Debate Of The Month #1 : Love is eternal without even marriage - Page 2

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Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that transcends societal norms and legal boundaries. While marriage is a formal institution that binds two people legally, love exists independently of such contracts. Let’s delve into this debate.Arguments in Favor:Emotional Connection:Love music is primarily about emotional connection, understanding, and companionship. It doesn’t require a marriage certificate to validate its existence.Many couples experience deep love without ever formalizing their relationship through marriage.Personal Choice:Some individuals choose not to marry due to personal beliefs, lifestyle preferences, or other reasons.Their love remains genuine and enduring, even without the legal framework of marriage.Long-Term Commitment:Love can be a lifelong commitment, whether or not a couple chooses to marry.Couples who stay together for decades without marriage demonstrate the enduring nature of their love.Arguments Against:Legal Benefits:Marriage provides legal benefits, such as inheritance rights, tax advantages, and spousal support.These benefits can enhance the stability of a relationship and protect both partners.Social Recognition:Marriage is often seen as a public declaration of love and commitment.Society recognizes married couples differently, which can impact social acceptance and support.Symbolic Ritual:For many, marriage represents a significant life event—a celebration of love witnessed by family and friends.The wedding ceremony itself holds symbolic value.

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Originally posted by: Loving2Missing2

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Presenting my Argument from Life is a test team

As mentioned in the topic post that Love can be eternal without marriage, but for whom that's the point

According to puranas, Brahma created the universe , sometimes I wonder what's the purpose of this universes and humans. The most logical explanation for me would be that we're here to experience and observe.

When I watch cosmos, whole evolution thing fascinated me a lot. When I wonder at what point of time the marriage concept came during this whole process, What caused a man and women to get bind in a commitment of life, the answer that seemed logical to me was stability, there's a famous qoute which I really believe in "When stability becomes a habit, maturity and clarity follows"

Love is a very important and beautiful emotion and it can increase and decrease at any point of time with any given factor, what bounds that heart to keep going is the promise of commitment, is the comfort of a stable relationship, which then leads to grow a more advanced civilization which can observe and explore the miraculous wonder of universe on a different level.

Some would just go with the flow, some would observe it, some would experience it and some would try to explore it but human being will keep trying till we reach at least closer to the TRUTH.

Now I am aware this is a very generic thing to say as I talked about human society as a whole. Coming to individuals living thier life, I think marriage is considering important for 2 reasons

1.Loneliness

2.Vansh aage badhana hai

I already talked about second point a lot 😂so coming to first. Loneliness is of course an important part of life but it totally depends on individual's personality, if he/she gets their happiness alone (which is completely possible and totally normal) then they wouldn't get married 🤷

Now coming to the reason that's also considered very important for marriage: "LOVE"

When people say if you love each other why do you want to get married, what purpose it'll serve, why do you require validation from society, I just think if you do love each other why don't get married.

If you're already living together, already committed to each other for life, what difference will it make🤔. Wouldn't your life will get easier 🤷.

I will agree that in many marriages people doesn't live a happy life, but the same happens in Love as well. People gets anguished when they don't get the right validation of their love from their loved ones.

The selfless love seems to good to be true. It comes with a certain kind of materialistic loneliness if not requited.

I love my family, I love my friends, I love my Bhagwan ji but with all of them it comes with certain kind of expectations. Even with God, I don't blame then for any misfortunes that comes in my life but I always expects them to be with me and keep me blessed

So yeah in conclusion, Love is a feeling that increases, decreases, but life can be lived happily when we know at what point of time we need to be attached and at what time we need to get detached.

P.S

I chose this topic to explore its potential and I think I made at least a little sense 😂. Will wait for counter arguments and arguments in favour of my post as well (if any 🙈). I don't know who all are participating so just tagging Neha currently.

Hi good morning. Well debates r not my cup of tea and I can't decide which side i should be on.

If I can just express my views as a neutral person is that ok

Let me know then will write

LOVE IS ETERNAL!

Marriage is a very small almost inconsequential part of life! A part of the social construct wherein monetary benefits are seen from both sides. And with social degradation, the concept of marriage is degraded.

Speaking of Universe creation, It was love emerging in the heart of Adishakti, the first black night, RatriDevi.........The burgeoning of love manifested as the emergence of light and then Bramhaji became accountable for the creation of the Universe!

And that's why love is eternal even without marriage for each and every being! Love is the surreal emotion distributed by the cosmos to everybody equally! Just because humans propagated into societies, doesn't mean they got equivocal right to Love!

When the BirdMan builds a nest and the BirdLady shows her Oomph making him build another, that's Love! When the peacock spreads his feathers and dances, it's his expression of the same love emergence in his heart to which the peahen naturally gets attracted.

As stated in Sima's initiating post, Radha Krishna were that Love. Their Raas was the Dance of Life! Complete carefree happiness sprouting from unconditional love. Radha Krishna came just to tell humans you are capable of that ethereal happiness!

And then Krishna married, and spent his time solving the ego issues between his wives..... sometimes with Paraijataka tree, sometimes with sugar-salt comparison!..... Again showing humanity the reality of marriage!

Unfortunately, the social constructs have dominated so very much that there are not many examples following Radha Krishna pattern! Thank God, Laila Majnu or Her Ranjha were not married, otherwise love and self-sacrificial emotions would have completely evaporated........ life would boil down to tune aaj khana kaisa banaaya? and tum kamaake kya laate ho jo main achcha kuchh banaau?....... Then would their stories be enjoyable?

Stability in marriage is that illusionary self-gratification of social systems! Stability exists but maturity vanishes and clarity disappears! Hadn't it been so, the business of marriage counselling wouldn't have prospered so much. Stability exists, but it's only of daily demands and their expected fulfillment...... That's what marriage translates into!

It's not Love when it increases or decreases with so-called "factors". Rather the promise of commitment sets in that particular expectation........ the vile which completely opposes Krishna Philososphy, Karmanye Vadhikaaraste!

The per se advanced civilisation is only a complex web of legal rights promoting self-protection. The social norms and legalities are so very confusing, polygamy was perfectly accepted in marriages when monarchy prevailed...... Suddenly, it's all about property ownership that Hindu Marriage Act now mandates monogamy. The universe ceases to be a miracle anymore!

That's the TRUTH! I always wondered why creator allowed this? But then the answer comes to my subconscious....... Degradation is built into the cosmos, And that's why Shiv-ji is the Mahakaal!...... An inescapable phenomenon to each and every part of the Universe!

Countering the two points, Vansh aage badhana hai....... So what taught the world that only the male child keeps the vansh growing and female fetuses get aborted inhumanly?...... The concept of Vansh is deteriorated in humans because of the vicious halo around corrupt marriage systems!

Speaking of Loneliness! Always remember, you come alone in this world and you leave alone from the world....... So what makes humans lonely? and why look down upon loneliness??......... Isn't solace the most beautiful gift of the universe........gifted to us in our deep sleep every night!

And does life really get easier with marriage?...... And then why does everybody cherish that carefree youth period of their lives so preciously in their heart!....... When a beautiful full moon night, the blossom of night lilies bloomed love in your heart...... Though the object of love was not known, still its awareness was signifying the transition from childhood to youth!

When one demands validation, the emotion stops being love! It's only selfish ego gratification!! Pyaar jaroor karo, par kissi shart pe nahi!

Selfless love prevalent all around you, WITHIN you, doesn't feel true to you?? What spectacles does one wear that one can't see love showered by universe on you all the time?

And what is materialistic loneliness? Where does materialism come into Love, the most supreme emotion!

When expectations are set in your love for people around you, your love for god then you are asking for tears and disappointment at some time or other. God has loved you selflessly, that's why you are still alive and blooming! Think about every life that didn't get the same chance.

So In conclusion, the chaos of universe will prevail back!...... Marriages are already dissipating..... Polygamy is prevalent ( though behind closed doors!)....... The marriage system will collapse in some way so as to complete the cyclic process of Universe..... But Love! Love will stay while Universes come and go!

P.S.:- I'm following the debate concept without any personal attack on anyone! My post is completely impersonal, so please don't take it otherwise!

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