Originally posted by: sharadrocks
I think there is too much baggage between Armaan and Abhira ..love is not enough .:.I believe that they need to be apart for a few years and then see if their emotions are still the same towards each other …there is nothing that Armaan can really do at this point .:he can express deep regret but beyond that what else ..unless we are still considering self-flagellation and fire walking as options …but yes, irrespective of what he says or does not say, Abhira is not going to be able to trust him and rightfully so ..and it is not healthy for a relationship to be so lopsided ..earlier it was weighing heavily in Armaan’s favour and now it will weigh in Abhira’s favour ..his guilt will make the relationship similar to what he shares with Vidya and Kaveri and even Ruhi ..I don’t think that is a good idea at all ..Armaan needs to go away and spend sometime on his own ..meet new people and experience new things ..relearn life all over again ..this guilt he’s carrying around won’t make him a good person for anyone ..so Armaan should leave Udaipur for however long it takes for him to find himself all over again .:.Abhira will be fine ..because this truth will bring closure for her in a way ..this dilemma of trust or not to trust won’t be there anymore .:.she has realized that she cannot trust him ..whether for now or ever ..so she should forge ahead in life without any major hang ups…heart break is not easy but it is not the end of the world …and hating Armaan is the easiest way to get over him ..right now she feels contempt for him and that is the best emotion to help her process any residual feelings ..so yeah .:let the divorce happen ..if Abhira and Armaan are meant to be, let them come together after time apart .. else they were never meant to be ..everyone has a right to happiness..they can both start afresh with other people with whom there is no baggage if that is how it is meant to go .::right now they are simply not right for each other ..Armaan is not required for Akshara’s revelation…they can play that out and Abhira can get the family she wants ::.I really hope the writers are mature enough to play this out right instead of bringing them back together at this point or anytime soon ..it is a bad idea !
P.S- I would still like Sanjay Bansal and Madhav Poddar to be locked up in the same cell !
This time, I agree with you completely. They do need to be away from eachother for sometime. So a short leap is best at the point. Ak revealation can playout in a way that abhira understanding even blood relationships also cannot be trusted blindly. Armaan mother's truth can come out to take armaan out of the trance of his guilt towards family. I think a few years leap should come after these truth reveals along with divorce seperation.
I don't think them needing eachother to deal with these truths also a good thing. It will be an emotional attachment with eachother when they are at a low point of their lives which will fade away with time. They need to deal with their traumas,insecurities by themselves without eachother's presence but with the strength of their love and memories with eachother. They both need time to work on themselves individually and then start a freash after few years. That will be the best at the point.
I have read a beautiful quote somewhere.
IF YOU DON'T HEAL YOUR OWN WOUNDS, YOU WILL BLEED ON THOSE WHO DIDN'T CUT YOU.
This is a apt for them right now. If they don't want their relationship to suffer with their current traumas, they have to give eachother some space.
Then think about moving on, together or on separate paths.
but a short 2 odd years I wouldn't really mind!! Clear your heads, out the past behind, grow up (pretty please) and when you meet, be more sorted, be more in control of your own lives rather than trying to fix others'. 
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