Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
I have a doubt girls ,
The mental depression Jhanak has is understood. At this young age she is constantly been under bad situations .Life threatening , insults ,loneliness , taunts everything ...I do get that well
But my thing is doesn't Anirudh too have this mental struggle , even if it is not in this category , wont he too be feeling sad and depressed . I dont know if it is depression or some other words , but wont he too be affected ???.
I am very much emotionally invested when it comes to relationships ..If a person whom I love hurts me , it affect me so much ..even for days . It remains with me I take time to even forget that .May be I dont forget also but forgive...And the pain it gives is irrespective of what my family is doing for me or other happiness .
So cant he be feeling the same hurt and sadness which effects his mind too...
Why is that not being considered any time ?
How can we compare Jhanak has gone through much tough state so her sadness is more ?
Anirudh is privileged and so his pian is less?
The pain and sadness is the same irrespective of the privileges naa., it all depends on your mind .
Just because he shuts everyone and is savage can he be more strong with mind than Jhanak.
Or is she more strong having faced tough situations ..
It is a confused day , so confusing everyone more ๐ค๐ค๐ป๐ค๐ป
This has nothing to do with Anirudh being my favourite , its a general question as its in my mind for long time
Thought of asking as I saw few posts on depression today..
I have always advocated about his childhood trauma...his mental struggle...so I would love to answer this..but it can be a long one
and it is about Ani ...only him
Son
Brother
Professional
Friend
Hero
Nephew
Brother-in-Law
Mentor
Anirudha had many names. He played many roles in peopleโs lives โ family, friends, and strangers alike.But none of the abovementioned titles represent him as what he essentially was.
Human
Perhaps it was the reason why everything went wrong in his life. People saw him as something other than human.When he touched their lives, his beauty and charm and life-force sunk into their hearts, pumping into their veins and empowering them.
Perhaps if they had seen him as a human, as someone capable of feeling the same amount of pain and despair as any other person, they would not have expected him to deliver beyond the limit.
Perhaps.
But then it was not just people that punished him. It was not just people that wounded him. It...was family โ or at least those that he considered family...
Anirudha Bose, stripped down to the very bone, is a young man from a troubled home. He lacked the presence of his father, the genuine affection of...his mother, and the warmth of a close-knit family. In his eyes, he was abandoned by his parents . He was rejected. He focused his life on his work, not only because it gave him some kind of soul purpose, but also because he had something to prove. He pushed people away, constantly, because he needed to see them fight for him..to prove that, yes, he was worth fighting for, worth loving.
He is the kind of character that hold so much flawed beauty and so muc perfect imperfection, so much pure intent and mad mistakes that one could not help but fall for him. I could relate to him in more ways than one. I connectedwith him through his internal struggles; his abandonment issues and sarcastic attitude (which at times appeared to be a shield against the world as...as much as a personality trait), his insecurities and self-doubt, his need to be loved and accepted, his fear of being rejected again, his fear of being unworthy of love/family, and his mistakes.
He is continuously expected to deliver something that is impossible; perfection..
Everyone have different sets of expectations from him...he is trying to be everything for everyone... crushing his own soul every moment...
Edited by asmitamohanty - 1 years ago
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