What was the purpose of this question? Unnecessary.
No it's not ok what he said - I think he went overboard in his frustration and made a very mean comment, but I don't think that this instance means he's a write off as a ghatiya person period. That's my opinion - you need not agree.
agreed. he was rude today and made a mean comment which he shouldn't have. he's clearly getting frustrated with her because of how she has been treating him and now it's coming out. but if it comes out without her doing anything to piss him off in that moment, then he ends up looking like the bad guy. this comment was mean but the thing is she has said similarly mean things to him k tu ne mere liye kya kia, tu to hai hi aisa, insinuating that he uses people and forgets about old friends when new people enter his life whereas wo sab ko sath le k chalti hai, etc. she's always making it seem like he's a horrible husband because whenever she is upset with him, she doesn't limit it to how he's behaving in the house. wo uski overall baat karti hai and makes it seem like he's never there for her.