Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 23 - DT Note Pg 59 - Page 116

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

I am sorry i try to avoid getting into Sahiba better or angad better debates. I feel both of them are fools. but lets look at this

bold1- I never remembered he giving chances to people especially Sahiba either before marriage or after marriage. he called her characterless multiple times too. that was when he didnt even knew her. so no he giving chances to Seerat is not a blanket 'he sees good in all and believes in second chances philosophy. thats exclusively for Seerat and thats what people are not liking

Bold 2- As a audience i want to see that badly but sadly he is never alone. he always is with Seerat. yeah i know he looks lost but that doesn't cut it for me. I believed he loved Sahiba in hospital track 100% but right now he comes across as a person who Ego is hurt. who cannot defend his wife when people are badmouthing her and its not like Sahiba didn't give reason. He knows what the reason is and still he doesn't take care of it and that doesn't show his love nor his respect for his wife's wishes.

Bold 3- I think almost everyone has commented on this. But to be honest this looks so weird when 2 episodes back he didn't realise he is supposedly 'mesmerized' by a painting which is done by Sahiba and she standing right behind him till she talked. tab usaka six sense kaha gaya tha. that's why as an audience i dont connect with his pain

Sahiba was unbearable in simran track and people had bashed her too.

For sahiba more than love she craved respect in any relationship. If you cant respect her and keep degrading her by belittling her insecurity, her wishes, her self respect then whats the point of the eternal love

This is the beautiful explanation why Angad character doesnt looks like more as a Good written male lead but a stupid person who can't defend his wife. Who is innocent or he was never in love with her. He is roaming around with seerat, letting her touch everything and still he doesn't say a word.

Originally posted by: hellodona

Achha award ussko jewellers association de raha. Garland pehnane keliye decorator hi mila 🤣 Kuchh bhi

angad is like patang Kumar of uska pati sirf Mera h from sarabhai jo bohot sari biwiyon k beech lehrata rehta h 🤣🤣🤣😂😂patang sing brar

Nicely written! Agreed with everything except few words.

Angad can't defend badmouthing sahiba , I disagree!

Angad would not defend sahiba!! Because I never see him trying to defend sahiba ( except one time before simran exposed)

And about simran track if sahiba was not adamant that 10 years old would be living in street.Still I agree viewers can can get frustrated and bashed sahiba. Got it.

And sahiba is not insecure by rat nor in her relationship with angad. When they didn't started loving each other sahiba was aware of her boundaries and when they fell for each other she wanted to make sure Angad is feeling the same. Because it's her first love not Angad's. Before MU Proposal she already heard twice from Angad himself that he loves seerat.

yaar Sarabhai was such a wholesome entertainment. that show showed that you dont need EMA, character assassinations or typical saas bahu verbal abuse (Maya ka abuse bhi classy tha :-D) to make a good entertainment

waha Monisha ki behen suddenly nahi aayi Sahil ke upar dore dalane mein, nahi hi Roshesh used to 'eye' his Bhabhi. Na hi Maya used to have sudden flips regarding her philosophies

I miss Sarabhai

Originally posted by: hellodona

I agree. Women chosing to stay in bad marriages don't become less deserving of sympathy.

Sahiba herself stayed in a bad marriage when she could and should have walked out 50000 times.

Most victims stay with abuser in the hope that one day things will change.

What degrades Manveer is her blackmailing Inder into keeping the marriage. Then her mistreatment of Simran and no remorse after nearly getting both women killed.

Agree. Its not about staying in the marriage. But its about why and at what cost. Most women stay either due to manipulation or because of lack of stability/security or for kids.

Sahiba has walked out now. She's tolerant but not stupid. Shes got some self respect. This despite her financial issues and lack of qualifications education wise and parents who dont actually care about her at all.

But Whats Manbeers excuse to stay. And if she did, then why did she raise Angad to be an MCP?!

She failed on every front. She's not deserving of sympathy if she's learned no life lessons

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

yaar Sarabhai was such a wholesome entertainment. that show showed that you dont need EMA, character assassinations or typical saas bahu verbal abuse (Maya ka abuse bhi classy tha :-D) to make a good entertainment

waha Monisha ki behen suddenly nahi aayi Sahil ke upar dore dalane mein, nahi hi Roshesh used to 'eye' his Bhabhi. Na hi Maya used to have sudden flips regarding her philosophies

I miss Sarabhai

I like how Rupali went from this to today's trp queen. All the actors were so good.

I liked Khichdi too. Itv rarely serves with sitcoms but Sarabhai is class apart.

Angad was always a stupid. He knew Garry does not like him , First time when Sahiba exposed him, garry made a fool of him and he gave one more chance to sahiba to prove him wrong. He has been always an emotional fool. He even excused Garry also and allowed him to stay in brar mansion.

Seerat will be excused even if exposed, bcoz she has not done anything by herself drastic, only she used the situations well. She will also not give up on Angad even Sahiba returns. Angad not realizing to keep boundaries with seerat. Sahiba will return that is sure, just want to know why she will return and what angad will do to make her return. If he just saves her and that will make ke rto return then god will save her only from this cringefest

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Agree. Its not about staying in the marriage. But its about why and at what cost. Most women stay either due to manipulation or because of lack of stability/security or for kids.

Sahiba has walked out now. She's tolerant but not stupid. Shes got some self respect. This despite her financial issues and lack of qualifications education wise and parents who dont actually care about her at all.

But Whats Manbeers excuse to stay. And if she did, then why did she raise Angad to be an MCP?!

She failed on every front. She's not deserving of sympathy if she's learned no life lessons

I have a different take on it but regardless you can be both the victim of one's cheating and be an abuser and absolute trash human at sane time. That is Manveer.

Originally posted by: Surbhizoya

Nicely written! Agreed with everything except few words.

Angad can't defend badmouthing sahiba , I disagree!

Angad would not defend sahiba!! Because I never see him trying to defend sahiba ( except one time before simran exposed)

And about simran track if sahiba was not adamant that 10 years old would be living in street.Still I agree viewers can can get frustrated and bashed sahiba. Got it.

And sahiba is not insecure by rat nor in her relationship with angad. When they didn't started loving each other sahiba was aware of her boundaries and when they fell for each other she wanted to make sure Angad is feeling the same. Because it's her first love not Angad's. Before MU Proposal she already heard twice from Angad himself that he loves seerat.

@ Bold - Agree but i wanted to be polite Simran track wala defending bhi purely isliye tha ki next episode mein he can say sorry to Seerat ki u were right. infact I had put the same comment that the defending look so forced that when truth is out he can feel guilty for that defending

@bold 2 - Yes i completely agree with Sahiba's stand for Simran. That poor thing was not at fault and no one was thinking about her and everyone was massaging their bruised ego. But there writers were in sahiba bashing mode and made her do illogical things like that adoption. But still that's incomparable to Seerat situation because

a> Simran is 10 year old kid and the situation she is in was without her fault where as Seerat is adult enough to propose EMA, the situation she was in was because of her actions.

b> Simran's secret was not Sahiba's to tell. Indar randomly cornered her to share his secret and Sahiba didn't go to him asking for it. She was saddled with unwanted information and time and again she kept telling Indar to come clean. whereas Time and Again Angad keeps rushing to Seerat under the guise of Zimmedari and her EMA offer, Kiss attempt and ILU was told directly to Angad when he had willingly gone to talk to her. And in spite of that he hid these things when they impact Sahiba and him both. and he even told Seerat to not let Sahiba know

So Sahiba defending Simran can make sense, Angad defending Seerat makes zero sense and comes across as protecting Seerat at any cost so she stays in Brar mansion

Last part Agree

Originally posted by: shanakanj

Angad was always a stupid. He knew Garry does not like him , First time when Sahiba exposed him, garry made a fool of him and he gave one more chance to sahiba to prove him wrong. He has been always an emotional fool. He even excused Garry also and allowed him to stay in brar mansion.

He physically assaulted Garry when exposed, multiple times. This excuse won't cut it. He only allowed Garry back because he met Seerat first and the only way he thought he could get Seerat around himself is getting Garry married to Seerat. He kept condition that Garry needs to keep Seerat happy , no such conditions for Seerat. Anyone will be blind to blood siblings , why is Angad blind to some other woman's sibling (his ex who cheated him)

Garry hid intentions, Seerat says everything to his face, touches him 24/7, Garry lies, Seerat directly says she wants his wife's place, multiple family members have accused them of affair. Still he has no shame, at any cost he wants bhabi around to show sympathy.

He did not want Garry to join business but agreed on Seerats ask.

He clearly gives Seerat more leeway than any other human in his life.

He is what Sahiba accused him of, a two timer who wants both sisters, though I still don't get why he wants Sahiba.