TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi-Wahaj Ali DT #144 - Page 107

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Ye dekh

Ab toh isiko dekhna hai.

Mujhe toh shivangi pe taras aa raha hain ab..😂😂🫣🫣🫣.

This will be repeating myself again, but I find the people talking about MR are even logical and have valid points. The good thing with ITV is they never listen to their fans because they incorporate such sensitive issues in their plot only when the script demands and hence are always convinced with their POV.

Also, they(PH) are logical enough to understand the implications of removing key moments in their story. Hence we are assured of never getting any half-baked product like we have been served yesterday.

We were awaiting our mazaa aayega moment and the real twist only for us to realise we have been robbed off that, at the expense of them modifying the plot which has been shot already.

Finally the spit and slap scenes shot to justify the atrocity(MR) committed by murtasim were left meaningless. Also this resulted in the entire climax scenes seem to be the victim of shoddy editing rendering the climax open for our own interpretation.

IMO life isn't about living it perfectly. Relationships are meant to be complicated demanding tradeoffs.

I have seen Meerab kind of women who have only my way or no-way approach. Don't bash me for this, I have literally seen women going gaayab from their home leaving husband and kids to fend for themselves, and the husband contacting all possible friends and relatives only for the wife to comeback after taking time-off for a while(few days or weeks). Meanwhile the kids having to live with the ire or pyaar of the father.

I'd thank meerab for coming back to murtasim rather than let meesam live her life in poverty just because of her unforgiving nature even if it's an MR, because practical demands of life shouldn't be ignored and financial necessities are always top most in the list.

So life is just a result of our constant efforts to consciously live with happiness, never losing the vigour and urge to live.

As Tara_memu12 ji had beautifully written, those dialogues would have made sense to happen between meerasim. Otherwise, whatever is there between them is all wrapped up. Jo beeth gaya so baath gaya.

Story had left us and let's leave it there.

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

Someone had mentioned in this DT or previous DT that I think that she liked how MK and Mee do not question eachother after reunion. Bcz it showed them realising that they love eachother and that is what matters and in a way it was true and I liked that they didn't question eachother.

Now if someone points out at each of their mistakes and says Haya ka nai poocha.. Aise it would have been justified and both had full right to question eachother bcz natural hai. Anyone would ask if you suddenly turn up all by yourself when you left on your own ke kahan thi kiske saat thi. Similarly, anyone can question him ke kyu Haya se shadi kar rahe the..

Also, I feel, it's okay if people think it was MR but you can't judge his character now by using MR angle and calling him a rapist. Bcz they didn't show any such thing. So why hate him by labeling him as a rapist.

Then, again if it was MR for any reason, I think, it's not wrong of actors to play and writers to write. Bcz these kind of things happen in reality. So, showing that is ok. Yes, execution should be good. Where message hona chahie ke these kind of MRs happen and it's wrong ya kuch bhi. Then haan people do forget and forgive and move on, this also happens in real life (Not justifying it) so, agar waise dikhaya phir b theek hai. Again should come with a disclaimer and proper execution. People expect realistic story telling so when reality is shown they don't like it.. Doesn't mean it is justified it only mean that these things happen in reality. But, aisa controversy wasn't needed in a simple love story like this bcz it was always promoted as a love story

Originally posted by: Kiwicy

Ab toh isiko dekhna hai.

Mujhe toh shivangi pe taras aa raha hain ab..😂😂🫣🫣🫣.

Chup kar !! They are looking hot together.

Yeah. This week I will definitely watch mpht. 🤣i want to see how mahi fights for her hubby. Aur Saad ki aankhon me shock by seeing mshi like that.

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Since the time maheer's character evolved I started watching the drama and it's so entertaining now for me. Maheer and Saad are love. Both treats each other with respect and care. There is equality in their relationship unlike the toxic and traumatic relationship of Meerab and Murtasim which always needs conditions to remain alive

Originally posted by: Madhuilove

Frame karlo

Where did I see this shot?? Some Bollywood movie has this.. which one?? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Tanu tu bol. Kaha dekha.

Girls any guesses.

Thank you nightingale1234 ji, I think yumhaj will keechify us to the forum with their ⚗️🧪😆😂 watching the serial without all of your 😍 ❤️ is unimaginable🤗👐🫂

Originally posted by: nightingale1234

Guys, plzzz every one come back for season 2. This forum is nothing without the original TB members..New season will have new characters,fans etc but the essence of TB thread is because of you guys...

Plz koi kahin mat jana, if it's season 2 with yumna and wahaj whether it is continuity of the same story or different one, let's all plz come back ..

It won't be same without you guys... Agar aapkog nahi aaoge mein bhi nahi aavungi😔

So guys... What's the general conclusion? Murtesim sach mein Haya se shaadi karnewaala tha? Ya koi plan tha uska to expose her? 🥴 Did he really trust her that day? And if she had no involvement in Merub leaving Haveli he would marry Haya?

Actually when did Haya see Merub leaving? Usne toh sirf phone attend ki thi... 😆

Makers ne Haya-Merub conversation edit kiya isliye iss baat ka bhi kuch matlab nahin raha!

Anwar ko Haya ne dhakka diya uska koi kuch nahin kaha!

Mujhe toh twist bhi samajh nahin aaya!

Don't know... I don't feel like TB ended, with all these questions in my mind!

BTW loved Meresim scenes in bedroom... And i feel the conversation was regarding Murtesim prioritizing Haya over Merub... He might be saying sorry for all those things...(Nikaah ke baare mein koi baat nahin hui,afsos hai iss baat ka) And i want to conclude it like Hayawaale kaand ke wajah se hi Merub ne ghar chhoda!

Originally posted by: TR_19

I actually watched few episodes of jo bichar gaye i can't believe geo made this show...its a netflix amazon prime level show.

Really. I wanted to watch it next. Will see that.

Agree dear🤗👐🫂 maybe they should've used that walima song there like someone shared earlier instead of the OST and probably dupatta twirling on top of a haystack would have done us justice❤️😍💖

Originally posted by: CranberryQueen

The famous DDLJ scene was so well shot. It captured the essence of Meerasim beautifully which was missing in soooo many episodes. Meerab’s curls and yellow dupatta, the twisted mustache and crisp kurta.. the breeze.

It has left me wanting more… I am feeling so emotional right now! 😭❤️‍🩹

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

This will be repeating myself again, but I find the people talking about MR are even logical and have valid points. The good thing with ITV is they never listen to their fans because they incorporate such sensitive issues in their plot only when the script demands and hence are always convinced with their POV.

Also, they(PH) are logical enough to understand the implications of removing key moments in their story. Hence we are assured of never getting any half-baked product like we have been served yesterday.

We were awaiting our mazaa aayega moment and the real twist only for us to realise we have been robbed off that, at the expense of them modifying the plot which has been shot already.

Finally the spit and slap scenes shot to justify the atrocity(MR) committed by murtasim were left meaningless. Also this resulted in the entire climax scenes seem to be the victim of shoddy editing rendering the climax open for our own interpretation.

IMO life isn't about living it perfectly. Relationships are meant to be complicated demanding tradeoffs.

I have seen Meerab kind of women who have only my way or no-way approach. Don't bash me for this, I have literally seen women going gaayab from their home leaving husband and kids to fend for themselves, and the husband contacting all possible friends and relatives only for the wife to comeback after taking time-off for a while(few days or weeks). Meanwhile the kids having to live with the ire or pyaar of the father.

I'd thank meerab for coming back to murtasim rather than let meesam live her life in poverty just because of her unforgiving nature even if it's an MR, because practical demands of life shouldn't be ignored and financial necessities are always top most in the list.

So life is just a result of our constant efforts to consciously live with happiness, never losing the vigour and urge to live.

As Tara_memu12 ji had beautifully written, those dialogues would have made sense to happen between meerasim. Otherwise, whatever is there between them is all wrapped up. Jo beeth gaya so baath gaya.

Story had left us and let's leave it there.

The issue isn't showing MR in TV shows, the issue is promoting the ML committing MR as the best husband and as a hero. I do understand there are many women in this world who would forgive this and this issue does happen in real world a lot.

But Murtasim as a character has been promoted as the ideal husband by Geo, 7th sky , director, writer and the cast members. This is where the problem lies and this what was wrong in the show.

Anyways, as they didn't show MR.....so it wasn't MR for me. Regardless of MR , Murtasim was a very grey character and should have never been promoted like this. Everyone in the TB team has done a disservice to the fans in this matter.

Me ka kya hi bolun..There is no accountability and acceptance of her flaws from her side.