Sorry maya , IF was not letting me copy the whole thing! just going to copy the parts and respond.
about Jhanak... That is a strong girl for me , who stand for herself when needed .
Yes, she is a fighter when it comes to herself , choton, bodoma, Appu, jethu... but when it comes to Ani she does not fight as hard, She has pointed out a couple of times to others how they disrespect him and so on but that is all. I completely understand her stance, situation, her reasoning, but if you are seeing Ani distressed because of arshi, you also realize she is not good for Ani. I wonder why they never show that? She fails to see pain in Ani as well just like how ani fails to see love in her eyes. She saw happy Ani in aashirwad ceremony, choton pointed out Ani was not happy... she sensed Ani was not happy when they were in the same room, he was trying to tell her and open up to her, but she was afraid to let herself get involved with him so she stopped him! I think he deserves some support from her when he is alone and feeling depressed like that... She thinks to herself the marriage is important, but when Ani tries to talk about it, or calls it fake, she gets hurt... I mean this is crazy. If you really believe in god, in marriage rituals, please respect it, have respect for yourself also... Why does Arshi need to take precedence over Ani for her? every single time! ... so in that sense, this character is lacking for me and still very weak who cannot ask for whats rightfully hers. I hope we see that sometime soon... i really hope because that is what they showed in the promo!
One more thing her desire to be something and live for herself... no where! she does not want to build a career, did not want to take exam... i get it she is depressed... but she is FL, she needs to be shown some courage, Everything melo is not done!
Had Anirudh or Jhanak stopped the marriage with ther acceptance or love , it wouldn't have been this powerful to anyone including the viewers as evil gang will pounce on them ....
Panditji stopped the marriage sure but i think it was insignificant. Till when we are going to leave everything on destiny in this show? If not with "haq" or "love", they should have stopped it because it is "painful" ... or did their pain not surpass their capacity even with both of them being in the same place, with the same pandit ji, one marrying someone else and the other watching it happen? Isase zayada painful situation kya ho sakati hai? What else are they waiting for?
Honestly, I am just waiting for maybe 10-15 more episodes to see where they are taking this... i wanted to say 3-4 but I know Story is not going to go anywhere in that much time...
My detachment is increasing. I signed up for a love story, to see a woman achieve something against all odds, and a guy crosses limits to love her, but instead, we are served nonstop shaadis and melodrama!
Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
I can completely understand the detachment felt from the show .Showing Anirudh getting ready with a blush , was surely a not...
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