YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 36 - Page 73

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

https://youtu.be/6bDOdjf_GN4?si=fcLTSGAQP7Gtu5Up

Ab AB is moral policing her clients too bhai kya hai yeh apne personal and professional life ko mix kyun kar rahi hai client ne jo manga de do agar kal ladki sachme gold digger nikli kya abhira usko degi sab paisa iski berozgari ki zimmedar ye khud hai

Very bad acting and very bad expressions garvita 👎 her dialogues were fun though .

And abhira madam 🤣 thu thu thu Nazar na lage . I need not say anything , she's on a self destructive path . Apni zindagi ka kachra khud hi kar degi ek din🤣 woh din bhi door nahi.

Aise de diya abhira madam ne loan wapas👏

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

The choice Abhira made is what matters. She got the opportunity to elope and she took it.

Yes, she wants a family love. So does Armaan. But when push came to shove they both chose each other. Then Kaveri agreed and they both dropped their plan.

Agreed.

Abhira wasn't thrilled but ultimately she was ok with temple mein shaadi after seeing that Ar was Willing to leave family for her. She also went to him but got kidnapped by kaveri.

So she wants a shaadi with everyone's blessings now but she will still speak up against things she doesn't agree with.

I just hope Armaan realizes that she's going through a lot. She may vent on him sometimes and he needs to be ok with that. as long as he isn't taken for granted or a punching bag, its all good. When Armaan used to vent at Abhira , he always took it too far blaming Ab for everything.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

The choice Abhira made is what matters. She got the opportunity to elope and she took it.

Yes, she wants a family love. So does Armaan. But when push came to shove they both chose each other. Then Kaveri agreed and they both dropped their plan.

Yes. Ultimately they did chose each other and i hope that stays a constant. But Abhira had mentioned her desire to be accepted by Kaveri multiple times. Even yesterday she said that one of her key priorities after marriage would be a good bahu to Kaveri (something along these lines). And Kaveri had always been regressive as hell, and Abhira herself had faced the burnt of it multiple times before. I am not saying that Abhira should give into Kaveri's insane demands, but she gotta mentally prepare for it cause this is also the life she chose.

Originally posted by: elizamerin

@bold:I don't know.Let me be honest that's my assumption.There is also a reason behind assumption.now I am running out of time.i will explain it to u later.

When we live in a family,every family member should adjust here and there.But what Abhira is going to do in poddar family is not adjustment.That family is too toxic to call it as adjustment.She will lose herself.Thar is not adjustment.And losing your career against your will is definitely not adjustment.Tgat I will advise to real life people too.Losing your career for family definitely not adjustment

Abhira wants to adjust because she recognizes that joint family mein karna padta hai, shaadi mein compromises hote hai but she'd never agree to lose her identity, her career or have a child when she doesn't feel ready for it. Those things are too big and too life altering. She's pretty clear about where she draws a line.

Hopefully Armaan will support her fully

I believe Abhira craves the big family she never had and knowing how lonely it was growing up without anyone but her mom she would never want to take Armaan away from his family ..she also knows that no matter what Armaan says he wouldn’t be wholly happy without them despite being ready to give them up and be with her only .. this is why I feel she promised Vidya & insisted that Kaveri approve their marriage! the thing that is irritating is Ruhi .. as I said in my previous post the third angle sabotaging every event with no one calling her out on it id disgusting

And if Armaan allows this Bandai’s and Ruhi anywhere near him after all that had happened and her stating she can’t forget him then he is a FOOL ! Maybe the only way he can understand Abhira her insecurities and her “hate” “distrust” of Ruhi despite him stating he lives only her, is if there was another man after Abhira whether Yuvraj it someone else …. Abhira had seen Kv has reiterated that Ruhi was his first choice and no matter what it’s still underlying in her psyche so despite trusting Armaan she doesn’t trust Ruhi and never will and her insecurities and sometimes illogical behavior stems from this !

I just hope Armaan does NOT let that vile creature Ruhi touch him and Rigit opens his eyes and that before wedding Ruhi is called out by everyone!

As for the babies and prenup these creatives are crazy and regressive - Abhira is right to tear it up and hopefully Armaan mad at something else but supports the prenup tearing and calls out dadisa ..,..can faint phuphasa say it was Ruhis idea !

just keep Rohit alive and let RuRo get their own story .. LEAVE ABHIMAAN ALONE !!!!

I want a grand wedding - why can’t Abhira get some family please - mean other than Goenkas !!!!!

DKP PLRASE PLEASE 🙏

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Yes. She has to navigate it. But Armaan is supposed to be there this time to support her more vocally than before and truly as her husband rather than his zimmedari.

Her not eloping is because she wanted to ensure her and Armaan do not lose out on family. Her making a choice to stay on for Armaans sake, for family's sake, for her to have a family should not become the bane of her existence. And technically she took the chance. She agreed to temple mein shaadi and was on her way there. But kaveri intervened and Armaan Abhira dropped eloping plan.

she knows their personality but everyday they still catch her off guard by doing something unexpected. She had placated V sweetly, informed her that she's busy but will try to get home early so kya matlab hai to keep calling and annoying Abhira? Its really ridiculous behavior.

V and Kaveri both know she is career oriented. Yet V is annoying her at work and Kaveri is drawing prenup despite having not done it for any other couple. Why would she draw up legal papers with rubbish clauses despite knowing how much Ab has fought for the right to study and work?! And how can she draw prenup papers without even discussing with Armaan .prenup is an agreement between the couple getting married, not the girl and her fiances grandmother.

Bold - Yes they know that she is career oriented, but do they care? Expecting Kaveri to care would be a sheer stupidity cause when she has ever cared.

I'll avoid talking about armaan in terms of the prenup thing unless they have a video BTS or the episode comes out.

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Yes. Ultimately they did chose each other and i hope that stays a constant. But Abhira had mentioned her desire to be accepted by Kaveri multiple times. Even yesterday she said that one of her key priorities after marriage would be a good bahu to Kaveri (something along these lines). And Kaveri had always been regressive as hell, and Abhira herself had faced the burnt of it multiple times before. I am not saying that Abhira should give into Kaveri's insane demands, but she gotta mentally prepare for it cause this is also the life she chose.

Her saying she wants kaveri acceptance means she wants the blessings of the eldest person. She still hasnt signed up to allow that eldest person to shove regressive ideas upon her and accept it. She's got clarity about how far she is willing to go to get acceptance. She refused to apologize to Ruhi and she refused to sign prenup.

Basically, y'all should be phuphasa stans and support his long term goal of having armaan abhira thrown out of that damn house

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Basically, y'all should be phuphasa stans and support his long term goal of having armaan abhira thrown out of that damn house

Plan action main laye toh. I will support him wholeheartedly. Paar aj kal toh woh Ruru baby se manipulate ho jaa rahe haa

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Bold - Yes they know that she is career oriented, but do they care? Expecting Kaveri to care would be a sheer stupidity cause when she has ever cared.

I'll avoid talking about armaan in terms of the prenup thing unless they have a video BTS or the episode comes out.

They should care. Thats what a real family is supposed to be like. All the adjustment cant be one sided. If Ab has to deal with them and challenge their regressive ideals, then they need to deal with her independent free spiritedness too.

Kaveri had accepted Abhiras career. She was talking about how she'd be at work dealing with zaruratmand clients when engagement was happening, and she was late but suddenly she wants her to not work for 1 year. Thats silly.