YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 36 - Page 71

Originally posted by: Pinecone

But Abhira is venting. She is not accusing him surely. Why is he mad at her , he should be mad at his dadi for drawing up papers with such rubbish.

I hope Ruhi isn't gonna succeed in sowing seeds of doubt in his mind and he wont allow her to touch him . FGS.

Wait for the scene.Then we can say about it details .it's not indiaforum reporters who write the episodes

Pyaar bhi chahiye, Parivaar bhi chahiye, Professional life bhi chahiye aur sab perfect bhi chahiye.......... that's never going to happen. It doesn't happen with most sorted people in rel life, why are we expecting it from a FL's life in a prime time ITV shows.

Wheres bandaid spoiler? IF article says she takes first aid box and says Ab is not a good fit but he dismisses her unwanted advice .

Mai bata rahi hun, you guys are going to miss this phase of Abhimaan because they are happy right now as per ITV standards. Ye toh choti choti arguments hai

I do feel bad for Abhira and understand how suffocating it could get for her, cause I personally would have any day stayed 10 feet away from a family of like this. However, Abhira did had a chance to elope with Armaan and she did not want to take it. She did wanted to he a part of this family. It's not like Abhira didnt know how this family or people like Kaveri or Vidya were. She lived with them for 10+ months, and had seen whatever good, bad and worst sides they have. But when you make a choice, you also have to deal with its consequences.

This does not mean that I agree with any of regressive and frankly dumb thinking of Kaveri. But it's something Abhira will have to navigate herself.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Pyaar bhi chahiye, Parivaar bhi chahiye, Professional life bhi chahiye aur sab perfect bhi chahiye.......... that's never going to happen. It doesn't happen with most sorted people in rel life, why are we expecting it from a FL's life in a prime time ITV shows.

Abhira is not aiming for a perfect life. Adjust karne main aur apni identity kurbaan kar dene main difference hota haa. Abhira has been trying to adjust in PF since day 1.

The situation escalates when Armaan, in a fit of rage, injures himself while trying to discard the torn agreement...

Read more at: https://www.indiaforums.com/article/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai-rohit-learns-ruhis-reality-amid-abhira-and-armaans-tense-clash_210795?ri=6&rv=5755

I love how dramatic they write for something that is quite likely to be a stupid paper cut

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

I do feel bad for Abhira and understand how suffocating it could get for her, cause I personally would have any day stayed 10 feet away from a family of like this. However, Abhira did had a chance to elope with Armaan and she did not want to take it. She did wanted to he a part of this family. It's not like Abhira didnt know how this family or people like Kaveri or Vidya were. She lived with them for 10+ months, and had seen whatever good, bad and worst sides they have. But when you make a choice, you also have to deal with its consequences.

This does not mean that I agree with any of regressive and frankly dumb thinking of Kaveri. But it's something Abhira will have to navigate herself.

I mean ABhira was ready to elope. She was prepared to get married in the mandir. Then DadiSa kidnapped her and agreed to Abhimaan s wedding

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

@bold: Has there been a monologue from Abhira that she does not want Armaan to leave her family for her because she knows Armaan will never be happy??Hosakta hai ho I don't remember it or gave not watched that episode.

But I do remember Abhira saying ki maine Pyaar aur parivaar dono ka sapna dekha hai and I want both.

Love marriage in when joint family when family disapproves is very tricky. It will take a lot of time for both parties to adjust.

Abhira is definitely right because she is then generation girl but you can't expect KP who is set in her own ways for decades to change because of Abhira.

Adjust dono ko karna padega and KP has done that by accepting her and agreeing for the marriage which wouldn't have mattered if Abhimaan got married without her approval.

@bold:I don't know.Let me be honest that's my assumption.There is also a reason behind assumption.now I am running out of time.i will explain it to u later.

When we live in a family,every family member should adjust here and there.But what Abhira is going to do in poddar family is not adjustment.That family is too toxic to call it as adjustment.She will lose herself.Thar is not adjustment.And losing your career against your will is definitely not adjustment.Tgat I will advise to real life people too.Losing your career for family definitely not adjustment

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

@bold: Has there been a monologue from Abhira that she does not want Armaan to leave her family for her because she knows Armaan will never be happy??Hosakta hai ho I don't remember it or gave not watched that episode.

But I do remember Abhira saying ki maine Pyaar aur parivaar dono ka sapna dekha hai and I want both.

Love marriage in when joint family when family disapproves is very tricky. It will take a lot of time for both parties to adjust.

Abhira is definitely right because she is this generation girl but you can't expect KP who is set in her own ways for decades to change because of Abhira.

Adjust dono ko karna padega and KP has done that by accepting her and agreeing for the marriage which wouldn't have mattered if Abhimaan got married without her approval.

The conversation that happened after Armaan proposed a temple wedding. Abhira said that she fears that someday Armaan will regret his decision and resent her