Originally posted by: MiVida_Messi
No. No way a grieving mother and a grieving brother plus father could be reason for someone else find a husband. Akshara can’t handle truth, she’s not strong enough to deal with losses, deaths or the mere fact that she had been wrong and put others in danger, no way someone is so unhinged or insensitive to not understand how Manjari or birla family went through with series of deaths of their kids and unborn, nobody understands how arohi feels when she sees Akshara and remembers her dead mother Sirat and no way someone is going to be so irrational to think these people who are victims of fate would’ve pushed Akshara to marry a stranger, divorce or fall out with first husband doesn’t imply he’s asking you to marry someone else with your unborn unless the husband is abusive or in an extra marital affair, Abhimanyu wanted his happiness with Akshara and his kids, hence he didn’t or. Couldn’t find someone for him even after she moved on, that’s my friend is loyalty and dignity and not blaming everyone else for your irrational and destructive life damaging decisions.
It’s a tv show so it’s fine whatever they show but in reality women like Akshara will have zero respect and empathy from anyone of there’s no redemption or self realization for her mistakes, she’s producing kids and’buying’ husbands, and in our society such women are hailed as gold diggers or opportunistic losers with no real education or job but having baap ka paisa.
Arohi blaming Akshara for Sirat's death I think makers have cleared that she just used to have an upper hand on Akshara.
Abhimanyu and Manjari were cruel to divorce Akshara and throw her out. A doctor throwing out a mis carried woman is acceptable and justifiable, in the name of his sorrow of loosing brother??? Post WD, I have not seen anyone remembering Neil, except in the recent episodes. Even Neil's widow herself never remembered him, isn't it?
I would prefer not to have a partner, who is ready with the divorce papers anyway and is ready to kick out his wife whenever he is angry.
Once you divorce your wife, you can not expect where she goes, to her family/friend/anyone, whether she takes a bus and go far away is none of your business. thats her choice, right?
A woman moves on after she is divorced by her husband and she will be judged as disloyal and not dignified. Akshara was loyal to Abhimanyu as long as they were married and she was loyal to Abhinav as long as he was alive. Why we should judge, if she decides to move on after a relationship ends?
And people call Abhimanyu loyal and dignified, because he is angry throughout 6 years and not moved on. If he is not able to move on, thats his problem. A person moving on after a relationship ends is not disloyal.
Had Akshara been emotionally or physically cheating two men at a time, that will make her disloyal and not dignified. Abhimanyu getting engaged to Arohi all the while declaring that he loves her sister is disloyal to me.
Akshara is not gold digger, she is not buying husbands. Both the men are willingly accepting her in their lives. If they are ready to accept Akshara, how does that makes her gold digger. She is not seducing them. She is not black mailing them, she is not forcing herself by threatening on their lives, isn't it? And they are not toddlers that they can not decide what they should do with their lives.
Edited by Lethamukund - 1 years ago
Who’s writing this show seriously? I’m glad HC is out, can’t tolerate to see him in such mediocre circus
. This proves my point that for her husband means nothing above her own being, I’m not saying women should worship dead husband or exes and never move on but in her own words Abhimanyu is the darkness that ruined her but she still chose to go back to him after 80 days of her soulmate’s death? Doesn’t that negate everything you’re saying about her? 
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