Akshara the bad mother? - Page 3

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I can say the same for you that you're Villanising Abhimanyu coz of your inclination towards Abhinav or Akshara by this logic. Also, it's not ML standard is very low. Coz honestly i personally don't like Men who are like Abhi or Abhinav for that matter.

It's ITV if you think they will show the most sorted perfect version of the characters then you are in denial. Every other character doesn't communicate well coz otherwise story hai hi kahan.

About Aarohi i respect that it's your personal opinion.

But I personally haven't forgotten how she was and what she did just coz of now.

For me Abhi>Aarohi

ML needs to have more monologues about what he did,why he did,and how he's regretting.. instead we see him crying Infront of shefali and aaru once..usko dekh ke lagta hi nehi he did any mistake or he feels sorry what Akshara had to go thru in pregnancy.. how still his mother calls her name and accuse her,he just stand and watch..how to feel bad for him?

At least Arohi has genuinely changed for good unlike characters like Pakhi Didi and Cheeni who still have malicious intentions and obsessed with the ML! Arohi is a good mother too and loves her daughter unlike those characters who just use kids for their selfish motives!

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Nobody forgotten what arohi did, nobody saying she wasn't wrong before, nobody hailing her mistake, nobody making excuses.. people are just appreciating the new her, who is not playing victim and blaming everyone for her misery..

ML needs to have more monologues about what he did,why he did,and how he's regretting.. instead we see him crying Infront of shefali and aaru once..usko dekh ke lagta hi nehi he did any mistake or he feels sorry what Akshara had to go thru in pregnancy.. how still his mother calls her name and accuse her,he just stand and watch..how to feel bad for him?

About Arohi actually people are sympathising her I just didn't bring up that topic out of nowhere. I observed and said. People are praising her and speaking as if she is the victim of Abhimanyu or something.

About ML yes agreed. But here at this moment both ML and FL were not given any monologue. From where I am coming from i pointed out every mistake of Abhi right at this forum. Now when see AK going meri family best jaap for me it's like why did you decided to struggle in your pregnancy then- where is the sense in this.

I accepted that abhi ka shefali k samne rona is the best we can get so far. But FL ka maine woh bhi nahi dekha. I agree what AK and Neil did day should be praised and AK should not be blamed for what happened but Neil died day as far as her question to Abhi that what would have happened if she died instead of Neil was correct. It was also needed for her to apologise to them that due to their impulsive acts someone died.

Impulsive being the key word - both lost a beautiful life together cause of it.

So both need to apologise to eachother but here we see AK acting as if she did everything right and she is doing everything right but guess what she is not.

I don't know why we are comparing characters here as they all have different graph

Because Aarohi is justified, Abhimanyu should be justified more

Because Akshara is justified, Manjiri also should be

Every character has their own graph and move according to the story. But as per current track few characters maybe more wrong than others. I do agree some of us have different perspectives but we really can't justify it by blaming other characters.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

I don't know why we are comparing characters here as they all have different graph

Because Aarohi is justified, Abhimanyu should be justified more

Because Akshara is justified, Manjiri also should be

Every character has their own graph and move according to the story. But as per current track few characters maybe more wrong than others. I do agree some of us have different perspectives but we really can't justify it by blaming other characters.

I should put this on my wall. When i started making/sharing my POV on Abhinav the first comments i got was how bad Abhimanyu as a husband was.

And today also i didn't justify anyone just pointed out that if someone thinks others are supporting Manjari because she is simping their fav then that's also the case with Aarohi.

Also, if the situation is even 19-20 types similar comparison hoga hi that's what also i received as a comment.

It's actually weird to see blaming one character and hailing other for the same thing. If Manjari was wrong in hiding Neil's identity which she was. So is Akshara.

If Abhimanyu is still the same and everything is facade then same is the case with Aarohi.

And if Akshara have priorities Abhi as her husband even 30% of what she is doing with Abhinav alot of problems would not have happened.

This is my perspective. Even when i was making comments on how Abhi is doing things wrong i have said that he is not a bad person he just did a few bad things I still stand by that.

Aarohi on the other hand was a bad person.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

About Arohi actually people are sympathising her I just didn't bring up that topic out of nowhere. I observed and said. People are praising her and speaking as if she is the victim of Abhimanyu or something.

Teen teen bar shadi tod raha hain aaru ke saath Abhimanyu, aur isbar to woh kuch galat bhi nehi kar rahi 😂 that's why people are sympathizing with her.. right now she's most lonely person still not complaining,her fiance not even looking at her.. so yes people do see her as a victim right now..if abhi didn't wanted to marry,he should've let her go that day only..but he stopped her and didn't back out also, still he's not taking care of her, including her in anything..it's wrong..

About ML yes agreed. But here at this moment both ML and FL were not given any monologue. From where I am coming from i pointed out every mistake of Abhi right at this forum. Now when see AK going meri family best jaap for me it's like why did you decided to struggle in your pregnancy then- where is the sense in this.

She was in trama 6 years ago,they made her feel she was the problem,not anyone else but she is the one who did the mistake. that's why she prefered to leave forever..she wasn't in right state of mind..agar koyi uske piche jata,usko samjhata to woh chali aati,but no one cared enough..also it's not like she didn't care about them and their feelings at all.. she did contact them later and now she's healed,happy.her family also wanted her.. that's why she's doing meri family best jaap now..

I accepted that abhi ka shefali k samne rona is the best we can get so far. But FL ka maine woh bhi nahi dekha. I agree what AK and Neil did day should be praised and AK should not be blamed for what happened but Neil died day as far as her question to Abhi that what would have happened if she died instead of Neil was correct. It was also needed for her to apologise to them that due to their impulsive acts someone died.

I also think she needs to apologize, specially to aaru and ruhi..yaad to karna chahiye at least 😅

Impulsive being the key word - both lost a beautiful life together cause of it.

So both need to apologise to eachother but here we see AK acting as if she did everything right and she is doing everything right but guess what she is not.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I should put this on my wall. When i started making/sharing my POV on Abhinav the first comments i got was how bad Abhimanyu as a husband was.

And today also i didn't justify anyone just pointed out that if someone thinks others are supporting Manjari because she is simping their fav then that's also the case with Aarohi.

Also, if the situation is even 19-20 types similar comparison hoga hi that's what also i received as a comment.

It's actually weird to see blaming one character and hailing other for the same thing. If Manjari was wrong in hiding Neil's identity which she was. So is Akshara.

If Abhimanyu is still the same and everything is facade then same is the case with Aarohi.

And if Akshara have priorities Abhi as her husband even 30% of what she is doing with Abhinav alot of problems would not have happened.

This is my perspective. Even when i was making comments on how Abhi is doing things wrong i have said that he is not a bad person he just did a few bad things I still stand by that.

Aarohi on the other hand was a bad person.

I was just talking from this TMs thread perspective and your response on that for comparison. Here it was out of context to bring Aarohi.

Abhimanyu as husband was bad. You agree or not. He is good as father but not as husband. He was controlling dominating from the beginning. He was just mother's son but his full redemption we didn't see yet. He keeps repeating that mistakes. He would not have pulled Akshara in middle of pheras to put his point. He does that because his point of view always takes priority. When both Abhinav and Abhimanyu motivated akshara for law exam one did it angrily and other did it calmly. That's why comparisons are bound to come if it makes sense but not here

Aarohi was super bad as well and no one denies that but she has learnt from mistakes. So far not seeing where she is wrong.

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

well She did a mistake taking neil with her,she got punished for his death.. she lost her baby,got divorced,was accused of 9 or whatever murders, blamed by family.. she accepted her punishment without saying anything (as a husband and mother of his child,she expected his sympathy little bit) but she didn't get anything..waited for him to come and take her but he didn't cared enough..so after that, whatever she did was right.. I won't say her wrong..call me anything but I won't blame her for not telling him about abhir.. birla and Goyenka are hell hole.. revealing abhir truth mean her baby going in that house,where she would've been another manjhiri(except the physical violence) and abhir would've been the tramatized baby like abhi who would've hated his family.. instead she made a beautiful home for her baby..kitna bhi law wagera le aao, this is never wrong for me..

Pheli baat toh yeh k Bade papa gaye the uske peeche woh nahi aayi.

I never denied k trauma nahi tha

Abhimanyu ne actually shaadi todi nahi hai. He made it clear k Ruhi k liye kr rha hun woh usko partner jaise hope hi nahi di toh baat hi nahi aati iski.

About law laana woh bade papa ji le aaye hain result is week dekhte hain kya aarha hai.

And jo apne baat kahi hai woh sab main phele keh chuki hun, soch chuki hun aur uske baad my perspective is k overall galati bus abhimanyu ki nahi thi

It was dono ki unke rishte mein. About white day jo abhimanyu ne kiya uski punishment usko yeh bhi toh hai k akshu doesn't even love him anymore toh dono ko hi mili.

Again Abhimanyu wasn't a bad person.

But Arohi was.

And now agar ek ek scene analyse karo toh Nav jab KV k bahar jaane par itna blame game start krdiya tha toh Abhi ka bhai mra tha. Akshu incase KV ya BP ko kuch hojata hai almost hi react krti

Magar sabko benefit of doubt, ek new chance to redeem mila hai except Abhimanyu. All he is saying k mere bache ko bta do main baap hun aur mujhe uski life ma hissa hona hai tum bhi raho tum maa ho palne wale papa bhi rahe hain but yeh mera haq hai and i don't find him wrong here.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

I was just talking from this TMs thread perspective and your response on that for comparison. Here it was out of context to bring Aarohi.

Abhimanyu as husband was bad. You agree or not. He is good as father but not as husband. He was controlling dominating from the beginning. He was just mother's son but his full redemption we didn't see yet. He keeps repeating that mistakes. He would not have pulled Akshara in middle of pheras to put his point. He does that because his point of view always takes priority. When both Abhinav and Abhimanyu motivated akshara for law exam one did it angrily and other did it calmly. That's why comparisons are bound to come if it makes sense but not here

Aarohi was super bad as well and no one denies that but she has learnt from mistakes. So far not seeing where she is wrong.

He wasn't always bad. Akshara wasn't the perfect wife either.

If Abhi should have controlled his emotions and waited till pheras and vidai. Abhinav toh rpad par chala gya tha woh bhi utna hi adult hai control krna tha na

She is wrong because she never apologies to anyone. Never admited that she was wrong and acts all like k humesha se itni achi thi bus koi smjha nahi

Agar usne Abhi ki tarah kisi ko ek ko bhi bola hota na k main bht buri thi toh alag baat thi yahan toh woh camp mein vicitim play hi kr rhi thi na abhinav k aage bhi

Originally posted by: chaipaani

He wasn't always bad. Akshara wasn't the perfect wife either.

If Abhi should have controlled his emotions and waited till pheras and vidai. Abhinav toh rpad par chala gya tha woh bhi utna hi adult hai control krna tha na

She is wrong because she never apologies to anyone. Never admited that she was wrong and acts all like k humesha se itni achi thi bus koi smjha nahi

Agar usne Abhi ki tarah kisi ko ek ko bhi bola hota na k main bht buri thi toh alag baat thi yahan toh woh camp mein vicitim play hi kr rhi thi na abhinav k aage bhi

Agree Akshara was not good wife as well.. She was big dumbo infact but now I think atleast she has that character graph and trying to nice wife to Abhinav so that's why appreciating her. But still she is not perfect and needs growth as well. ITV FLs are known for hiding things which is why sometimes they are super annoying as well.

Yeah Abhinav rora tha but Yahan pe he learnt big truth and saw Abhir running after Abhimanyu. Manjiri already polluted his mind, he learnt his son knows he is not his dad .. His life is Abhir so that was his emotions which in real life we cannot control. Yeah but he did go to sisters marriage as soon as he got gaslighted. The problem with Abhinav is he takes all on himself than on others where as Abhimanyu first goes to others. Both are not always good for relationship but Abhinavs problems can still be handled as he doesnt act impulsively.

But what was urgency for Abhimanyu.