Aur ab kya bole? - Page 5

Kiya tha is the key here, he is evolving at least..

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Kiya tha is the key here, he is evolving at least..

I can put it this way.....kisi aur post per maine likha tha:

As far as his repentance is concerned....I m not convinced...😂

Firstly these days he is in kasauli...away from the influence of his mamma...(though she is here..but still).and in abhi's case, his mamma's influence cannot be ignored....😂

kasauli is akshu's place....he is staying at sharmas...along with his mom...if he is having a slightest of recall, he would remember how he and his mamma had treated alshu and abhinav when they had come to BH for abhi's engagement ritual...and how abhinav and akshu r treating him and his mamma....sp bande mein thodi sharam to hoti hi hogi....

My concern is, agar he would be repenting.....he would not be taking abhir from his mamma.....Though its just from promos, but that has influenced my thinking...and i dont think he is repenting/evolving....

As of now, what i feel is ...he is repenting losing akshu....but not what he had/has done to her.......😂

abhi and his mamma look like gundas...dhamkao abhinav to leave his wife...😂 ...

IMO, kuch hoga where he will realise, regret and repent...😂 shayad Mere hopes hain...😂 and there the story will turn towards abhi and akshu....

The actual mother of the child is so busy coddling her husband that she is ignoring the needs and stress of the child. So why is the father not allowed to believe she will continue doing that so he wants to look after the child? How is a kid going to get a complete family where his mother doesn't prioritize him and his needs because his insecure father needs her more, something the mother recognizes and pays attention to? Akshara is being an amazing wife, no doubts, but the way they are showing her as a mother, does not get her the mother of the year award. To me, it feels like she deliberately made Abhinav be more important for Abhir so that Abhir doesn't want to leave Abhinav ever, so she can justify keeping Abhir away from Abhimanyu as Abhir not wanting to be with him even after knowing him.

I dont think we are going to agree on this.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

The actual mother of the child is so busy coddling her husband that she is ignoring the needs and stress of the child. So why is the father not allowed to believe she will continue doing that so he wants to look after the child? How is a kid going to get a complete family where his mother doesn't prioritize him and his needs because his insecure father needs her more, something the mother recognizes and pays attention to? Akshara is being an amazing wife, no doubts, but the way they are showing her as a mother, does not get her the mother of the year award. To me, it feels like she deliberately made Abhinav be more important for Abhir so that Abhir doesn't want to leave Abhinav ever, so she can justify keeping Abhir away from Abhimanyu as Abhir not wanting to be with him even after knowing him.

I dont think we are going to agree on this.

for past 6 years, abhir has been with his parents and has been shown as a well brought up happy child.....

I think everyone agrees to this.....

the neighbours had been praising him and his parvarish...when manjari was really angry as to y he was not referred as birla...

abhi was not there and neither his mamma...for abhir to b brought up as a loving happy and satisfied child!!

Nobody is denying any of that. Nobody is saying Abhinav and Akshara did not bring Abhir up nicely. Akshara is now more concerned about Abhinav and his feelings than her own son. There is Nobody who can deny that also. She is not being shown good at balancing herself as a wife and as a mother, that's all everyone's saying. Abhimanyu is being over Abhir centric, yes, because his world is Abhir only at the moment.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Nobody is denying any of that. Nobody is saying Abhinav and Akshara did not bring Abhir up nicely. Akshara is now more concerned about Abhinav and his feelings than her own son. There is Nobody who can deny that also. She is not being shown good at balancing herself as a wife and as a mother, that's all everyone's saying. Abhimanyu is being over Abhir centric, yes, because his world is Abhir only at the moment.

but that does not show in Abhir;s upbringinf....

koi kuch bhi kahe usse farak kya padta hai....

if she is not a good mom, abhir ko kya abhi and uski mamma ne pala tha itne saal??

show off karne ki cheez nahi hai ki aap ne kaise paale hain bacche...ya aap kitna dhyaan rakhte ho unka....dikh jaate hain.....and abhir ka dikhta hai...and sharmas as parents ka bhi....😂

Upbringing is what he got till date, which is not getting questioned. It is the NOW behavior of Akshara that is getting counted because they are showing her more concerned about Abhinav's emotions than Abhir's. That's it.

How? Just because she is concerned about sudden behavioral change of her husband doesn’t make her less aware of her son’s emotions.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Upbringing is what he got till date, which is not getting questioned. It is the NOW behavior of Akshara that is getting counted because they are showing her more concerned about Abhinav's emotions than Abhir's. That's it.

aree...normal families mein har waqt kya parents bacchon ke peeche ghoomte rahte hain??

isnt it insane to expect that?

shaadi ka ghar hai/...family and abhi manjari jaise mehmaan ghar per hain...to ?

I dont think v have anything to discuss here.....au have agreed abhir has been very well brought up.....

its is a family.....har ghar mein hota hai....kabhi kisi ko care ki zaroorat hai kabhi kisi ko....and family ka kaam hai us waqt support karna...and sharma family is doing it very well....

only families that do not care about ecah other, ko aisa ajeeb lagta hoga......