Originally posted by: asmitamohanty
But How on earth did “venting” become a criteria to judge friendships?
If that’s the standard, then none of us have real relationships left.Because the truth is: We all have days when even the people we adore the most,test our patience. We all rant, complain, or vent to a third person when emotions pile up even though it's not ideal. We all say things in irritation that we don’t actually believe once the moment passes.That’s just being human , not being disloyal.
Like I love my mother The most in the universe and I know that no-one loves me more than her..
We feel intensely,so naturally, sometimes we react intensely.
And after the dust settles, we realise: “Yaar itna toh issue tha hi nahi.”
If we declared war on every friend or family member we ever complained about in frustration, we’d be left with no one.
Yeah I agree that instead of bitching behind back, they should have a heart to heart talk, instead of bitching Pranit should have shared it with GK face to face...but they aren’t fake for venting about someone they care for.They’re fake when they smile in front and plot behind.. which hasn't happened yet ....so it's fine to me till now...
See this is BB yahan real life jesi Friendship nhi hoti. Convenience ki basis py hoti hain mostly. Amaal farhana ki bhi wesi hi hai. Ab 9 log reh gaye hain that's why they are back in talking terms. Aisy koi besties nhi bann gaye. Also behen/bhai mother's love is the most pure form of love uska kya hi comparison kisi aur rishtey sy.
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