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Posted: 2 years ago
#41

It was hard seeing Ak in that state. But it was critical to bring her down a notch. She had arrogantly placed herself on a pedestal of self-righteousness and was passing judgment every day on Ab. I want to see if she does some real thinking now. I agree the divorce was bad, but contrary to what all say, it was an equally hard time for both. No one was enjoying it, both were unable to control their emotions and lashed out in anger in their own ways..... Ab by asking for divorce which was inhumane, and Ak by hiding the baby using him as revenge since Ab refused to listen in his distraught state. The difference is Ab made an impulsive decision 6 years back, it was not preplanned, but what Ak did for the last 6 years was well thought out. Every step was intentional with the aim to hurt Ab. Therein lies the main difference between their actions.


For once Mj was right. I Wish Ak had understood this 6 years back and given them all space to stabilize themselves. Then none of this would've even happened.... but Ak has never been sensitive about others' emotions. She was an empath, so she always thought she had to go impose herself even where she was not needed. Her POV was sharing grief, but she never understood what Mj said, the person who is the cause of grief can never give comfort at that point. best would be to leave and let others help. Glad Ab listened, and was sensitive enough to give them all space. and left, otherwise there would've been some ugly words exchanged today, and more MUs may have been created.


But, I'm most happy that the BC fraud was called out. Just because Ak gave birth, it did not make her God. She desired to change nature by falsifying a document as sacred as the BC. Being divorced does not give a woman the right to change her child's identity. That child will always be the son of the birth father. I've written this before, but again, if she wanted Nav to be her child's father, she should've disclosed the truth to Ab and got legal consent from Ab for Nav to adopt. Only a legal adoption can allow a change in the BC, but that decision was Ab's, not Ak's. So, even if AB gives Abhir to Ak, saying he will visit on the weekends, and pays child alimony (to which she cannot object anymore), that child will be Abhir Birla from now onwards. It was always jarring to hear Nav shamelessly claim him as his son, especially in front of Ab, and he tried his best to keep it that way by acting nice to Ab, so he does not raise this BC issue. Yes, as Ak's husband, he was Abhir's caretaker and helped Ak raise him, but the claim of any legal rights without a proper adoption procedure was wrong.


Let's see where this goes now.... it's hard to predict. But they have to disclose the truth.... Navra's main judgment is in front of Abhir. How are they going to justify all the falsehood they have been feeding him? And answer his question as to why they did not reveal the truth even after he knew that Nav was not the real father. If Nav could explain divorce as katti between adults, they could have revealed Ab's identity easily and shared some co-parenting arrangements among themselves. Rather in their selfishness they procrastinated and kept Ab and ABhir waiting. I feel Ak's premonition will also come true, she will stand guilty in Abhir's eyes and he will call Navra out for that.

Edited by aardhan - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
#42

@TM


Even I was surprised that they addressed the fact that Akshara and Abhinav didn't follow legal procedure to change Abhir's name.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

😆 It's just for time period...


I mean, unless Abhir himself decides to use that name, I don't think it matters much...

When (if) judgement will reverse, given Akshara is Sharma, child will probably get new last name too. So, as long as Akshara is Sharma and there is legal decision is in favor of AkshNav in future, he will go back to being Sharma.


All I care to know is how will Abhir start calling himself that...

Yes changes can be done but in the birth certificate biological father's name has to be updated.

Guardian name

Abhinav Sharma

Father's name

Abhimanyu Birla

Once Abhir becomes Major he can decide whether he wants Sharma, Birla, Goenka, Singhania or Maheshwari.

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Team Abhimanyu (Gen 3)

Posted: 2 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: shahsb_26


This discussion is completely off but okie


😆 Abhinav has already proven that paalnewala papa can also be good and that message has been given..


And if certain people can have some dreams and hopes of different level, why would it be completely wrong if some people hope to see AkshNav's child? Like seriously, and you may get one to prove difference between two leads - Abhinav and Abhimanyu.


My dream toh also includes that Abhimanyu gets one chance to be acche paalne wale papa ka title with AkshNav's child. He will carry her to hospital and help in delivery. Tab Akshara will confer the title of father ji to Abhimanyu.


C'mon not fair that some fans are allowed to write manipulation theories or basic courtesy action and others can't even hope for basic relationship between husband and wife. Haddh hai...

The entire narrative is set on Akshara's complicated pregnancy and toofani raath. Her pregnancy was risky. Again people want to show on ITV that woman has to go through pregnancy again in order to give a child to her second husband where as she was shown as almost dying and went to a comatose position during her first birth. ? People can wish for anything but if people are talking about showing the right things on tv and want Akshara to stay with Abhinav for that reason then why can't they show something different like adopting a kid or going for some other procedures than Akshara carrying a kid again?

People have to decide realistic chahiye toh sab realistic mileage. It can't be situational where sometimes people say Akshu should not go back to her husband because of her past and other time we ask for a kid from a woman who had a difficult pregnancy.

I am more curious about why we are not thinking realistically here. I never considered yrkkh as a realistic show so if I wish for some nonsense it still makes sense but many people here argued that Abhi is abusive, toxic which is a itv norm so if akshu choosing abhinav is a good thing then ask for good things only so that a meaningful show can be created.

Establishing a relationship can be done without giving birth to a child too. There are many couples I know who do not have children but still living happily.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Maybe because Naira is legacy kid and blood relation of both Aksharas and DKP is obsessed with blood- soul connection.


The problem I had with this show since beginning 😆 Arohi is Karthik's daughter like Akshara but his upbringing or blood didn't really matter to makers, Seerat's daughter is negative lead 🤦‍♀️


That's such an iTv thing though in every damn show... It's like kids who knows their parents as a child are turned into Traumatic past wala kid... Like Pihu in Balh 2 and I think Kairav was here... Kairav not being main lead and having a girl who hasn't even seen legacy mommy is also stupid thing...

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Posted: 2 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Yes changes can be done but in the birth certificate biological father's name has to be updated.

Guardian name

Abhinav Sharma

Father's name

Abhimanyu Birla

Once Abhir becomes Major he can decide whether he wants Sharma, Birla, Goenka, Singhania or Maheshwari.


Manifesting Maheshwari be his choice 🤣

Posted: 2 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: shahsb_26


Manifesting Maheshwari be his choice 🤣

Singhania. Maheshwari had a black spot a.k.a Shaurya

Singhanias had none

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Posted: 2 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka


wait for marriage to Abhinav to be declared as faux one too …😅😅😅

Bina move on kiye 6 yrs se 🤪

..parde ke piche band khidki ke ander ..do mulakat mein move on 😆

Edited by DiamondLife - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Yes changes can be done but in the birth certificate biological father's name has to be updated.

Guardian name

Abhinav Sharma

Father's name

Abhimanyu Birla

Once Abhir becomes Major he can decide whether he wants Sharma, Birla, Goenka, Singhania or Maheshwari.


Matlab Akshara Gaurdian nahi hai 🤔

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Posted: 2 years ago
#50

I am so glad that they brought the birth certificate lie and that was actually bigger reason that Akshara lost custody.

Yes, name can be changed but that has to go through legal procedure. You can’t just put anyone name on child’s birth certificate. Both parents have to be in agreement

In addition, Akshara had to come back on earth as she was always threatening with custody case and always asking Abhi not to reveal since her patiji will feel bad who actually has no legal rights on kid. Just yesterday she was telling Abhi that oh you can come visit sometimes Abhir and I will come twice a year UD and you can meet him. She was flying too high and was overconfident.
She was never thinking about Abhir she was always thinking about Abhi so today’s pain she got only because of herself

I do not know what is the future story and if even Abhi sacrifice and give back Abhir, Abhi will have upper hand and hopefully Akshara redemption will start from there too.

She is also wrong for hiding, lying and threading Abhi many times. As a woman I do feel bad for her not all women are right all the time and she has done wrong too


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