the reason Abhira cares about Kaveri ashirwaad is because she knows Armaan all too well. today he is all gung ho to marry and even leave PH for her. but tomorrow he will resent her because he is away from the family. he is so conditioned that he loves them too much no matter what sautela treatment he got. he will take out his frustration on her especially if they ever argue or fight saying- tumse shaadi karke i left my family and that was my mistake etc etc. moreover she herself has always craved a family. she doesnt want nuclear family because she has had a lonely upbringing. so despite all their flaws, she also cares for everyone in that house. she doesnt like Kaveri's approach and opinion but she is the oldest and without her approval , nothing can happen. so if it were upto Abhira, she would give Kaveri only swag and attitude but now if she wants happy joint family with Armaan, siblings in chorus gang, maa-papa, chacha-chachi, she has to tolerate Kaveri, Sanjay, Kajal, Charu type people and give up her swagster attitude to them a little bit. although I hope her core personality will still be the same.
Abhiras grouse with Kaveri has been ideological and not personal despite everything Kaveri has done. she has respected Kaveri's age, realized that she is too old to change her views easily, and only answered back when provoked or if her mom was attacked etc. she has never done anything else thats really out of line. Whereas Kaveri has had Abhira's livelihood /career snatched from her, offered her help also from a place of bheek dena because she knows Abhira wont take it then and she can take joy in seeing her suffer even more. If she had been kind and said- I dont like you as bahu, but I am still your grandmother age- please take this money- maybe Abhira would have, but she threw blank checks at her and then tried to offer her sifaarish waali job instead of taking Sanjay to task. She has outright said- I want to break the girl. itnaaa hate she has- its toxic. Whereas Abhira has always been kind, forgiving, large hearted. she actually doesnt know the extent of vitriol Kaveri has. She doesnt know that the orchestration of her tamasha in court or during wedding planning was all not impulsive reactions but plotting/planning. She thinks Kaveri dislikes her attitude or her views but she doesnt know Kaveri hates her very existence.
Edited by Pinecone - 1 years ago
1.5k