Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona
I am sorry but no matter how much you guys defend I am not falling for the propaganda that baby planning is something that you discuss with strangers and that too without your wife knowing or agreeing to it.
Because Akansha clearly told Gk in no uncertain to not discuss it with others and ask her instead. She will answer him
Baaki this vulnerability and living in house reason can be also be used by Amaal and Farhana for everything that they do. Doesn't makes them right.
Arrey "sorry" kyun...šš
What do you mean by discussing baby planning with random strangers...? That Astrologer?In india Astrologer koi random passer-by nahi hota. In India, log unse har cheez poochte hain ..marriage, kids, sex life, compatibility, health, career, divorce, property disputes, even death.
If you genuinely think ākids kab honge?ā is some taboo question that nobody asks astrologers unless theyāre betraying their spouse⦠then youāre ignoring what actually happens in our culture.
Normal ya sahi ki baat nahin hai but yeh..common practice hai.Har second household me hota hai.
People do it with their spouse, without their spouse, with family, without family .. because astrologers are seen as guidance, not gossip partners.
And BB ke environment me toh aur bhi expected hai, because uska context bhi wahi tha .. future predictions.
Usne koi personal marital fight ya wife ki wish list discuss nahi ki.He asked a very generic ākab hogaa?ā type question ..something that millions ask astrologers.
If the argument is:āWife nahi thi toh poochna nahi chahiye tha,āthen by that logic 95% log jo astrologers se consult karte hain woh sab wrong hain, because spouses are very rarely both present..
Agar yeh āunusualā hota, toh har astrologer ka kaam bandh ho jata.
Also in that way "baby planning" discuss toh Akanksha ne bhi Kiya na with strangers? Who were Pranit and Malti to her? Complete strangers right?She had met them literally couple of hours back...yet she shared whatever she did with them.. right?
Iām not saying baby planning is something you casually discuss with strangers .. it isnāt.
And yes, Akansha has every right to say she doesnāt want it discussed outside.
But two things can be true at the same time:
GK made a mistake in that moment.
That mistake doesnāt define his intentions or his marriage...
Main bhi nahin keh rahi ki GK ne jo kaha that was absolutely "right"
But aisa koi compulsion toh hai hi nahin ki hum bhi uss baat ko utna hi āgalatā samjhe jitna aap samajh rahe ho.
Different people have different thresholds of what they consider personal or inappropriate...or unacceptable...Toh it's fine...
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