yaa exactly...i think with Arshi he was never in love...that he needs to realise..he is in his own delusion of thingking he loves Arshi..when he doesnt at all..what is love & meaning & valuse he understood after meeting Jhanak & spending time with her...after their marriage at temple & him running from train to find her...there only..it got started for him...
thats y in his first pda with Arshi he said...Arshi never gave him pain..thats y she is my princess
..where as Jhanak always gave him pain & all....so with Jhanak only all emotions he felt..but now its too late...she is not gonna return in his life..now how hes gonna enter her life back is i am waiting
I dont think he thinks he loves Arshi.
He has always said he knows who he loves, and it is J.
Even during his Sangeet - he clearly said the song is for J, even tho Arshi and J both think it is for Arshi.
Makers keep him swinging both ways, to confuse and irritate the audience.
He knows Arshi is his guilt/zimmedari. He is responsible for this mess.
Couples break up all the time. Instead of performance, if he had been true to his feelings, and acted on them, the situation would not have come to this state where he is caught because of his own admissions of love and stringing Arshi along.
He needs to introspect to see, he cannot justify his actions of trying to keep 2 women in his life, whatever the intent, whatever Arshi or J did, what he did is completely wrong to both women.
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