YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 32 - Page 23

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i know rohit is a much more important character, but I miss him being their little brother

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

Ya'll stop being so pessimistic, becharo ki ab tak shaddi bhi nahi hui and sab separation kar rahey They'll go K3G or Hum saath saath hain route, I feel it.

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Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I 100% agree with all your points, but somewhere I saw a scene on X that made me think deeper on this issue Abhira has.

Having seen the show properly only after RP's entry (could never stand Sheh/Prati), I had not seen the scene b/w Abhira & Ruhi, where she says that she never had any darohar because her mom never really told her about her family and the only legacy she has is being a lawyer from her mom.

This I think is one of the biggest reasons for Abhira's need to not get married w/o family's approval.

Abhira had once mentioned that her mom had broken all connection with her family because they did not approve of her dad. And that fear is what plays on her mind today.

Abhira internally is afraid that like her mother moved away and did not keep any relationship with her family for her father, Armaan in a few years will do exactly that. Him moving away will mean that slowly he will get cut off from family, so much so that the connection may get completely broken the way her mom's did.

She doesn't want that her child/children suffer the same fate she did. Tomorrow if god forbid anything happened to Armaan, Abhira will again be left with no family to support her or her future generations. Like she suffered with Yuvraj & deal shaadi because of no support, shayad kal her future gens may face something similar.

While i know it is far fetched, but somewhere this fear - that if today Armaan goes against Dadisa and the family to marry her - they might lose the family for not just themselves, but any future generations that may crave for those familial bods - like she once did.

I understand Abhira’s craving for a family ..but if you have to make a choice between living with a toxic family and no family at all, I think a sensible person would choose the former ..this whole notion of legacy for the children that may or may not appear in some distant future cannot allow you to choose to destroy your present peace …this is why I say ..every character on this show deseparately needs therapy !

Originally posted by: Fortnight

me too

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Frankly I think now that brothers have united also, Ruhi's charade is also going to find closure sooner rather than later! Bas ho gaya ab!! About time they start laying base for IR if shaadi is coming up..

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I 100% agree with all your points, but somewhere I saw a scene on X that made me think deeper on this issue Abhira has.

Having seen the show properly only after RP's entry (could never stand Sheh/Prati), I had not seen the scene b/w Abhira & Ruhi, where she says that she never had any darohar because her mom never really told her about her family and the only legacy she has is being a lawyer from her mom.

This I think is one of the biggest reasons for Abhira's need to not get married w/o family's approval.

Abhira had once mentioned that her mom had broken all connection with her family because they did not approve of her dad. And that fear is what plays on her mind today.

Abhira internally is afraid that like her mother moved away and did not keep any relationship with her family for her father, Armaan in a few years will do exactly that. Him moving away will mean that slowly he will get cut off from family, so much so that the connection may get completely broken the way her mom's did.

She doesn't want that her child/children suffer the same fate she did. Tomorrow if god forbid anything happened to Armaan, Abhira will again be left with no family to support her or her future generations. Like she suffered with Yuvraj & deal shaadi because of no support, shayad kal her future gens may face something similar.

While i know it is far fetched, but somewhere this fear - that if today Armaan goes against Dadisa and the family to marry her - they might lose the family for not just themselves, but any future generations that may crave for those familial bods - like she once did.

Bold: Really ? I do not remember that

However, you do have a point about her fear. Also, Abhira herself always had craved a big family. She essentially adopted manish goenka, a random old dude who was nice to her, as a grandfatherly figure. That says a lot about the type of relations she craves. So her wanting the blessings of the whole family is not out of character, after all, this is also the only family has ever known.

But like I had previously said in some post, you cant keep your life on pause to dwell on the what ifs. You do what makes the most sense in the current situation.

Originally posted by: lilmssunshinee

Separation is inevitable, it is an ITV show after all. What’s important is how it plays out for the couple! Separation tracks, if written well are high TRP tracks. People love quality angst!!!! DKP should not mess up the separation like they did in Gen 3.

Why do we need physical separation of leads. There is the concept falling again for the estranged partner for many reasons couple get estranged even after staying in same house and then find their love again. Why can't it be something like that Why can't dkp take a concept like being estranged while staying together he can always show Ab and Ar leave home to expand family business in another state where they get estranged because of work pressure. They don't have time for themselves or anything. And suddenly they come back home and realize the person is not the same and fall back for the person they have become where they can fill lot of reason to make angast. That leads to lot of guilt and regret. At the same time makes it a fun watch.

Jitna hasna hai hass lo, Ruru baby aisa dhamaal machaegi sab drkhte reh jaenge.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Jitna hasna hai hass lo, Ruru baby aisa dhamaal machaegi sab drkhte reh jaenge.

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