Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 34 - Page 97

Manverr knowing Inder EMA still stayed at sasural and denied to give divorce. Even threatened to commit suicide. Because she is most ghatiya woman. In this way she was unhappy as well as her forced husband also unhappy. Not all people / woman like her. Shaiba's instant react and upsetting is reasonable. How she will think differently while angad always supported that lambi bal wayali churaiyal.

Manver the disgrace of woman put constantly oil in fire.

Angad should confront her ......

Originally posted by: suji01

Instances in favour of Sahiba are conveniently forgotten. Bebe and Daarji would have been accepting had Sahiba emotionally blackmailed Angad to stay in the relationship. You hide everything behind close doors but in front of the world you behave self righteous. Of course why would the Brars accept that they were wrong

The way Sahiba is behaving, she deserves this. She prefers being a doormat over her self respect. They have ruined her character.

What about the multiple warnings Sahiba gave Angad about Seerat, will Angad ever reflect on that?

Angad mahaan and Sahiba beimaan

What is Sahiba to do.

When she walked out keeping her self respect paramount everyone made her feel like she's wrong.

Shes got no financial security. Incomplete education and limited job opportunites. No family support - mongas are all lip service and no action.

Then stalker kaand happened and she got kidnapped, tortured , almost died- she was shot at, almost raped.

After all this the whole play of events is such that everyone holds her responsible for this "MU" where she doubted Angad even after hearing everything.

Whats she supposed to do?! Its like the people in her life and the universe are all telling her ki kuch bhi ho she cant go, and ghut ghut kar hi sahi she needs to stay with pati Angad because otherwise she will put herself and everyone around her in harms way.

Itnaa gaslight karenge sab log milke toh woh doormat hi banegi. Aur kya kar sakti hai.

And its not like she got an upbringing where she was asked to speak up. She's been conditioned to tolerate, sacrifice etc etc.

Originally posted by: suji01

I agree Sahiba is at fault here but there were things that led her to believe that Angad still loves Seerat. Angad was also wrong in mistaking Seerat for Sahiba. Both are to be blamed here but putting the entire blame on Sahiba isn’t right. Daarji never puts his foot down when the issue is ongoing but gives gyaan after the issue is resolved. Even today he felt that he should have financially helped Yash. Why couldn’t he offer help then?

Seerat toh shuru se hi delulu hai and she has always blamed Sahiba for her mistakes. So her reaction doesn’t surprise me.

Sahiba wanting to be a doormat is also nothing new coz she has lost her spark.

Angad seerat ko expose karke patli gali se bach nikla. Baa summary di ke har baar reprimand kiya usko but yeh nahi bola ke usmein se kuch sahiba ne bhi dekha hain. And trust tootne ki baat & dosti ka bolke sahiba ke ghar se nikalne ka baad jo raitha phailaya hai usse bhi bacha gaya (in sahiba's eyes) .

Daarji ka seriously mat lo, aaj kal kuch bhi bolte hain. Jaise kal seerat ko bola " Maana teri saccha pyar hain ".. Koi aur hota toh sunata ache se usko.

Sahiba is rotlu , boring and doormat. Mera koi expectation hi nahi hain ke yeh kabhi khush bhi rahegi ghar mein. Jahan muh kholna chahiye udhar, aansu liye meri galti hain bolegi ya sirf roti rahegi

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

Yup, she looked concerned. And it's her saccha pyar itni jaldi nahi jayegi. Adhik cat fight hogi ab woh bhi saare phamily ke saamne. Seerat hamesha prove karne ki koshish karegi ke she is best for angad. Sahib roti rahegi, angad & brars confused rahenge.

But koi bhi phamily waala seerat ki akelapan & desperation to get her sister's husband dekhke yeh nahi bolega ke seerat ki phir se shaadi karwate hain

Yes... then she immediately thinks ki mein Angad ki nazar mein villain ban gayi and all that... She thinks about herself.. So the thing is that she likes Angad, but is more worried about being his wife and having the life of the badi bahu and his wife. And sacch kahoon tho Sahiba also didn't give me that vibe... As in it doesn't look like she loves Angad. All i could see was her crying and whining.

On paper Sahiba is a pure soul who has gone through a lot, she is someone who is falling in love her man for the first time, she is hurt and dejected that he doesn't reciprocate her feelings, she is fiesty and wants to be independent. And she was tortured by her husband, sister, her family, his family and then Rumi.

Angad on the other hand is head over heels in love with Sahiba but is egoistic, doesn't realize his mistakes, doesn't know how to draw the boundaries, listens to his perpetrator badmouthing his wife, takes her along as +1 for events, tells wife how wrong she is and how the sister is right... but does the unbelievable to save his wife... A very confusing character indeed.. and now he has reprimanded the sister but again gave her a chance 😊 to stay in the house. A normal man out of fear for his family would have plucked out such a weed.

That being said, on-screen you feel bad for Angad not Sahiba. Just IMO. Today, I just couldn't connect with Sahiba even though she was wrongly blamed. Even though everyone was being unfair to her. Angad looked hurt but Sahiba was just crying and crying... I didn't see her guilt nor love nor pain... Bas rothe jaa rahe the... Angad on the other hand showed pain and hurt and care beautifully. I don't know if Himanshi is asked to be like that Or if she is not emoting.

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

This I agree!!! Never once they showed angad accepting sahiba was right regarding seerat's intentions towards him. How he & sahiba suffered because he took her warning lightly.

And yes, aaj nahi toh kal angad ki dosti wapas bhi aa sakti hain, they blame will on her manipulation skills

Haan , I don't mind ruthna manana. But it is obvious to me everytime he and his bhabi do nonsense together, he will expertly blame bhabi and gaslight biwi because it is pretty obvious his final and only takeaway from all this was Sahiba should trust him no matter what. (not that he also should stop giving chances to Seerat because a loud and clear sorry to Sahiba is enough to patch the bichhde hue dost)

Originally posted by: Deb07

Manverr knowing Inder EMA still stayed at sasural and denied to give divorce. Even threatened to commit suicide. Because she is most ghatiya woman. In this way she was unhappy as well as her forced husband also unhappy. Not all people / woman like her. Shaiba's instant react and upsetting is reasonable. How she will think differently while angad always supported that lambi bal wayali churaiyal.

Manver the disgrace of woman put constantly oil in fire.

Angad should confront her ......

Sahiba rotlu should first confront Angad... And tell him every single incident after the MU... which made her leave him. She just wrote an S and he's lost it. And they said 15000 times ki she was forced to do it. And no one took Seerats name ☺...more signs that third angle rahegi jab tak hein jaan (TMDs)

I liked angad's dialogue in today's episode ke there was no them in the relationship only him & her. Only if angad also realises the mistakes he did in the relationship, for never trusting sahiba's words.

I personally don't believe ke not giving divorce is the ultimate form of love. Both should put equal efforts. And the fact that it's 1 week since angad giving cold shoulder to sahiba even after listening to her pov, kuch sahi nahi laga mujhe. And now also he is worried for her safety only, ise pyar kehte hain kya??

Angad wants Sahiba in front of him but always gaslighting 24/7 . I hope his anger subsides with passing of each episode. He does not want to listen her advice but he want Sahiba to follow his orders. But Sahiba looks very cute in this rotlu avtaar like a baby doll. Trp aunties like Sahiba to cry so that’s why this track. It was cute how Angad is keeping track of her. How she is spending time with her friends. Rumi ka asar hai.

i disagree with that. I felt bad for Sahiba. Her tears do show guilt as well as mainly helplessness. ki kuch bhi ho, end mein akeli vohi khadi rehti hai with everyone holding her responsible. its happened too many times. she doesnt show a lot of "love" or desire yet because she has never been given any allowance to khullam khulla show her affection until now. She always shows her care but its been in a more platonic way than romantic. it has been out of her own underlying personality as a do-gooder and zimmedari as wife, bahu. she has conveyed well that Angad affects her, seeing Angad with Seerat affects her and she was slowly moving to a phase of acceptance in her shaadi- both from her side and from family side but everything was ruined. and she conveyed her pain well. because she craved acceptance and it was gone all too quickly.

VJ emotes well, much better than himanshi because his is way more experienced too. but character of Angad is such that, I didnt feel bad for him. a great actor also cannot salvage bad script. on the flip side less than great performance by Himanshi also makes me feel bad for her character. I am glad he has realized the truth but he enabled Seerat and is reaping the rewards

Originally posted by: Athz

Sahiba rotlu should first confront Angad... And tell him every single incident after the MU... which made her leave him. She just wrote an S and he's lost it. And they said 15000 times ki she was forced to do it. And no one took Seerats name ☺...more signs that third angle rahegi jab tak hein jaan (TMDs)

but when everyone collectively holds her guilty and gaslights, theres no scope that she will ever get to say her side of the story or explain her POV. she herself is focused more now on getting Angad to soften up and manao him rather than explaining to him why she was hurt and what he did wrong. she must be scared that if she tries to explain he will see it as bahane, excuses, safai