Originally posted by: Manoshono
Indeed. You know I am sure we all get emotionally drained, investing so much on them, scrutinizing every details seeing them so in love yet being in denial and pushy.
I donโt think I can blame one and support the other on the fact who is more at fault. They both have been equal participants of giving each wrong signals for their feelings. The lack of acknowledgement and then blaming the other for not understanding or giving up so easily is just wrong on both ends. It let others to intrude and take decisions behalf of both and none of them had any guts to put the foot down and be like โitโs our life and we donโt owe anyone anything explanationsโ sadly, their relationship coming to an end was inevitable.
Now there is more conflicts to solve because now the hate has taken over their love because they havenโt realized what love actually means. Anirudh and Jhanak are both stubborn for different reasons and being dheet has destroyed much of their base as well. And itโs not about how much someone has done something for you. You simply canโt forget all of that for any selfish reasons and be like now itโs my turn to make your life hell because I didnโt get what I want.
Same goes with Jhanakโฆ she thinks by giving others what they want she is doing a favor on her soul, but she is only crushing it further and suffocating herself. I know Anirudh had almost confessed his feelings to her saying that he is doubtful whether he wants to proceed his relationship with Arshi. However, even then Jhanak pushed him off hiding her feelings , told him to stop which made him infuriate but then again it shouldnโt make him to stoop this low and insult her knowing she is an orphan and has no one.
Like you said Vira, both are wrong at their place and itโs heartbreaking to see how easily they let others ruin their sacred relationship.
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