Originally posted by: Hopefaith
Agree with your pov AY Not comparing Ab and Ak both have faced grief of rejection, I am not sure how to explain this but my opinion Ak has more expectations from Ab than anyone else in her life that could be one of the reasons why she feels let down by him the most. Her possessiveness( for lack of a better word) towards him comes out through anger and the way she treats him, though I was troubled by how they depicted white day Ab also considered her his and that’s one of the reasons he let go in front of her. Both were hurting and both have done foolish things he is ten steps ahead of her and has realized made amends and is more clear in his thinking.
I was trying to be kind to the writers but i agree the writing for her is practically nonexistentAs far as Ar is concerned you are right and if I was Ak I would have cut off ties with her a long time back it’s some kind of strange you have to be loyal and forgive/ disregard the deeds of your siblings or blood relatives no matter how cruel they have been to you theory.
Wohi toh....if divorce was possible between siblings, Arohi would be signing that paper daily and throwing it in Akshara's face😆. Heck, I do recall that she has disowned Akshara a couple of times by saying ki tu meri behen nahin blah blah.....did Akshara go and adopt another sister from the orphanage to replace Arohi? No, she didn't....she was still busy doing "Meri Aru, haaye bechaari Aru" only😆
So to try and hold up the divorce papers in Abhi's case as an end all, be all for their relationship starts to ring hollow then.....if she held on to her love for her sister even after being demeaned, mentally tortured, derided, planned/plotted against sooooo much....then how did divorce papers only become a the end for her in Abhi's case? Did her sister too not toss her out after seeing that she had miscarried? That didn't matter to Akshara? But Abhi breaking off ties in grief over so many deaths and his mom pretty much almost dying in front of his eyes again....how did that become the only thing that Akshara could hold up as an example of her pain not being acknowledged?
If she held the same standard for EVERYONE that let her down that day, heck I would applaud her righteousness....but no, she only chose Abhi to punish and punish viciously by erasing him from his son's life....with that act, she lost the moral righteousness she could have held on to over feeling hurt by the divorce. She also never looked back that day even after knowing that Abhi too had lost a lot and was grieving his children - she barely hesitated before putting down another man's name as a father to Abhi's child....so they both let each other down and it isn't Abhi alone who is guilty of letting his grief consume him and blind him to her pain.



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