This triggered sooo many thoughts some of which Ive said & will briefly repeat. Amu is a bit naive not having many relationships. We mentioned if it were Amu divorced how would Virat feel & realised she wouldn't take his rubbish.
There is some point to Amu trying in this marriage. What comes after this if Amu divorced? An arranged marriage where love may or may not happen. In Amu next marriage- will she stay with in laws? Amu maybe Safe but only see Bhavani 1 or 2 times a month... how will they feel about her working. What am I saying? Yes Amu faces danger with virat but she can still be close to bhavani & help her business. Virat ok with her working
Is it because of love that she forgets what he had done - The creators show it as love but its also pity to rescue virat from babita manipulation. There is a bit of practicality in Amu brain too. Amu may understand not all husbands would help like Virat did on Bhavani divorce. There were misunderstandings diring that time but he took more interest than an average Jamai or boyfriend. Virat is also easy to adaptable to Amu beleifs & observations as virat hasn't observed many religious events in his house. What do I mean? If Amu married in another punjabi or gujrati family. Will Amu be prepared to leave her Marathi customs? Virat accepts it.
There is a price to pay for above benefits. Amu will remain in danger - Babita wont stop. Amu wont have peace in life... how can she trust virat is ever/ truly free from Babita manipulation & he wont go back to blind worship of babita?
Originally posted by: Afrinaparvin
Yesterday I read the new chapter of a story in my reading list where I found below bold lines:
" Hearing her mother's words, tears rolled down from Stephina's cheeks. She knew she couldn't stop loving Herbert inspite of every wrong things he had done with her. Maybe this is how love is. It stops you from thinking logically. You just have to listen your heart and see where it takes you."
I don't know why but reading above lines I imagined Amruta and Virat there. Amruta's changing behaviour, her reaction after Virat left saying he will share what he feels, her all time ignore his negative sides and appreciate his positive sides. Is it because of love that she forgets what he had done with her in pasts? Does love overpower her brain and mind way too much? What do you think??
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