Originally posted by: RishuDarling
You know, seriously.. I hope when his BB journey is over, that he will take therapy / anger management training.. It will be good for him..
I was actually reading about it just now.. And the one of the causes for anger management issues can be frustration and a feeling of powerlessness.. In the BBH this is normal, to play mindgame with you. In his case, when he starts to become out of control, he cannot regain control over himself.. To take pause and step away will help him.. I liked Baseer’s suggestion to him, next time we will take a walk..
I must say.. When I replay things back in my mind, he was sitting in the garden upset.. And then when, I think Tanya started to say why this that, he got slowly in that mode of guilt, losing power / not being in control, not able to help or protect.. Neelam has also this protect me vibe.. Damsel in distress types.. He puts himself or is being put in those situations by the ones he cares about..
I am happy that it is becoming more and more clear for him what his issue is. He is forced to look at himself, in the mirror and fix what has been an issue for him outside as well.. The same also for others..
I like this even more than when people lift the trophy and win. For me the actual win is when you overcome your hurdles such as mental, emotional distress.. That is what you will take with you for life in the end..
I hope, he can work on this and fix himself.. He will not learn and be cured in the house.. It will take time.. But he can make a start.. Start and reflect..
This is why I would promote for BB to have contestants keep a written or spoken diary.. To start (after morning song and dance) or end the day with that..
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