Anupamaa 24th Apr 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

This entire leap is a joke, things were apparently all well for these 5 years. And now Bapuji and Baa can’t stop remembering Maa, Dimpy can’t stop calling her and Kavya too same 😂

I still don’t get how she even agreed to stay in Kapadia house, Anuj is a gone case now, no redemption for him except death but Anupama needs to rot in this life itself with Shahs, before dying!

yeah! It makes no sense at all. Why in the world does Anuj have to bring the main root cause of panic attacks for his daughter into his house? Why in the world should Anupamaa agree?? Where is her “aapki khusi ke liye..” now? This is stupid!  

He actually wants to say - Main theek nahi hu, mujhe Anu chahiye, pls aa jao! He is a psychopath and obsessed with Anupama, this is not love, this can’t be love 🤢

And these two losers don’t give a F*** about Shruti, her physical and mental health, what will she feel with Anupama constantly around them, just treated her like a Nanny and now they don’t care if she is alive or dead, isse achcha they should have killed her in this accident!

She doesn’t deserve this too!

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Edited by Dee-Dee - 12 days ago

When Anupamaa is around everyone takes voluntary retirement thinking this foolish woman will take a bullet for them, fight for their causes, and argue on their behalf for them. Maa also happily does all of this for her Apne. Ideally, if Kavya and Baapuji meant so well for Dimpy they should have really stood by her side and called the police to protect Dimpy but no they call Maa. Dimpy should call some women's help line or police.

Tosu and Kinjal in their 30s think that if goons attack, Anupamaa should be there to protect them. This level of thinking is insane. Will Maa in her 50 fight a ninja battle for them while they wrap themselves around in her pallu for their protection. Did Maa ever challenge this thinking? Forget being there for Adhya or Anuj, did she ever tell them that she is ageing now and has limited capacity to run around and while she can help at times but that would not be a norm but only an exception. Maa ne khud apne baare mein yeh image create ki hai ki woh sab sab sab kar sakti hain.. That's the reason everyone dumps her problems and responsibilities on her when she is around and she while being engrossed in fulfilling their responsibility ends up messing hers. 

Edited by InsaneDivine - 12 days ago

Originally posted by: InsaneDivine

When Anupamaa is around everyone takes voluntary retirement thinking this foolish woman will take a bullet for them, fight for their causes, and argue on their behalf for them. Maa also happily does all of this for her Apne. Ideally, if Kavya and Baapuji meant so well for Dimpy they should have really stood by her side and called the police to protect Dimpy but no they call Maa. Dimpy should call some women's help line or police.

Tosu and Kinjal in their 30s think that if goons attack, Anupamaa should be there to protect them. This level of thinking is insane. Will Maa in her 50 fight a ninja battle for them while they wrap themselves around in her pallu for their protection. Did Maa ever challenge this thinking? Forget being there for Adhya or Anuj, did she ever tell them that she is ageing now and has limited capacity to run around and while she can help at times but that would not be a norm but only an exception. Maa ne khud apne baare mein yeh image create ki hai ki woh sab sab sab kar sakti hain.. That's the reason everyone dumps her problems and responsibilities on her when she is around and she while being engrossed in fulfilling their responsibility ends up messing hers. 

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Maa doesn’t challenge this thinking because she herself says she will do it all! She finds validation in Shah house and her kids still needing her.

We normal people would think, Thank God our parents are not here at this time when there’s danger around, atleast they are safe, but Toshu, Pakhi, Baa, Bapuji, Vanraj, Kavya, Dimpy (all kids of Maa) they think Anupama kyon nahi hai hume bachane ke liye aur humara dhyan rakhne ke liye 😂

Maa hi women’s help line hai Maa hi Dr. Surgeon sab sab sab hai…Maa hi kanoon hai 😂

She has only encouraged this dependency of Shahs on her because that’s like Oxygen for her.

And Bapuji did so much Dhong of fighting with Leela and Vanraj but in the end chupchap khade hokar he was watching Leela and Vanraj doing Pratik’s Aarti, log sab kuch Bhagwan bharose chod dete hain aur Bapuji Kavya sab kuch Anupama ke bharose chod dete hain 😂

Anupama ichh Bhagwan hai! 🙏

Edited by Dee-Dee - 12 days ago

Some koschens:

Kavya used to visit Shah House, Vanraj and Kavya loved each other, Vanraj-Anupama's marriage broke due to both their betrayal.

Maaya stayed at Kapadia Mansion on Anupama's insistence, Maaya developed feelings for Anuj (although had NO such thing), Anuj followed his daughter to bring her back and stayed with Maaya, (it is said by a section) betraying Anupama.

Anuj-Shruti are engaged to be married, Anuj insists Anupama to stay at Kapadia's, both have feelings for each other.

Anuj-Shruti's marriage is not happening.

So, Anuj-Anupama are the reason for Shruti's marriage breaking?

Aren't Anuj-Anupama doing exactly what Vanraj-Kavya and Anuj-Maaya (apparently) did?

Anupama too becomes a vamp?

Shikaar se Shikaari? Wow! Kya transformation hain.

Edited by Bodhianveshika - 12 days ago

“log sab kuch Bhagwan bharose chod dete hain aur Bapuji Kavya sab kuch Anupama ke bharose chod dete hain 😂

Anupama ichh Bhagwan hai! 🙏”

But they forget that for Anupama Baaa and Vanraj is bhagwaan so at last 

Wahin hoga jo baa aur vanraaj chahenge

Originally posted by: InsaneDivine

When Anupamaa is around everyone takes voluntary retirement thinking this foolish woman will take a bullet for them, fight for their causes, and argue on their behalf for them. Maa also happily does all of this for her Apne. Ideally, if Kavya and Baapuji meant so well for Dimpy they should have really stood by her side and called the police to protect Dimpy but no they call Maa. Dimpy should call some women's help line or police.

Tosu and Kinjal in their 30s think that if goons attack, Anupamaa should be there to protect them. This level of thinking is insane. Will Maa in her 50 fight a ninja battle for them while they wrap themselves around in her pallu for their protection. Did Maa ever challenge this thinking? Forget being there for Adhya or Anuj, did she ever tell them that she is ageing now and has limited capacity to run around and while she can help at times but that would not be a norm but only an exception. Maa ne khud apne baare mein yeh image create ki hai ki woh sab sab sab kar sakti hain.. That's the reason everyone dumps her problems and responsibilities on her when she is around and she while being engrossed in fulfilling their responsibility ends up messing hers. 

They are doing what Anupama herself wants.

My take:

She wants to be "The most important person" in their (Shahs only) lives or atkeast thats what she probably thinks. She wants the dependency of Shahs.

For 26 years, she lived a life of irrelevance in Shah House. At the time of revelation of Vanraj-Kavya's infidelity, she realised that Shahs were dependent on her for daily chores. They even confronted Vanraj and belittled Kavya infront of her for this alone. The only skill she naturally excelled at. More importantly, something that earned her praises over her nemesis, Kavya.

This could be why Anupama did not want to break the cycle and move away from Shahs when Advait advised her or Kanta and Bhavesh tried so hard to convince her to come back to them.

Without this constant validation from Shahs, she feels lost. Theur word is the law for her. She cares a damn about ANYONE else.

May be this is the reason, when Vanraj asked her to stay away from them, she did not feel the need to hold on to what was hers and who needed her, instead, she did not need anyone else (Kapadias) and left them breaking ties that too without a trace for 5 years.

Even during the 5 years, she did NOTHING productive for herself to become a "jogan" (whatever that means).

Even now, she had a chance to build her career, she got everything served on a platter, what does she do, go to her abusers every single day for one reason or another to retain the dependency.

ALL of this screams of just one thing OBSESSION with Shahs.

Its funny that whenever there’s a problem in Kapadia house, there’s always a bigger Kaand awaiting at Shahs and only Anupama can solve it 😂

Kyu Kyu Kyu Kanhaji coming very very soon, Maa will again curse Kanhaji for troubling this bechari Bati hui Orat, she will pretend to be in dilemma again but consciously and intentionally she will choose Shahs once again & will have to book the next flight to India and run for helping Dimpy 😂

Also it’s so heartbreaking to see that Aadhya’s worst fears always come true, all three years of her being with Anupama, she kept begging for her attention and love, always feared that Mummy mujhe chodkar chali jayegi and that’s exactly what happened.

Now she feared that Anupama would come and break Pops& Shruti’s marriage, Pops would bring her in this house and that’s exactly what happened.
Anuj is equally responsible for Aadhya’s trauma and panic attacks along with Anupama.
This girl’s happy family dream will always remain a dream!

I just hope Shruti shows some self respect and walks out of the house instead of getting insecure and getting into planning plotting!

Edited by Dee-Dee - 11 days ago

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

They are doing what Anupama herself wants.

My take:

She wants to be "The most important person" in their (Shahs only) lives or atkeast thats what she probably thinks. She wants the dependency of Shahs.

For 26 years, she lived a life of irrelevance in Shah House. At the time of revelation of Vanraj-Kavya's infidelity, she realised that Shahs were dependent on her for daily chores. They even confronted Vanraj and belittled Kavya infront of her for this alone. The only skill she naturally excelled at. More importantly, something that earned her praises over her nemesis, Kavya.

This could be why Anupama did not want to break the cycle and move away from Shahs when Advait advised her or Kanta and Bhavesh tried so hard to convince her to come back to them.

Without this constant validation from Shahs, she feels lost. Theur word is the law for her. She cares a damn about ANYONE else.

May be this is the reason, when Vanraj asked her to stay away from them, she did not feel the need to hold on to what was hers and who needed her, instead, she did not need anyone else (Kapadias) and left them breaking ties that too without a trace for 5 years.

Even during the 5 years, she did NOTHING productive for herself to become a "jogan" (whatever that means).

Even now, she had a chance to build her career, she got everything served on a platter, what does she do, go to her abusers every single day for one reason or another to retain the dependency.

ALL of this screams of just one thing OBSESSION with Shahs.

Show should be renamed as

Meeshtar Shah is obsessed with himself... Anupama is obsessed with Meeshtar Shah... Anuj is obsessed with Meri Anu...

I wish adhya runs away never to be found again and Shruti ye sunke coma mein chali Jaye permanently. Anuj will get lifetime opportunity to be doormat of ma and shah. 

And 20 yrs later adhya ake ek ek krke sbko murder kre kill Bill style