🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion thread 82🌸🌸 - Page 111

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I never said I want them to unite permanently at this stage either. I'm simply talking about the fact that a basic communication is needed about their stance regarding their shaadi ki validity based on the current high point. I don't expect everything to fall into place for them simply with a confession but they do need to support each other again rather than always standing against each other in every form.

Some of their previous dynamic needs to be rekindled where Jhanak atleast listened to him enough to let him take her to the doctor. The constant state of making wrong presumptions about each other has been over-saturated at this point and a brief reprieve is needed from that.

Yes...they need a sane, calm and composed conversation..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ani is not able to correlate the intimacy with marriage because he gets brutally rejected by Jhanak every time and he doesn't have memory of that intimacy....so he is presuming it was a moment of getting carried away in emotions. He put more weight into the fact that Jhanak informed him about her surgery so that means she wants him to be considered responsible for her well being...that called to him more than the intimacy...he was so happy over her having informed as if that was as good as a love confession...and immediately after seeing her, all of his questions were about this only that didn't you want me to come, don't you consider me your husband?

Using this intimacy angle again and again as an argument doesn't work at this point because Ani doesn't remember it....if Jhanak wants to hold on to that as a grudge then she is again wasting her time....why is he being vilified still for something that he doesn't remember? Main point is ki seedha seedha bolo if you consider him your husband and want to be with him, period.

It's about prioritization at this point....Jhanak needs to make her priorities clear or leave the arena and not bother with him.

aapko shat shat naman 🙏🙏 for articulating such a complex topic in such simple words

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL the same kind of love where both character assassinate each other all the time and still love each other.....this is how love works for Runak

Why can't Ani also attempt to move on if Jhanak does the same every single time after leaving him? Why is only he being judged for trying to move on? lol it's a journey for both of them to realize that their attempts to move on are futile every time.

By moving on I meant accepting other woman and man in his/her life...

Why he has to go back to Arshi every time...Arshi was right when she pointed out that whenever J rejects him he comes back to her...why it should be the case!!

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

By moving on I meant accepting other woman and man in his/her life...

Why he has to go back to Arshi every time...Arshi was right when she pointed out that whenever J rejects him he comes back to her...why it should be the case!!

I'm not defending the way they show him going back to Arshi each time....that's a major irritation for me in the story as well and I usually tune out when Ani returns to Arshi ki ghulami zone.

But from what I've gathered - they are trying to show that Ani puts on the appearance of moving on and following what is expected of him by society/family by being with Arshi....but he is never really able to accept another woman in his life other than Jhanak. Yes, despite him living in the same room with Arshi, they have shown from time to time that he is uncomfortable with her trying to get close to him, he has been shown feeling awkward with her hugs....he may give her the public label of his wife but he hasn't really moved forward....this was again confirmed with his recent monologue in his room where he said he tried to move on with Arshi but wasn't able to because he isn't able to look at any other woman than Jhanak.....

His struggle has been between what he thinks he will be able to do and what he is actually able to do.....he thought his practical side will win over his heart but ultimately his heart didn't let him move on and maybe taking on that very pressure has made his heart cave in now.

He needs understanding and guidance but no one in his life stands with him to give him that.....he needs Jhanak with him first to even stabilize a bit.

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

By moving on I meant accepting other woman and man in his/her life...

Why he has to go back to Arshi every time...Arshi was right when she pointed out that whenever J rejects him he comes back to her...why it should be the case!!

That's a million dollar question 🤔

Ye nahi to wohi sahi aur Jhanak ko yehi hurt karta hai hamesha k 'apko such bolney ki himmat nhi'.

Originally posted by: ninaMAXWELL08

aapko shat shat naman 🙏🙏 for articulating such a complex topic in such simple words

LOL thank you ji, thank you

Aur bhi simple shabdon mein bolun toh Ani's mind totally stops working the moment he hears a rejection from Jhanak....uske baad koi logic kaam nahin aati Ani pe....his baseline starts with Jhanak accepting him or atleast entertaining him thoda bahut to listen to him....jab woh nahin milta, this mind totally wanders in dark despair thinking up all kinds of depressing scenarios and reasons for why Jhanak rejected him

I actually do feel sorry for him ki itni rejections ke baad bhi himmat jutaa ke kisi tarhaan apne aap ko convince karta hai ki nahin, maybe Jhanak does care for me...aisa sab soch ke usse baat karne aata hai only to be shot down yet again....lol

He has made himself vulnerable in front of Jhanak many times...she needs to understand this hasn't been easy for him either....and ofcourse the biggest challenge with Ani is to understand why he's put on all these masks for so long....he wants to open himself up to Jhanak but he needs that assurance first that she won't leave him as usual.

Originally posted by: Dibya_C

BTW, what kind of love is this if after every rejection a person decides to move on!!

Time and again makers have showed him to be a pratical person who respect other decisions. Him trying to move on does not mean his love is not true. He tried his best to put forward his case, but if other person shuts his up without even listening to him completely, then he can’t do anything about it. In the past we have sent ML going to any extent like giving their life and all until FL accept their love, but that is not how Ani has been designed. Another reason is for all these incomplete conversalotion or inefficient communication is just to increase the number of episodes.

Jhanak has finally delivered the flower to her Sirji and is sitting at his bedside it seems

https://x.com/Candyypopop/status/1842243619262013815

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL thank you ji, thank you

Aur bhi simple shabdon mein bolun toh Ani's mind totally stops working the moment he hears a rejection from Jhanak....uske baad koi logic kaam nahin aati Ani pe....his baseline starts with Jhanak accepting him or atleast entertaining him thoda bahut to listen to him....jab woh nahin milta, this mind totally wanders in dark despair thinking up all kinds of depressing scenarios and reasons for why Jhanak rejected him

I actually do feel sorry for him ki itni rejections ke baad bhi himmat jutaa ke kisi tarhaan apne aap ko convince karta hai ki nahin, maybe Jhanak does care for me...aisa sab soch ke usse baat karne aata hai only to be shot down yet again....lol

He has made himself vulnerable in front of Jhanak many times...she needs to understand this hasn't been easy for him either....and ofcourse the biggest challenge with Ani is to understand why he's put on all these masks for so long....he wants to open himself up to Jhanak but he needs that assurance first that she won't leave him as usual.

Well said Ay. Your posts in Janak forum has brought a new dimension 😊. I enjoyed your posts in Imlie forum too.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Jhanak has finally delivered the flower to her Sirji and is sitting at his bedside it seems

https://x.com/Candyypopop/status/1842243619262013815

Okay I am manifesting a head kiss from Janak to Ani once he wakes up. Poor boy needs this badly.