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uska bhola pan is ruining my mind! IT engineer se kya ban gayi hoon pata nahi!!

Originally posted by: rysohini

Come now Vira, Ani toh bhola hai na

Upar se he is bringing out all your latent talents

Originally posted by: vira76

Ani Jahank ko samazte samazte ... I have become writer, shayar and now a clinical psychologist apparently

Bheja fry!!

Ahahhaha, same here!!

Itni mehnat krty hn without any $$$

Or makers and actors ki hori hn sirf aish 😅😊

Originally posted by: xnbstar

Actually, I'd say nothing has happened between them like we're assuming.

The makers are using double-meaning dialogues to confuse us, like they did after the hut scene. I believe in this, and Jhanak was only upset with his fever excuse because she got happy after his confession.

We have to see some more episodes for better clarity, and I believe Jhanak won't cross the boundary line that much, except for hugging, as she loves him dearly.

.....

One good thing is that Ani is more open with her feelings toward Jhanak from last night and will definitely have some plans if he's taking her with him. At the end, it's a daily soap so suspense will be there!

However, I felt disheartened after today's episode likewise Jhanak 💔

Nothing is certain in Jhanak land...you make assumptions and see how many points you can fit the theory. I guess thats what makes it exciting, all the permutations and combinations the forum comes up with, and he fact that after all this analysis makers make a poppat of you

Originally posted by: vira76

My thoughts on the episode: There was not much that transpired today so not much to write but one thing is for sure... the equation has changed between Jhanak and Anirudh after his confession.

First and foremost... Anirudh remembers his confession very well.

Ani: agar tum hoti to samaz jati... you care for me much more than Arshi cares for me

Ani: main tumhe gale laga kar so gaya, tumhe bura to nahi laga na... He was feeling a bit ashamed about how be forced a hug on Jhanak, thinking it might have made Jhanak uncomfortable. Mentioning it was a decent thing to do. The last thing he wants to do is chase her away and act like a creep. His sole motto right now is to make sure Jhanak returns with him to Kolkata. This is Ani we are talking about. He does not think further in the future. Its one step at a time always.

Jhanak: Aapako bukhar tha sirf iss liye aap muze gale laga kar soye the? .... Jhanak is wanting more clarification. I guess for her the why is more important naturally. She loves him and hugging him will not make her uncomfortable, but why he is hugging her is what is more important to her. She thinks Ani was talking crazy last night. It was a moment of emotional outburst but not his forever feelings. Is this love or just fear of not being able to see her who has become part of her life? Like when you feel sad when your best friend or some close relative is going away forever...

Jhanak: Kuch dino me sangeet hai.... typical Jhanank, not speaking her mind or asking questions but just putting up a wall

Anirudh says his heart is divided into two parts and he does not understand what he wants to do.

This is nothing new for me. After last night's outburst, it is clear to him, he cannot live without Jhanak but Jhanak wants him to marry Arshi. She reminds him of that commitment he has made to some other woman every step of the way. He does not know what wrong or right thing to do at this point.

If he decides to not marry Arshi, will Jhanak think less of him and will she leave him, his family is also there whom he loves dearly...

If he decides to marry Arshi, he will be miserable for the rest of his life & hopes of being with Jhanak will shatter...

Jhanak does not love him back. He can't make her love him back or force a marriage on her that is not her choice. And he knows how much she hates to live in Bose's house. Its a dilemma, tearing him in two pieces. What he does know is that he wants Jhanak to be in his life, and does not want to lose her.

Again one step at a time ...

Ani: Please kabhi mera sath mat chodana. Baki sab mai sambhal loonga... hamesha mere sath rehana..

puze pata hai Jhanak mai thoda sa matlabi ban raha hoon...

Jab tum mere pas rehati ho, to muze bohot accha mehasoos hota hai. Please kahi gayab mat ho jana.

Ani's top concern right now is Jhanak not being in his life. He is scared to death about losing her forever and never able to see her again. It will be like his lifeline being taken away from him. If marrying Arshi is what he has to do to ensure she feels comfortable sticking around he is ready to do that.

This is called pyaar me shahid hona... being a martyr in love! Is this stupid, right or wrong?... it does not matter. This is what his love is. It can go to this extent!

There is clearly a lot going on in Ani's mind right now. His sudden outburst, his wedding, his family's reaction, making sure Jhanak does not leave him.. there are too many things happening around him. He has not made a decision yet on what he will do, or how he will do it.

Jhanak: aap apana farz nibhayenge... Arshi didi ke sath meri aankho ke samane khush rahenge... lekin aapako unake sath dekh kar main to oodas nahi hongi na... kal raat ke baad bohot kuch badal chuka hai... maine kyu nahi khud ko aap ko...

This was a small monologue but it tells me for Jhanak the way she looks at their relationship has changed. She is questioning herself for hugging him back, for not stopping him... did that feel good? Is my resolve to stay away from Ani and Arshi's marriage breaking? Am I happy about their wedding? Something else is waking up in her... that she feels quite scared to face

Ani: tum chahati ho na, main arshi ke sath khush rahoo, apane har ek farz nibhaoonga.. these words reflected a lot of pain for me... the way krushal said it... it was heartbreaking

Ani: Thank god muze bukhar hua, tum mere pas rahi aur me chain ki need so paya...

Jhanak: (runs away...)

Anirudh's expressing his love here, and how he enjoyed their intimate moments was like showing a mirror to Jhanak. Anirudh is still under the impression that Jhanak feels weirded out about last night. But for Jhanak who loves him, this night also meant a lot as well.

The question is after what happened between them, what was said, what was done, what was shared... will they be able to follow the path they have determined for themselves?

....

Only if love was that simple... 😌

Let's trust their love and have faith in their journey...

Beautiful write up...

Ani even though sometimes confuses us with his own confusion but it is for a reason. A reason that makes sense, a reason that makes you want to understand him, to sympathize with him..

A child who has been brought up with the constant reminder that he is not of much importance to his parents..a man who grew up believing in achieving and doing things to earn his family's attention and affection...The attention and so called 'love' he is getting from his parents,,has come with a price ..He walks on egg shells around them putting by suppressing his own wishes in hopes that he would keep getting brownie points for it, hoping that they will not stop loving him, wishing they won’t be disappointed in him...

He knows how important Arshi is for his parents...probably more important than he is...So may be...may be..he is completely confused right now." He wants JHANAK for himself but Arshi for his family pressure.."..Is it right or moral?? Noo...but he is losing the sense of right wrong at this point.....

One thing I understood during this fever thing...that Ani is afraid of lonliness the most.plus he has his share of ego...& he also doesn't want to drive Jhanak away by acting like a creep ..

Now if Ani is pretending not remembering about last night..as Jhanak is not ready to accept...it does go with his character.

Now if Jhanak confesses her love openly to him, then probably it will throw him to the point of realisation that there is someone in the world who would love him no matter what, a thought that had always been foreign to him, which in turn will be one of the things that might give him the courage to stop the wedding ...

Let's see....

Originally posted by: vira76

i have to watch other parts of episodes... seems like some fun things happened that i can make fun!! 😃

choton mini - first part was as always weird and irritating.

however their chemistry after they acknowledged who choton was not bad.

Even BH house scene was decent, because it served to show how much the folks are perceiving Jhanak as a threat to Ani Arshi marriage. Even Arshi conversation with Ani - all pointed to everyones awareness of how powerful J is wrt Ani.

They are so nervous of what she can do to the wedding plans, and Arshi is resenting the implication that another woman is a threat to her.

Originally posted by: PPak

my take on kal rath is he had the SR dream and woke up all aroused. If you see his demeanor he was not looking love struck and adoringly at her sleeping frame, like is typical in a daily show. It was more of an urgency. He woke her up quick hastily, pulled her up to him almost and then did everything he could to touch her and get her to agree to be intimate with him. First he pulls out the nightingale story, then he keeps saying he needs her, it can be interpreted as a physical need rather than a medical need. When she says sahi nahi hai, you can see he is almost angry with her and says we can figure out if it is right or wrong later...almost like he was demanding his husband rights. When that did not play out he used the 'today may be our last day..i will die tomorrow wala ploy. Last one was the ILU card. I feel he needed her physically and went about getting what he wanted single mindedly. I am not sure how much j realizes abt him.

Acknowledging the ILU means also acknowledging his manipulation to get her to sleep with him.

He either really forgot or is intentionally claiming to forget maybe because he is ashamed of himself. He could also be trying to hurt her to get a reaction. End of their scene today, when she walks out he calls her back and also has an expression on his face like regret.

This man is very hard to decipher but he is def not one of the typical goody goody ML's so its difficult to figure out what he will do.

I don't like today ani's behaviour. without consent you hugged her . if husband 's right you hugged her then

Why are he not accepting marriage now he is confused.ani should have honest in relation.this is always week point of Hindi male lead serials .

Beautiful and I finally felt some relief after reading this, thank you for tagging me dear...

Even I feel, he is very much aware about his confession, I mean if he knows about Vaada of Jhanak then how will he forget about confession, but still there is 1% uncertainty about this..

You have said it right their equations is definitely changed now... Even the way he said today.. "Meri taraf dekho" to speak about his confusion...

Maybe he is doing all that just to bring her back as at present this is the only option he has...

But how he is still not sure about her feelings for him? He knows Jhanakl... She will never allow someone to get this close to her if she hasn't any feelings for that person....

He invading her personal space & she being fine with it & reciprocating that hug wasn't a clear indication for him?

Originally posted by: vira76

My thoughts on the episode: There was not much that transpired today so not much to write but one thing is for sure... the equation has changed between Jhanak and Anirudh after his confession.

First and foremost... Anirudh remembers his confession very well.

Ani: agar tum hoti to samaz jati... you care for me much more than Arshi cares for me

Ani: main tumhe gale laga kar so gaya, tumhe bura to nahi laga na... He was feeling a bit ashamed about how be forced a hug on Jhanak, thinking it might have made Jhanak uncomfortable. Mentioning it was a decent thing to do. The last thing he wants to do is chase her away and act like a creep. His sole motto right now is to make sure Jhanak returns with him to Kolkata. This is Ani we are talking about. He does not think further in the future. Its one step at a time always.

Jhanak: Aapako bukhar tha sirf iss liye aap muze gale laga kar soye the? .... Jhanak is wanting more clarification. I guess for her the why is more important naturally. She loves him and hugging him will not make her uncomfortable, but why he is hugging her is what is more important to her. She thinks Ani was talking crazy last night. It was a moment of emotional outburst but not his forever feelings. Is this love or just fear of not being able to see her who has become part of her life? Like when you feel sad when your best friend or some close relative is going away forever...

Jhanak: Kuch dino me sangeet hai.... typical Jhanank, not speaking her mind or asking questions but just putting up a wall

Anirudh says his heart is divided into two parts and he does not understand what he wants to do.

This is nothing new for me. After last night's outburst, it is clear to him, he cannot live without Jhanak but Jhanak wants him to marry Arshi. She reminds him of that commitment he has made to some other woman every step of the way. He does not know what wrong or right thing to do at this point.

If he decides to not marry Arshi, will Jhanak think less of him and will she leave him, his family is also there whom he loves dearly...

If he decides to marry Arshi, he will be miserable for the rest of his life & hopes of being with Jhanak will shatter...

Jhanak does not love him back. He can't make her love him back or force a marriage on her that is not her choice. And he knows how much she hates to live in Bose's house. Its a dilemma, tearing him in two pieces. What he does know is that he wants Jhanak to be in his life, and does not want to lose her.

Again one step at a time ...

Ani: Please kabhi mera sath mat chodana. Baki sab mai sambhal loonga... hamesha mere sath rehana..

puze pata hai Jhanak mai thoda sa matlabi ban raha hoon...

Jab tum mere pas rehati ho, to muze bohot accha mehasoos hota hai. Please kahi gayab mat ho jana.

Ani's top concern right now is Jhanak not being in his life. He is scared to death about losing her forever and never able to see her again. It will be like his lifeline being taken away from him. If marrying Arshi is what he has to do to ensure she feels comfortable sticking around he is ready to do that.

This is called pyaar me shahid hona... being a martyr in love! Is this stupid, right or wrong?... it does not matter. This is what his love is. It can go to this extent!

There is clearly a lot going on in Ani's mind right now. His sudden outburst, his wedding, his family's reaction, making sure Jhanak does not leave him.. there are too many things happening around him. He has not made a decision yet on what he will do, or how he will do it.

Jhanak: aap apana farz nibhayenge... Arshi didi ke sath meri aankho ke samane khush rahenge... lekin aapako unake sath dekh kar main to oodas nahi hongi na... kal raat ke baad bohot kuch badal chuka hai... maine kyu nahi khud ko aap ko...

This was a small monologue but it tells me for Jhanak the way she looks at their relationship has changed. She is questioning herself for hugging him back, for not stopping him... did that feel good? Is my resolve to stay away from Ani and Arshi's marriage breaking? Am I happy about their wedding? Something else is waking up in her... that she feels quite scared to face

Ani: tum chahati ho na, main arshi ke sath khush rahoo, apane har ek farz nibhaoonga.. these words reflected a lot of pain for me... the way krushal said it... it was heartbreaking

Ani: Thank god muze bukhar hua, tum mere pas rahi aur me chain ki need so paya...

Jhanak: (runs away...)

Anirudh's expressing his love here, and how he enjoyed their intimate moments was like showing a mirror to Jhanak. Anirudh is still under the impression that Jhanak feels weirded out about last night. But for Jhanak who loves him, this night also meant a lot as well.

The question is after what happened between them, what was said, what was done, what was shared... will they be able to follow the path they have determined for themselves?

....

Only if love was that simple... 😌

Let's trust their love and have faith in their journey...

I have to disagree here about what happened last night being his physical need... it was not.

I wrote about it in my episode review at length about what emotions were at play there. The fear of losing Jhanak, thinking this was the last night of his life with her... It was his fear of losing her driving him than his physical needs...

When you think you are on the verge of losing one person you love in your life, that thought cripples you. For Ani Jhanak is his life, losing her is equal to losing his life. Everything else seems meaningless at that point, all you want to do is hold on to her, explain to her what she means to you with all your might, and make her stay. He was quite vulnerable that night

He did mention his hug this morning, yes, and I wrote about this in my today's episode review. but it was a decent thing to do. His motto is still making sure Jhanak stays in his life and he does not want to chase her way...

Originally posted by: PPak

my take on kal rath is he had the SR dream and woke up all aroused. If you see his demeanor he was not looking love struck and adoringly at her sleeping frame, like is typical in a daily show. It was more of an urgency. He woke her up quick hastily, pulled her up to him almost and then did everything he could to touch her and get her to agree to be intimate with him. First he pulls out the nightingale story, then he keeps saying he needs her, it can be interpreted as a physical need rather than a medical need. When she says sahi nahi hai, you can see he is almost angry with her and says we can figure out if it is right or wrong later...almost like he was demanding his husband rights. When that did not play out he used the 'today may be our last day..i will die tomorrow wala ploy. Last one was the ILU card. I feel he needed her physically and went about getting what he wanted single mindedly. I am not sure how much j realizes abt him.

Acknowledging the ILU means also acknowledging his manipulation to get her to sleep with him.

He either really forgot or is intentionally claiming to forget maybe because he is ashamed of himself. He could also be trying to hurt her to get a reaction. End of their scene today, when she walks out he calls her back and also has an expression on his face like regret.

This man is very hard to decipher but he is def not one of the typical goody goody ML's so its difficult to figure out what he will do.

Originally posted by: PPak

Nothing is certain in Jhanak land...you make assumptions and see how many points you can fit the theory. I guess thats what makes it exciting, all the permutations and combinations the forum comes up with, and he fact that after all this analysis makers make a poppat of you

Right!

But we are now highly experienced with this writing.

Remember after hut scene:

Ani asked Jhanak: Kal raat tumhe maza aya?

We all got that idea of consumption so same happened last night. Anirudh clearly said k me tumhy gala laga kar sogya tha and Jhanak unable to resist after listening his confession.

Makers bus faltu ka drama create karahy hn without any content. I hope things will take a positive direction because reality me to bht kuch badal gya hain.

Physical intimacy has been started in the form hugs etc so ab indono ko ek doosrey ko kisi or ko touch krna or ya karty hue dekhna won't be the same before.

Ani phelse hi Arshi se door bhag raha hai...ab to definitely kuch na kuch to hoga until n unless Jhanak ko protect krny k kiye ussey acha behave na krna parey...

Makers are unnecessarily stretching the storyline now...hadh hoti her cheez ki! 😕

Originally posted by: Varsha188

I don't like today ani's behaviour. without consent you hugged her . if husband 's right you hugged her then

Why are he not accepting marriage now he is confused.ani should have honest in relation.this is always week point of Hindi male lead serials .

Now if Jhanak asks for rights and Ani refuses we can blame him.

Here J is pushing him to Arshi. Till she stops doing that we cannot expect Ani to be honest.

One thing is Ani loves J and cannot live without her. Both patti night scene and yesterday when he said my love does not understand me - they are clear refernces to Jhanak.

/he loves her and is very aware he does.

The part I am not sure of is his acceptance of Arshi marriage - is it no jhanak so might as well to please family? If Jhanak acknowledges his love and reciprocates will Ani completely dump Arshi or does he have some guilt that will not make it a flat out selfish choice?