata

Originally posted by: SlatePencil

May be she is doubting that he is having an affair but that may not be the real case

The show is going at such breakneck speed it’s almost dizzying and hard to keep up. Crazy how you couldn’t say this about ITV when Kyunki originally aired, they would drag a track for so long sometimes you couldn’t care less about it when it reached its pinnacle.

While I appreciate the change in pace I wish it didn’t feel like it was giving us a whiplash. They should absolutely wrap up tracks asap but the treatment should ease up a bit on the momentum since it feels like we hardly have a buildup of anything before the climax happens.

The reason why I raise this concern now is because I was thinking about KN issue. I was thinking how could it be handled well and with depth wherein rather than this being a case of two people who battled extreme odds to be together being reduced to buffoons who can’t solve a single argument in 6 years they make this argument a more nuanced one wherein both sides have their valid reasons for their own POVs and the issue is a lack of communication between them rather than constant conflict that keeps the dialogue open but it’s simply white noise.

Nandini keeps talking about kids needing to be raised right is a concern for which she wants to move back home to India (and it looks like they’ve forgotten about Raunak, the youngest son of KN) but honestly the kids seem pretty decent to me. Poor Samaira is in stress owing to the fear that her parents will split and in therapy, she doesn’t look like a problem child to me rather a child with problems she shouldn’t be having. Parth is a well raised young man and hopefully Raunak turns up and is like his big brother. So the kids issue honestly doesn’t seem like it’s the right pitch.

They could have just made Nandini feel lonelier and lonelier as time went on. Karan is away at work most of the day, he travels when needed and the kids needed her more when they were younger but US makes everyone independent and while that’s a good thing, it’s a very lonely place when you’re all by yourself while your husband is away at work most of the day, your kids are now busy with studies/hanging out with friends and you have no one to talk with.

Karan doesn’t need to stay in the US for more money or because he can’t appoint a US head to run the business while he shifts to India and starts operating the company from here. He could still be travelling around India and abroad as and when the work demands but with the family being back at SN, this wouldn’t be an issue for Nandini to cope with unless it got too extreme and affected his health.

I think they should focus on Karan wanting to avoid staying in India for the sake of his kids in the first place. S1 had a lot of emphasis on how being illegitimate has affected Karan and his life. He was rejected by Damini’s parents and later when Nandini’s family was shown, her Dada similarly objected to Karan as an eligible husband for her owing to his birth. Karan had fought to gain recognition, acceptance as a Virani, a son of Mihir’s but the same didn’t change his history and past. It never stopped affecting him. I wish that they would show how though Karan would love nothing more than to live with his family he would rather stay away from them and in a foreign country for the sake of everyone he loved.

They can make him reveal how despite being accepted by Mihir as a son, gaining the right and recognition to call himself a Virani via Tulsi he still heard comments in hushed whispers and snide remarks, in snickers and veiled insults how the world talked about him. How they would think Tulsi a fool for accepting him and taking Mihir back when she could have just walked away with a fat alimony and self respect courtesy of Mihir’s own deeds backfiring, how he heard people talking about the shame his kids would feel when they would get old enough to understand that their father is an illegitimate child and though they’re Viranis by blood, they shall always be the Black sheep of the family forever and ever. Karan felt like he had endured a lot himself but the thought of his kids growing up with a hell similar to his own for no fault of theirs was not something that he was keen on foisting upon them. He also couldn’t allow himself to be the reason people talked nonsense about Tulsi, so he decided to move abroad where he could protect his kids in a place where no one knew much about them and which allowed his mother to also not face aa many comments as possible.

The argument arises not because he’s uncaring and she’s unsupportive but because both of them are battling their own demons but neither is able to voice their feelings and ergo the differences and arguments.

Such an approach keeps both the characters technically separate individuals with their own experiences, emotions, feelings and truths that they must live with and process but more importantly it allows them to stay a couple who aren’t belittling their history but who are now facing a different kind of battle wherein they are unable to communicate and understand each other better. It doesn’t make either wrong or an insensitive jerk imposing their own wishes on their partner and not thinking about their spouse and their children. Rather it shows an issue that couples can face despite their history - of people coping with their emotions and being unable to communicate them openly even with a partner as it’s not easy to open up your feelings of insecurities, pain, anxiety and depression even with the person you love the most sometimes, not because you don’t want to but because you don’t know how to do it.

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

SN has seen so many divorces. It would have been better if someone had chosen to become a divorce attorney within the family. Karcha bhi bach jaata

I think Hemant and Gautam have been licensed in family law since they are practicing in family court precisely for this reason alone! The family never runs out of divorces and they need more than one lawyer to function efficiently

Originally posted by: bpatil3

Yup only her marriage at the moment is going good😂, ussko bhi thoda EMA touch de denge CVs😂😂. Sahi bhi hai abhishek ko koi colleague mil jaayegi 😜 Shobha has been neglecting her family from 6.5years, usska bhi bigad sakta hai😂. CVs will be at peace, chalo isko bhi tod hi denge ❤️❤️Mujhe ye invisible, imaginary man Abhishek ko dekhne ka man karrha hai'

Shadi > bacche > problem>EMA>divorce in circular motion around SN 😂😂

Imagine we may finally see him owing to that! The divorce proceedings than at a regular time like a family wedding

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